The ancients said that several major factors that affect the trajectory of a person's life are "one life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four cultivation of yin and five readings", of which the biggest influence is obviously "fate", many people may subconsciously think that "fate" is the birth environment, but in fact, it is not only so. "Life" is also closely related to people's own personality, so people say that "character determines destiny", and even "character is destiny".
Therefore, the ancestors said that some people who are blessed with a good life will usually have these 3 characteristics in terms of personality, if you have one on your body, it is also a great blessing, and the following author will introduce it to you separately:
The first is "contentment without controversy", Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching, "Good is like water, water is water and all things are not disputed... The husband can not argue, so the world can not fight with it", being a man should be like water, helping all living things without selfishness, but never fighting for anything, being at the lowest place can achieve its vastness, and it is precisely because of this indisputable part that there is nothing in the world that can compete with him.
In ancient times, there was a very famous sage named Xu You, legend has it that he once served as the teacher of the three emperors of Yao Shunyu, so he was called "Three Generations of Grandmasters", from childhood to support himself, very moral, rich in the countryside, Emperor Yao heard that after he would zen be located in him, he refused to flee to the side of Jishan Yingshui. Although he did not accept the imperial throne, Xu You has been widely praised by people for thousands of years, and to this day there is still Xu You's former residence "Xu You Village" in Xingtang County, which can be said to be a typical model of "indisputable and the world can not compete with each other".
The second is "self-knowledge", chapter 33 of the Tao Te Ching says that "those who know others are wise, those who know themselves are wise, those who are victorious are strong, and those who are strong in self-victory" are those who can clearly recognize themselves and overcome some of their defects, they are really strong people, and the reason why many things fail is because we cannot truly know ourselves clearly, such as arrogance or inferiority, etc., and it is easy to let the state of life develop in an unfavorable direction.
According to the Book of Jin, When Shi Le, the founding emperor of Later Zhao, set up a banquet to entertain foreign envoys, he asked the chancellor, "Which emperor can I compare with since ancient times?" When the minister listened, the opportunity to pat himself on the back came: "Your wisdom is high and profound, more advanced than That of Liu Bang, the ancestor of Han Gao; your military martial arts are so powerful, far more powerful than Wei Taizu Cao Cao, since the Three Emperors and Five Emperors, you are probably only second only to the Yellow Emperor of Xuanyuan!" ”
Shi Le laughed and said, "Liu Bang is the emperor of the world, if I am in an era with him, then I will be willing to serve as his subordinate Han Xin Yingbu for him to drive; if I am in an era with Liu Xiu, the Emperor of Han Guangwu, then I will have to compete with a duel, and whose hand the deer will die in is still unknown!" From this, it can be seen that Shi Le, as a founding emperor, had a high degree of self-knowledge.
Chapter 63 of the Tao Te Ching says, "The difficult things under the world must be easy; the big things under the world must be done in detail", all the difficult things under the heavens start from simple things, and some great things also start from ordinary and small things, as long as there is love and dreams, then small things can also be done into great causes.
Beethoven, a world-famous musician, said that "to choke the throat of fate", many people in the life is not satisfactory, often complain about the world, blame the fate, but in fact, the fate is in our hands, closely related to our personality, as long as the courage to change good at learning and perseverance, then life can have unlimited possibilities.