I believe that everyone must be deeply impressed by the TV series "The Legend of Wulin", which is the "childhood memories" of the post-90s and post-95s generations.
The time of this drama was 2005, more than ten years have passed, and the "Xiaobei" who once only knew the naughtiness has also grown into a strong and assertive young mother in "Mountains and Seas", and "Lao Bai" is no longer the handsome and healthy of the year, although the age gradually grows with the passage of time, but there are always some people who have always maintained their true colors, "Xing Catching Head" Fan Ming is such a person.
Stills from the wulin waichuan
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Speaking of Fan Ming, the first thing we think of is his wonderful performance in "The Legend of Wulin", although exaggerated, but natural. The formation of an actor's interpretation style is closely related to his personal growth career.
"Xing Catcher" and "Tong Treasurer"
Fan Ming was born into a military family, while his mother worked in the Literary Corps. Under the influence of his mother, Fan Ming developed a strong interest in acting from an early age.
Because he did not like to study, Fan Ming entered a factory after graduating from high school to do basic electrician work, and the boring life day after day made him feel very tired, but the seed of the actor's dream in his heart gradually sprouted and grew up after work.
He taught himself to be a choreographer, and he tried to shoot some sketches, although rough and childish, but it made him feel that his love had fallen to the ground, and he felt that he should continue to study deeply. In 1989, Fan Ming was admitted to the repertory theater of a military region in Jiangsu Province, gradually honing his acting skills and becoming a good actor who performed a real and substitutionary feeling.
Fan Ming
In 1995, Fan Ming has passed the age of establishment, 31 years old participated in the first TV series in his life "Seven Battles and Seven Victories", although he only played a captive driver, but for the first time on the big screen, Fan Ming's years of efforts finally blossomed, he was very satisfied, but also set a goal for himself in his heart: he must play more roles that left a deep impression on the audience.
The following year, Fan Ming starred in the sketch "Mountains and Seas Connected" won the award, step by step, Fan Ming was down-to-earth, and finally had a name in the show business circle. And fate also came unexpectedly, 33-year-old Fan Ming met his lifelong partner.
In 1996, Fan Ming's teacher was preparing a sketch and asked him to come over to help, and he met Li Ling as soon as he came. The so-called "golden wind and jade dew meet, they will win countless victories in the world." For an instant, Fan Ming seemed to understand the meaning of these two words of the ancients.
Li Ling was a TV station writer at the time, and Fan Ming's teacher was an old friend, often discussing some literary and artistic works and cooperation matters together. Li Ling is a capable writer, has a lot of experience in writing, and looks very beautiful.
When Fan Ming first began to understand, he was already very envious and admired, because Fan Ming did not love to learn since he was a child, and he was conscious of being old and rough, and did not understand literature and ink. After reading Li Ling's articles and works, his love for Li Ling was overflowing. Soon he made up his mind that he must pursue Li Ling.
Fan Ming and Li Ling
After The performance of Teacher Fan Ming's program, the group decided to go out to celebrate, and Fan Ming's mind has been following Li Ling. When everyone was bowling, Fan Ming was a bit foul because he wouldn't.
But Li Ling took the bowling ball in one hand and threw out a few balls beautifully, all in the middle. Fan Ming called it beautiful at that time, and his admiration and love for Li Ling in his heart was more. After the bowling round, everyone met again to go dancing.
Although Fan Ming's emotional experience is not rich, he also knows that he must seize the opportunity at this time, so he thinks of Fan Ming and takes action. He went to invite Li Ling to dance, and the lights on the dance floor were flickering, the music was ambiguous, and the two gradually got closer and closer.
Li Ling keenly felt Fan Ming's strong love, but she flinched. It turned out that the reason for Li Ling's hesitation was that she was six years older than Fan Ming, divorced with a seven-year-old son. She did not think that Fan Ming would accept her such conditions calmly.
But to her surprise, Fan Ming said that it was completely acceptable, he loved her, naturally would accept her all, how could he not accept her children?
Li Ling was often suspicious of men's "rhetoric", and for a while she thought that Fan Ming was a whim, and as long as she refused a few more times, she would definitely give up.
Fan Ming Li Ling
But Fan Ming was unexpected by him, after Li Ling rejected him several times, he still insisted on pursuing her, went to her when he had nothing to do, saw that she had any troubles, took the initiative to help her analyze and give comfort; took her out to relax and change her mood.
In the process of getting along like this, Li Ling gradually learned that Fan Ming was very sincere and true, Li Ling had met many men who appeared to be decent gentlemen and gentlemen, and finally realized their essence and were nothing more than disappointment.
Only fan ming, who looks ordinary, is consistent in her heart, which is the key to her gradually opening her heart. Li Ling, who has experienced a marriage, needs more respect and care, which Fan Ming keeps in mind all the time, and Li Ling no longer doubts his sincerity.
Soon the two people were together, and after being together, Fan Ming was still very careful and considerate, making Li Ling feel very secure. A few months later, Fan Ming proposed to Li Ling. Li Ling still repeatedly stressed that she was older than him and had children, because she was afraid that he would regret it.
