In this life, people want to have a fulfillment.
Around this goal, everyone spares no cost and spares no effort to work hard.
So, what is true fulfillment?
There is a cliché that points out the truth:
It is not a blessing to be young to be blessed, but it is a blessing to be blessed to be old.
When they were young, they lacked enough experience, no strong skills, and even no network advantage. In this case, if you are greedy for pleasure, it is easy to stop yourself.
Only by resisting the pressure, grasping the good years of youth, and maintaining an enterprising posture can such a friend find his personal positioning in the passage of time and strive for the opportunity to stand out.
Blessings are about cause and effect.
Just like planting in spring and harvesting in autumn, what kind of cause is planted, what kind of fruit will be produced.
A full life also needs to be precipitated.
We often see the first half of our lives as a process of sowing seeds.
If you want to have blessings, let the old age of life, and truly grasp a fullness, you need to cherish the young time, constantly improve, in the precipitation of the years, and finally achieve a different self.
But in life, we often face the "wrong problem" life.
For example, everyone will fall into interpersonal distress, will also question life, and even use a playful attitude to waste limited time. The result of the wrong question will definitely make the rest of your life go on the road with regrets.
If the direction of the effort is wrong, even if you put in the time and energy, you are doomed to failure.
On the contrary, if you find the right direction before the age of thirty and continue to persevere, you are bound to win the favor of fate and become a truly blessed person, and your life will also achieve true fulfillment.
A person's evening view, thirty years old will have a "premonition", do not be aware of hindsight.
Love life, whether or not.
With growth, a person's worldview gradually takes shape.
At the age of thirty, basically have a relatively comprehensive understanding of life, and will have their own understanding and views. At the same time, everyone's subconscious will also be affected by some ideas.
Some people say that thirty years old is like a threshold.
After some tempering, friends who gradually find personal positioning and taste the sweetness of hard work will maintain an attitude of love for life and continue to cultivate in the field to which they belong.
Because they are clearly positioned, know where their needs are, and have enough experience at the same time.
So in the next journey, it will often be smooth sailing.
There are also some friends who may have worked hard and persevered. But experience tells yourself that the payment and the gain are not necessarily proportional, and under the influence of this mentality, it is easy for everyone to be discouraged.
If everyone, like the latter, treats the rest of their lives with a negative attitude, the results can be imagined, and they may gradually drift away from happiness. And those friends who remain enthusiastic are more likely to win the favor of fate, and the evening scenery will become more and more beautiful.
Can you be tolerant of others?
We all know that no one is perfect.
In interpersonal communication, many people can't help but harshly criticize the people around them.
The result of this will only be to put yourself in embarrassment.
And those who understand the sophistication of human feelings and can also master interpersonal skills often use their wisdom and tolerance to become the object of everyone's trust and win a good relationship for themselves.
What kind of scene will a person's evening view have?
In fact, from our thirty-year-old state, we can get a glimpse of it.
When getting along with others, if you can maintain tolerance and understanding, you can often win the favor of nobles for yourself. Even if you lack connections, noble people will gradually come to you.
On the contrary, those who like to be harsh will lose their interpersonal charm and will also face the dilemma of "pushing the wall down". If everyone is slow to realize this, and insists on treating people in this style, they will inevitably be in a state of singularity in their later years, and there will be no real close friends around.
Whether you can be responsible for life.
Who do we rely on in this lifetime?
Standing at the beginning of life, we often look forward to having someone responsible for themselves.
Before entering the society, everyone will grow up under the protection of family affection.
But friends should understand that one day, they need to face the ups and downs, and they need to use an independent posture to meet many challenges in life. If everyone realizes it later, it is easy to miss the opportunity to grow.
I hope that all parties can usher in a consummation.
If, at the age of thirty, we still have a cynical attitude, how many opportunities do we have to change ourselves in the limited time we have for the rest of our lives?
Standing at the threshold of thirty years old, those who are responsible for themselves can cherish the current time, understand the meaning of this life, and work hard for it, and finally achieve their dreams and usher in a change in life.
Traditionally, there is a saying that "three years old looks old".
For many friends, to truly achieve self-knowledge, it takes life experience.
After a period of time, form their own world view, everyone will use these concepts in life, to guide their own words and deeds. And these behaviors, in turn, affect the direction of our lives.
At the age of thirty, I have ushered in the stage of standing.
From this stage onwards, everyone's mentality has become more and more stable.
If you want to see the situation of a person in his later years, basically from this age stage, you can find clues.
Those friends who maintain a love for life, can be tolerant of others, and maintain a responsible attitude towards themselves, often can use a positive attitude to deal with the next challenges of life, and can also become the people who are truly cared for by fate.
The rest of your life is not long or short, I hope that in the critical stage, you can influence the direction of your life, usher in a better situation, and have a full life in this life.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.