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"Xiao Min Jia" starring Zhou Xun and Huang Lei is being broadcast, and many viewers are crying by the scene where Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo broke up.
This is not only the actor's good performance and strong empathy ability, but this really fulfills the love of middle-aged people, how bitter is it?
Think but can't get, what do you want to live?
It should be reluctant to just talk to the past
Thinking of Li Zongsheng's song, I can neither get it nor forget it, how can this feeling not be bitter.
This is the situation that Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo are facing at this time, and they cannot get it or forget it.
This is the first time that Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo have been in a relationship for more than a year, going to his house, obviously two people who are very much in love, but this moment is very polite and strange.
Chen Zhuo politely led Xiao Min to visit his home, and then politely asked, "That, how is Jia Jun now?" ”
"He promised me that I could review at home or go to Tsinghua." Xiao Min said.
"Tsinghua, he will definitely be admitted, no problem." Chen Zhuo repeated that they all had their own concerns at the moment, and they also knew that this day would happen sooner or later.
But at this moment, I don't want to say it, and I don't want to face it, but like two young people who have just fallen in love, I asked the other party how many times they were in love, why do you like me.
If you don't want to face the present, just look back at the past.
"I know why you like me" "Why? ”
"Because I'm good-looking, and I'm one of those types of storytellers, yes, brings joy and reduces stress, and people's brains buzz." Some narcissistic, some surprised.
I didn't want to face this moment, but I had to, when the words were busy with their own, they could never go back.
Finally, they said goodbye in their mouths, full of hearts but unwilling, holding each other's hands, unwilling to let go.
"Why didn't you touch each other when you were young?" this is Chen Zhuo's true inner voice at this moment.
In fact, it is not untouched, but it is not the time.
The first time he met was at Li Ping's wedding, Chen Zhuo was Li Ping's groom, he clearly remembered Xiao Min's appearance at that time, Wen Jing was beautiful, even after so many years, he had never forgotten it.
He said that he had two or three serious girlfriends before he was with Xiaomin, and they all walked and walked and dispersed.
And Xiao Min, in addition to her ex-husband Jin Bo, is Chen Zhuo, although Chen Zhuo said that he did not believe, in fact, he believed in his heart, mainly in his heart, Xiao Min looked so good, there must be many people chasing her.
In fact, it is still not willing.
The phrase "It's nice to know you" is an inexhaustible emotion.
Looking back on the past year or so, they have supported each other and cherished each other, and now they have broken up with dignity, without emotional catharsis.
That pair of hands that are reluctant to let go, don't dare to look at each other's eyes, uncomfortable but stoic, really see people's hearts are broken, this is the love of adults: is hidden tolerance, is restraint.
Xiao Min said that after the breakup, she was still a friend, and Chen Zhuo borrowed a phrase from a young man on the Internet and said:
"If you have been a couple and can still be friends, it means that it is not true love, so let's not be friends, at least that is still true love." 」
Still love, or restraint, they are not unloving, nor do they have anything to do with children, they are parents who will choose this way.
This is the love of middle-aged people.
They are not as unscrupulous and desperate as young people, and there is no pure love to speak of in their world.
Falling in love is always simple, but real life is like a river, separating two people on both sides of the river.
What's even more frightening is that their love affair can only be carried out secretly, secretly liked, secretly loved, and hidden from everyone.
Even so, in the days when Chen Zhuo appeared, he also created some small surprises and small romances for Xiao Min.
So no matter what, knowing Chen Zhuo is the happiest thing in her life.
If it wasn't for Jin Bo going to Beijing, if it wasn't for Li Ping's miscarriage, maybe they could continue to secretly sweeten it, but in the end, this underground love affair had to end before it saw the light of day.
You say bitter is not bitter.
Some people say that Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo were right to break up because he did two things wrong.
He once said that Xiao Min and Jia Jia were tied for the first place in his heart, but when there was really something wrong, he was always on the side of the blood relatives.
This shows his selfishness, in fact, it is not, as a parent, it must be the child and the closest relatives will always be the first, if there must be a sacrifice, it must be love, no matter who.
There is also a scene of li ping in the hospital, Xiao Min who walked out of the ward asked Chen Zhuo Jiajun, Chen Zhuo's performance was not painful or itchy, and even some avoidance, so that Xiao Min was completely hurt.
This is the love of middle-aged people, two divorced people with children, want to fall in love and remarry when there are too many things to worry about, in addition to their respective children, but also consider whether the other parents can accept and other issues.
It's not about selfishness, it's just human instinct.
Middle-aged love, twists and turns, bitter and unforgettable.
Although Xiao Min and Chen Zhuo's paragraph is uncomfortable, what is left for people is endless warmth, and it does not matter how the ending is.
Because this is the love of middle-aged people, if you want to love, you dare not love, hate and hate, you can only let the heart crawl with bitterness.
But fortunately, when people reach middle age, they can see a lot of things, and they will no longer be vulnerable, and they will not seek death and life.
On the contrary, it is a mentality of being fortunate to have me, and I am very grateful to be able to walk with me for a while.
The love of middle-aged people is rational and restrained, although the surface is plain, the heart is actually warm and romantic.
Finally, order a song by Li Zongsheng's "Song for Yourself" to those who are suffering for love,
May you be able to hear the story in your heart, and you can also let go of the past and let the smile fall on your cheek.
Think of it but don't get it
What do you live in?
The reluctance of the house
Just talking about the past
Wait until you find out that time is a thief
It has long since stolen your options
Love is nothing more than a high fever
Thoughts are followed by a cough that can't be better...
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