The Internet says that a man who can bear not to contact you does not love you, and the Internet also says that a man who can't help but contact you must love you.
So, why would a guy who can't help but contact you end up letting go? Doesn't he obviously like you very much? Can't let go?
Why did you end up pestering and not contacting you?
I think there is only one answer, and that is that all these answers come from you. The way you want to leave determines how long it takes for him to give up.
Some time ago, I read such a letter on the Internet, which was written by a boy to his girlfriend who wanted to break up with him. The letter reads something like this.
It's nice when I first got into trouble with you, there are endless messages, endless phone calls and messages, even if we talk until the early hours of the morning, I don't feel sleepy.
I used to think that having you was my greatest pride, and I said your name with happiness, but then I didn't know why, everything deviated from the rules, and I became your silent person.
In fact, I have never regretted meeting you, but I regret not going to the end with you. After loving you for so long, how can you not even have a decent ending in the end. On the contrary, it also makes you deeply disgusted.
But you are really important to me, even if you have made me unhappy, I still think you are the most important. But you made me think I was the worst boy in the world.
It's been almost a few months since I separated, and I've been obsessed with it in the middle, believing that as long as I'm stalking, I can exchange your change of heart. However, in the end, it was my wishful thinking, and in the end it only made you hate me even more.
In fact, there was a moment when I really wanted to ask, have you ever had such a moment that hurt my attachment. I know that a person really wants to leave, and the look and behavior will not deceive people.
It's just that I haven't understood what kind of reason makes you bear to treat a person who is full of you and loves you to the bone.
I know that I can't exchange emotions for love, but it's really hard for me to let go. However, when I saw that you were trying to give up, I decided to let go completely.
It's like a little video I once watched, in which a boy and a girl break their wrists. The girl tried her best to break the boy's arm, trying to break the boy's wrist. At first, the boys still tried their best, but when they saw the girls so desperate.
The boy let go at that moment, the girl won, and it turned out that before breaking the wrist, the girl said to the boy, if I win, we will break up.
And seeing the girl working so hard, the boy knows, and it is useless to force it. Since separation is what she wants, then she must fulfill her.
Yeah, the way you forced me to let go of you was really fighting. So much so that for a split second, I felt like it was my fault not to let go. It is my love that binds you. I don't deserve to have you.
The original promise will also be invalidated. Love will also disappear. So I let it go, not because I don't love you anymore, but seeing how hard you worked, I felt like I shouldn't bother you anymore.
Yeah, we can also see from this letter that this guy really loves his girlfriend, but in the end they may have parted ways for various reasons.
At the beginning, he should have also been retained, but in the end, seeing the girl trying so hard to leave, he finally made up his mind not to dwell on it anymore.
Indeed, a person who has truly loved you will not let go easily. Always do the last struggle. But when he sees that you want to leave, he will never try again. Because he knew he had lost.
Therefore, there are many uncertainties in this world, obviously before it was still a very good couple, how to say that separated is separated. As someone once said, it actually makes a lot of sense, "If two people believe that they can last forever, then they can last forever." ”
This sentence seems to be repetitive, but it is full of philosophy. Oh, yes! As long as two people do not give up in the relationship, they can go on forever after all.
Most of the people who can't go on are the first to let go. And the firmness after letting go is the most important reason not to keep it.
Because that's what you want. And that's why someone who really loves you decides to let go completely.
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