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Mother-in-law, it will affect the career
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This is the mantra of Xing Putou in "The Tale of Wulin".
Fan Ming played this role in a fascinating way, so he became a hit.
Subsequently, he participated in "The Story of the Police Station", "Really Want to Make You Happy", and . In 2019, he participated in the TV series "Hello Prosecutor" and "Foggy Night" and other wonderful works.
He won the Best Supporting Actor Award at the Chinese Opera Festival and the Best Actor Award at the Golden Star Award.
Fan Ming is not only a good actor, but also an excellent stepfather.
His relationship with his stepson is a good story.
Fan Ming, born in 1964, to a military family in Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province.
Influenced by his family, he also became a soldier, and unlike his family, he became a literary soldier.
He loved singing and dancing since he was a child, and although his father opposed it, he also helped his son to learn.
In 1985, Fan Ming entered the Lianyungang Military Subdistrict in Jiangsu Province and became an amateur actor.
He began to be exposed to sketches, specializing in acting and learning choreography. Four years later, he became a real actor and entered the Nanjing Military Region Repertory Theatre in Jiangsu Province.
In 1995, the 31-year-old Fan Ming finally survived and began to contact film and television dramas, participating in "Seven Battles and Seven Victories".
Although a minor role, he is more determined to follow this path.
However, Fan Ming has not yet made some achievements in the show business circle, but he has ushered in a beautiful love.
In 1996, Teacher Fan Ming was holding an event on Christmas Day, and when preparing the program, he thought of his students.
The teacher invited Fan Ming to perform the skit, and he agreed without saying a word.
As everyone knows, Li Ling, the editor of Jiangsu People's Publishing House, also participated in the activity, and through the teacher's matchmaking, the two met in this way.
Fan Ming has always envied that writers can write things, and he admires Li Ling very much.
After the event, Fan Ming played with Li Ling and friends, and during the process, he had been quietly observing Li Ling.
Fan Ming's feelings for her changed from adoration to liking, and he wanted to take down this girl.
After the end, Fan Ming took the initiative to find Li Ling and said that he would go along the way, so he sent her back. She didn't refuse either.
On the way, Fan Ming and Li Ling chatted very speculatively. He learned that Li Ling was older than himself and had a 9-year-old son with him, and he began to face this woman with pain and had the idea of taking care of her for a lifetime.
In order to impress Li Ling, Fan Ming pulled out her true heart and sent her concern at the critical moment, and she was moved.
In 1997, Fan Ming and Li Ling proposed after knowing each other for 4 months, and he said: I must love Han Leng like you.
Li Ling was very touched, but she did not agree, but went home to ask her son first.
After returning home, Li Ling called her son to come to her side, and she told her son the idea of marriage in a serious way, saying that Uncle Fan would definitely treat you as a son and love you.
Han Leng said: Mom, no matter what decision you make, I support you, and I know what I should do.
Upon hearing her son say this, Li Ling decided to marry Fan Ming.
Near the time of getting the license, Fan Ming's relatives and friends advised him to think twice, believing that he would have a happy family with Li Ling and would be together at all costs.
After the marriage, Li Ling took Fan Ming home to visit her son and parents.
The first time he met Han Leng, Fan Ming was very nervous, afraid that his stepson would not accept him, afraid of the unpleasantness of getting along with him.
He had fantasized about meeting countless times.
Seeing his mother leading Uncle Fan home, Han Leng hurried forward to greet him, and as a result, the things in his hands said: "Daddy, hello!"
Fan Ming and Li Ling were confused, and they did not expect their son to accept him for the first time.
Fan Ming was afraid that Han Leng was forced to call, so he told him: You can call uncle first. Han Leng said: Mom, you are with you, if I call you uncle, how others look at Dad, look at Mom.
Li Ling felt that her son had grown up and said: Son, you really understand things.
Fan Ming was very touched, and decided in his heart that he must treat Han Leng well and make up for his missing fatherly love.
Since then, Han Leng has always called Fan Ming's father, and he has also treated him as a father, and has never changed.
Since Li Ling's divorce, she has been busy with work, and she has very little care and affection for her children, and it is her mother who is taking care of Han Leng.
After living together, Fan Ming proposed to Li Ling to take the child over and live together.
Li Ling was still a little worried, afraid that they would not have time to take care of the children at work, but Fan Ming said that it was wrapped up in me.
Fan Ming accompanied Han Leng as long as he had time and played with him.
Sometimes, when filming, Fan Ming took Han Leng to the crew to take care of it for 50 days. After work, take him to eat a variety of foods.
Just by taking advantage of this opportunity, the feelings between Fan Ming and Han Leng increased.
During the filming process of Fan Ming, he will let the child wait on the side, and he will walk to the stepson for the first time after he is finished.
Which child will the staff ask? Fan Ming said proudly: This is my son.
Han Leng's heart was warm when he heard these words, and he began to accept his stepfather Fan Ming in his heart.
Usually, when he is at home, Fan Ming and his wife Li Ling will have some contradictions. He ignored his son's hearing and directly quarreled with Fan Ming.
