When I was a child, I only watched the jokes, but when I grew up, I found that this was about life. I am Zhiyu, and today I will continue to take you to relive the story of the jianghu of Tongfu Inn.
This time it mainly tells the story of Tong Xiangyu in order not to let Xiaobei lose at the starting line, and painstakingly cultivate her various interests and hobbies.
Recently, the happy events in Seven Heroes Town have been one after another, but the business of Tongfu Inn is not as good as day by day.
It turned out that Xing Yutou had brought a few messages that changed everything.
The first news: Qiu Xiaodong, the son of Qiu Yuanwai, won the Go national player, and Qiu Yuanwai invited everyone to eat shark fin hot pot.
Upon hearing the news, the customers who had just eaten ran to eat hot pot.
"The account has not yet been settled..." Tong shouted, but the people ran out.
At this time, Xiao Bei came back with a dirty face, just crashing into the muzzle of the gun. Therefore, the Tong treasurer stopped Xiao Bei and wanted to see what she was holding.
It turned out that XiaoBei had gone to pinch the clay man.
Tong Treasurer looked angry, the children of other families have become famous, while their own Xiaobei is still pinching clay people, and he hates iron not steel.
Therefore, she punished XiaoBei for writing the Three Character Sutra two hundred times, and was not allowed to eat until she finished writing.
Looking at XiaoBei, who was "not a tool", Tong Xiangyu thought: Other people's children can learn Go, and my family's Xiaobei can also, so before Xiaobei finished writing the Three Character Classic, she let Xiucai teach Xiaobei to learn Go.
But Xiao Bei is actually not interested in learning Go at all, and even does not want to pretend, but there is no way, the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, and the sister-in-law's words cannot be listened to.
Not long after, Xing Yutou brought another message:
Hao Xiaohu, the third son of Hao Xiaohu, won the second place in the junior piano competition held in Pinggu County, and Hao Xiaohu invited everyone to go to Feilong Valley to eat wild game.
Don't eat white, don't eat, everyone is rushing out of the inn to eat wild game again.
Hearing this news, Tong Couldn't sit still, his children can learn, but my children can't?
Thinking that Lao Bai could play the flute, she asked Lao Bai to teach Xiao Bei to play the flute, and the Go flute was "two-pronged".
But with both Go and learning the flute, how could XiaoBei bear it? But Tong was bent on going his own way. Although everyone thinks it is inappropriate, it is difficult to say anything as a guy.
Even if the mountain treasures and seafood are too much to eat, they will be tired, so the customers who ran away a few days ago began to come to the Tongfu Inn one after another to eat coarse tea and light rice, but they did not think that Xing Yutou brought a third news.
The Qianjin of the Song Widow on East Street won the penultimate first place in the calligraphy contest held by Hanlin Temple, and she invited everyone to eat shallots mixed with tofu.
Tong Was angry and cried, "This day still let no one live"?
Not only is the business affected, but also seeing that other people's children have achieved a little success, but their own little Bei has no skills, how can she not be anxious?
So she asked Xiao Guo to teach Xiao Bei calligraphy.
The result is that "the illness is in a hurry", and Xiao Bei learns everything, but he has not learned anything.
The expected "two-pronged approach" is not what he thinks at all, XiaoBei learns to lose one by one, without any effect, but it is counterproductive.
Not only is Xiao Bei irritable and depressed and unhappy, but all the guys are also miserable and depressed in order to teach her.
Finally, everyone gave advice to Tong and asked her to listen to Xiao Bei's thoughts.
Only then did I know that Xiao Bei had no interest in Go, flute, or calligraphy. In contrast, she preferred to paint, so Tong invited the painter to come.
However, although Xiaobei likes to draw, he has no talent for painting. Wang Ba painted a turtle, and the gentleman looked helpless.
Just when the gentleman was disappointed, he suddenly saw three clay figures on Xiaobei's table.
The gentleman was overjoyed, looking at this pinched lifelike clay figure, and could not believe his eyes.
When I asked, I realized that this was Xiao Bei's masterpiece. Mr. Immediately his eyes lit up, thinking that Xiaobei was a material that could be made. So the painting was no longer learned, and the husband took her to pinch the clay man.
In the evening, Tong came to inquire about Xiao Bei's study, but saw two people with mud on their faces, and their hearts were confused, although they were dissatisfied, they could only smile and ask Mr. What is this? Can clay people also count as art?
The gentleman asked, "Why do you want your baby to learn to draw?" ”
Tong Treasurer: "In order not to let her lose at the starting line of life." ”
The gentleman said, "The starting line is here, where is the destination?" ”
Tong replied, "I don't know, take one step at a time." ”
The gentleman said, "Since there is no destination, what is the point of setting up a starting line?"
I think it's okay to ask babies to learn things, but first of all, we must figure out why we have to learn.
We are for interest, in order to cultivate her sentiments, that is worth encouraging. If you are for vanity, for the sake of comparing yourself with others, it is better not to learn. ”
Therefore, the Tong treasurer began to encourage XiaoBei to pinch the clay people.
A few days later, Xing Yutou announced the fourth happy event in Seven Heroes Town.
Tong Treasurer's sister-in-law Mo Xiaobei wants to open the first solo exhibition in Seven Heroes Town, in order to celebrate this grand event, Tong Treasurer decided to let everyone settle the accounts of the previous few days.
Everyone listened silently, and none of them moved to the backyard to see Xiao Bei's clay man exhibition, and Xiao Bei was hit so sadly that she cried.
At this moment, a regular visitor to the inn suddenly got up and went to the backyard to see the results of Xiao Bei, and everyone cheered happily, even if there was only one audience, all the efforts were worth it.
In fact, many parents are now very much like the second Tong Xiangyu, anxious about the future of their children, watching other children are learning new skills in cram school, and worrying about their children losing at the starting line.
Regardless of whether the child agrees or not, he will report a lot of cram classes to the child at once, and he will not consider the child's feelings at all.
The so-called "greedy chewing is not rotten", so that not only the child can not learn anything, but also binds the child, causing psychological pressure to the child, and it will affect the child's mental health over time.
As the saying goes: interest is the best teacher.
To cultivate special hobbies, according to the child's preferences and the child's learning ability, comprehensive children's feelings, moderate choice, is the best choice for children.
Zhu Yongxin, an educator, member of the Standing Committee of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference and deputy secretary-general of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, said: "When all our education fills up the child's space, he will not be able to develop, so he must give the child a little free time so that he can develop into the best version of himself." ”
If you truly love your child, consider his feelings and respect his choices.
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