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The so-called "fifteen days of the month is less bright, and people are middle-aged and everything is rested." ”
After the fifteenth day of the lunar calendar, the moon slowly lost money, and the light disappeared. And when people reach middle age, all problems and risks will come unexpectedly, and the midlife crisis will come.
In today's world, which generation is most affected by the midlife crisis? In fact, it is the post-70s generation that we know as well.
The post-70s of BenWu are in a very stressful environment, shouldering many responsibilities, and the more they live, the more tired they are. Perhaps, their current hard work is for the future "first bitter and then sweet".
In this world, is there really a good reward of "first bitter and then sweet"? This takes time to test.
Some people have survived a long period of pain and become indestructible in their hearts, then they have withstood the test of time and finally have the good reward of "first bitter and then sweet", which is their luck.
And some people can't survive the long pain, and give up halfway, then their bitterness can't be transformed into "sweetness" after all. This, in fact, is a bit of a pity.
For the post-70s, it is better to continue to insist, if you encounter these signals, it will indicate the good fortune of the second half of their lives.
02
Feeling indifferent to everything, this is the beginning of the auspiciousness.
Lao Tzu believed that there is a realm in this world that is worth learning, and that is the realm of "water".
In the Tao Te Ching, Lao Tzu said that Jiang Hai can be the king of the hundred valleys, and because of his good deeds, he can be the king of the hundred valleys.
The reason why these rivers and seas can become the kings of the world is because they are good at being in a "low" position, and then nourishing all things, which can be called the king of a hundred valleys.
Why is it that people, in a "low" position, endure the hardships of life? I think it is to enhance personal cultivation and realm, and at the same time cultivate an "indifferent" heart.
This indifferent heart, just like "water", is particularly calm on the surface, without waves, but in fact, it is accumulating strength behind it, waiting for the day of a blockbuster.
There is a saying that "don't look at the river as flat as a mirror, but look at the depth of the water." ”
All calm is for the sake of future development. Whether the post-70s generation wants to develop or want to live in peace, it can only cultivate a flat heart, which is an inevitable experience.
03
Prudence and tenacity, good beginnings and good ends, this is a symbol of good luck.
For people to deal with the world, we should start well, close the tail, and not let ourselves leave too many regrets. Just like doing things, you can't be hot for three minutes, but you have to stick to it until you can see the dawn.
Lao Tzu wrote in the Tao Te Ching: "If prudence is the beginning, there is no failure." ”
Man, if we walk cautiously to the end, just as cautiously begin, how can we encounter misfortune? Always vigilant, cautious, is the king.
When people reach middle age, encounter family conflicts and work crises, how should we balance it?
The vast majority of people are depressed, scrambling, and don't know where to start. But they all forgot a little, try to compromise the interests of all parties in the game, why panic so much?
Family contradictions cannot be compromised now, and in old age, the problem is very big. Therefore, to handle it carefully, to have a good relationship with the family, to be more considerate and less to argue, then it will naturally be peaceful.
If we know how to compromise now and know how to balance the forces of all sides, then in the old age, we will not be easy?
04
Thinking of danger in times of peace and preparing for the rain is a symbol of great luck.
Lao Tzu wrote in the Tao Te Ching: "For it is not there, and it is not chaotic to cure it." ”
What these words generally mean is to do things before they happen, and to govern, to prevent evils before they occur.
That is to say, whether it is an individual or a collective, it is necessary to prepare for the worst of certain things, and then actively prepare for it in order to be able to respond to change with the same.
In the case of saving money, many middle-aged people feel that the act of saving money is too conservative, which will only devalue the money, and it is better to invest it. Therefore, they do not leave a deposit for themselves.
Today's market is not good, the market environment is very bad, if we lose money, or are cut leeks, and at the same time, which relative is sick, then what should we do?
For people, we should not only think of the best side, but also think of the worst side, and leave more back roads for ourselves. In this way, the rest of our lives will be long, otherwise, it will be dark.
05
Contentment and happiness, no longer demanding, is the great luck.
Lao Tzu wrote in the Tao Te Ching: "Even love will cost a lot, and if you hide more, you will die." Contentment is not humiliating, knowledge is not lost, can be long-lasting. ”
Too much cherishing of one's own reputation is bound to bring too much damage to oneself; too much hiding of gold and silver treasures and fighting for interests is very close to decay. Only contentment will not be humiliated, only timely stop loss will not fail, this is the long-term way.
Today's middle-aged people hope that they can be happy for the rest of their lives, but they often care about other people's ideas, and often argue over trivial matters.
Happiness is not as simple as how much money we make and how much fame and fortune we have, but let us reduce unnecessary desires, gradually live in the moment, know our own weight, and be content and happy.
People, with food to eat, clothes to wear, room to live in, free time to rest, can do something they like to do, then isn't that happy?
All calamities arise from dissatisfaction; all blessings arise from contentment. That's all.
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