Fan Ming always smiled helplessly and said: Sure and very sure. So the two entered the palace of marriage in 1997, after which Fan Ming ushered in the rise of his acting career, starting in 1999, first of all, his own director's sketch won awards.
In 2002, he participated in "The Story of the Cooking Class", where he won the Best Actor Award, and in 2005, he participated in "The Legend of Wulin", playing the role of Xing Yusen, the head of Xing Yusen, who is well-known and deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
And the marriage with Li Ling did not have a chicken feather because Li Ling brought a child, on the contrary, Li Ling's children and Fan Ming were closer as soon as they met. Li Ling's son was named Han Leng, and as soon as he saw Fan Ming, he directly shouted "Daddy".
Let Fan Ming immediately be stunned, and after reacting, he immediately greeted the child to his side with joy, and thus made up his mind to be good to the child. Since then, the family and Hemeidi have lived together, and in order to better communicate with the children, Fan Ming has tried to contact the world of young people and contact new things.
At the same time, he also noticed that although the child was sensible, he was also more sensitive. Previously, the divorce of parents caused a lot of damage to the young minds of children. Therefore, as long as Fan Ming is at home, he always pays attention to the child's status, often asking the child about interesting things in school, learning experience, and the relationship with classmates.
As soon as there is free time, he takes the child out to play, and the relationship between the grandfather and the two is so good that Li Ling is a little "jealous", occasionally joking that Fan Ming is "having a son and forgetting his daughter-in-law".
After Han Leng went to junior high school, he felt that the living expenses were not enough, and he did not dare to ask his mother. He could only secretly tell Fan Ming that Fan Ming did not directly give the child money like the average father faced the child's request.
Instead, after Li Ling returned home, the family sat together and openly explained this matter clearly, and Li Ling also accepted the child's request for a little increase in living expenses.
In this way, the relationship between the family is more harmonious, and the child feels that there are reasonable and legitimate needs that can be directly raised with the parents, as long as it is reasonable, the parents will definitely agree. From this small matter, we can also see the cleverness of Fan Ming's education of children.
Time passed quickly, a few years later Han Leng graduated from high school, and for the question of whether to continue to study in college or become a soldier after graduation, Li Ling insisted that it was better to be a soldier, and Fan Ming also agreed.
Han Leng
But he still patiently asked Han Leng's thoughts, and Han Leng said that he was very willing to become a soldier, so the family's opinions were wonderfully agreed. And Han Leng's choice also made his life trajectory glorious and special.
After this, Fan Ming suddenly changed. His attitude toward Han Leng became more and more severe, and after becoming a soldier, he returned home to strictly work and rest, got up early for morning exercises, washed his own clothes, cleaned, and shared housework. When I go home, I never pick up and drop off, and I take the train back and forth by myself.
The cost of living is only one hundred per month. Han Leng was very confused and depressed in his heart, thinking about whether his father did not love himself anymore, and came back to see that he was upset. One morning, Han Leng looked impatient from the moment he got up, and Fan Ming said sternly: "Who did he show his face early in the morning?" ”
Han Leng suddenly cried out in grievance, "Didn't My father love me because I grew up?" Fan Ming was stunned for a moment, knowing that his words were heavy, and gently said to him: "Child, it is because I love you that I am so strict with you, otherwise you are strict in the army, and once you go home, you will relax, and it will not be good for your development." ”
Only then did Han Leng know his father's good intentions and opened his heart, and the family still returned to the way they had been in harmony.
Han Leng also lived up to Fan Ming's expectations, performed well in the army, and was appointed as an instructor at a university in Nanjing when he graduated, and was also the youngest instructor in the same period at that time.
Han Leng thought of Fan Ming's strict requirements, and he said very emotionally: "I am very grateful to my father. Fan Ming has always regarded Han Leng as his own son, and even said that he was closer than his own son, so he would "love deeply and be responsible."
I hope that the child will become more excellent, so the strict requirements will eventually achieve the child. Of course, Han Leng did not know that when Fan Ming was gathering with his old friends and old classmates, the most praised was his son, looking at the way his son wore a military uniform, Fan Ming was proud and satisfied in his heart.
In 2019, Han Leng and his girlfriend also walked into the palace of the wedding, and Fan Ming solemnly bowed to his daughter-in-law at the wedding, saying that his son would do something bad in the future, and also asked his daughter-in-law to be more inclusive. It makes a couple of newcomers and parents on both sides very moved.
Now that Fan Ming has been upgraded to a grandfather, he is very happy to hold his grandson, and the happiness in the world is only the harmony of the family after all.
From Fan Ming's marriage and family life, we can see that Fan Ming is a person with high emotional intelligence, he knows how to respect, knows how to give in, and knows how to communicate.
The most important thing is to sincerely wait for people, and finally harvest full of happiness. I hope that everyone can also use their wisdom in their own lives to maintain a happy life with high emotional intelligence.
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