This life of a person is both short and long, and when the days pass, they cannot feel the passage of time, so they will mistakenly think that life is long, especially in the eyes of young people. Once you look back on the past, you will see it vividly, sigh for a moment, and feel that life is short. People's two feelings about the short and long life are contradictory, just like life is full of contradictions.
About life, the old man said the most a sentence, life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten. A person's life cannot be smooth sailing, and it is most appropriate to use another sentence to describe it - life is like a reverse journey.
To sum up, on the road of life, there are three hurdles, almost everyone will encounter, but the timing of encountering is uncertain, which three hurdles?
First, the obstacles brought about by adversity.
Some people compare life to a movie, but in fact, life is more like a stage play, and the stage play is more real and more vivid than the movie. The brilliance on the stage, the actors behind the need to pay a huge effort, overcome the rush difficulties, in order to hone the acting skills, stage theater, in order to be wonderful.
Movies can be "action", while stage plays are impromptu performances, there is no "action".
This is the essence of stage drama closer to life than film.
All sentient beings, staged their own stage plays, at first everyone's acting skills, are very young, in the process of acting skills to reach pure fire, you need to experience a period of adversity to sharpen your acting skills, one minute on stage, ten years offstage, life to achieve some achievements, beyond others, you have to pay the efforts to do what you preach, this is the obstacle brought by adversity, crossing this hurdle, you can bloom on the stage of life, bloom, blessings come by yourself.
Second, the obstacle brought by greed.
This materialistic world is full of temptations, and once the greed of the human heart is magnified, it is like opening Pandora's box, which is more terrible than the devil. It may be because of greed, there is no bottom line to pursue these temptations.
In the ancient book "Zhuangzi Miscellaneous Articles and Thieves", it was once said that such a sentence: "Greed for money and danger, greed for power and exhaustion", greedy enough snakes swallow elephants, greedy people, eventually will often kill themselves, become a laughing stock, and go to the tragedy of life.
On the contrary, people who are not greedy in their hearts, they do not dwell too much on the irreparable things, they dare to give up, so they have gains. If the heart is not greedy, it is pure, the problem is seen more clearly, and the vision is more long-term.
Do not forget the original intention, the party must always, only by crossing the obstacles brought by the greed of the heart, the road of life can go more steadily, more content, in order to be blessed.
Third, the obstacles brought by loneliness.
Because of the fear of loneliness, so the group warm, people between each other, comfort each other. Although people are social communities, loneliness is innate, just more or less. Every soul is an island that cannot be touched by others, so on a spiritual level, loneliness is unavoidable.
No one can accompany you to the end, always have to walk through a certain time in your life, and this time is also lonely, especially when youth and people are twilight.
Some erupt in silence, some perish in silence, some sink in loneliness, and some grow in loneliness.
Crossing the barriers brought about by loneliness, you will be blessed.
summary:
The above are the three most difficult hurdles in life, namely the hurdles brought about by adversity, the hurdles brought by greed, and the hurdles brought by loneliness, these three hurdles may appear at any stage of life, always believing that there is no hurdle in the world that cannot be overcome, and if you cross it, you will be blessed.