Once, Fan Ming went home and threw dirty socks, and Li Ling couldn't stand it. She began to quarrel with Fan Ming, and the son in the room heard it clearly.
He quickly went to the living room, silently packed his socks for Fan Ming, and told his mother: Don't be fierce, and it is not intentional.
He turned his head and said to Fan Ming: Dad, my mother loves to be clean, she will also nag you twice, you don't go to your heart, I will wash your socks for you.
When the mother and Fan Ming heard these words from their son, their eyes were red and they stopped arguing.
Han Leng's understanding made his parents feel painful, and in the future, the couple would have contradictions and would not quarrel in front of their sons.
At home, Han Leng never caused trouble for his mother and Fan Ming, and he could solve the things he could solve by himself, unless it was a forced matter, he would open his mouth to Fan Ming.
One day, after Han Leng finished school, he went home with a gray face, and Fan Ming saw that his son was unhappy, so he went forward to ask what the reason was.
He didn't speak, went into the room and closed the door to prevent anyone else from coming in.
Fan Ming was very anxious in his heart, but he did not bother his son, he knew that his son needed his own space, hoping that he could take the initiative to say what happened to him.
When eating, Fan Ming carefully asked his son to come out to eat, he still did not speak, and began to devour as if others owed money, and after eating a few bites, he did not eat.
After the meal, Fan Ming and Han Leng walked to the room, and he patiently told: No matter what happens, you can tell your father, you are my son, and I will definitely help you if you need it.
Han Leng was still indifferent. Fan Ming patted him on the shoulder to increase confidence.
Han Leng whispered: Today there was a conflict with my classmates at school, laughing at my father for not having a father, saying that my father was not a father.
Fan Ming finally knew why his son was unhappy when the family entered the door, and he was very angry and said: "How is the stepfather not the father, the stepfather is better than the father, don't hearsay."
In the future, if someone bullies you, you tell me directly, and I will go to them to settle the account. ”
He saw that his stepfather was excited like this, and his heart was warm, and he should not be affected by other people's words, and he knew that he was cold and warm.
Later, when a classmate said this about him, he directly went back, and Fan Ming was my father.
There is nothing to say between Fan Ming and Han Leng, and at the critical moment of life, it is Fan Ming who helps him make decisions, gives him directions, and uses his own experience to tell his son.
In 1999, Li Ling was not in good health, on the way to the hospital to check her body, she passed a bun shop, bought a bun, and after eating, she found that she had miscalculated the account and gave less money.
She found out she was pregnant and rushed home to share her joy with Fan Ming.
However, she first told Fan Ming that buying a bun was a wrong account, and he was angry at once, asking his wife to make up the money.
Li Ling thought about making up for it the next time she bought it, Fan Ming must be more truthful and let his wife apologize.
Along with Li Ling's apology, the two also quarreled, and he was so angry that he dropped the cup. Li Ling whispered: If you are like this, my child does not have to.
Fan Ming was confused when he heard it, child? Say what? Li Ling said: If you are like this, I don't have the confidence to want this child."
He finally reacted that his wife was pregnant and quickly apologized to her, I was wrong.
Maybe Fan Ming and Li Ling were too happy, or maybe they didn't know how to open their mouths and never told their son the news.
But Han Leng learned from his grandmother that his mother was pregnant and wanted to give him a brother or sister.
He thought about it and asked his grandmother: After this little brother or sister was born, I think they are more like a family.
Fan Ming's heart was sour after he knew it, and he must be good to Han Leng at any time. Especially after the birth of the child, we must make him feel that he has not been abandoned, and must be doubly kind to him.
In 2000, after the birth of his daughter, Fan Ming always remembered that he must be good to Han Leng, do not ignore him, and put his feelings first.
Waiting for her daughter to grow up a little, she will compete with her brother for things, and Fan Ming will always be on Han Leng's side.
In her daughter's heart, her brother was always more important than herself, and she scratched Han Leng's face.
Fan Ming quickly stopped after seeing it, said her daughter a meal, she collapsed and cried, Fan Ming did not care, but cared about Han Leng, whether it mattered, whether there was anything wrong.
Another time, Han Leng was ill, and Fan Ming quickly sent his son to the hospital and took care of him all the time.
The people next to him praised that this dad was really responsible. They do not know that Fan Ming is the stepfather of the patient.
Under the care of Fan Ming, Han Leng's body gradually improved, and he was very touched in his heart, and it was a great honor to have such a stepfather.
Fan Ming did these things better than his own father, even
Dad probably couldn't do that.
After Han Leng went to junior high school, he entered adolescence and was somewhat rebellious. Classmates' pocket money is 50 yuan a week, and he is also 30 yuan a week.
He told his mother, Li Ling, that he wanted 50 yuan of pocket money per week. The mother is afraid of giving too much, and the son spends money indiscriminately, so he does not agree.
Fan Ming began to speak: 30 yuan is indeed too little, boys eat more, the cost is large, give a little more is fine. Li Ling just had to compromise.
If Han Leng had something he wanted to buy, he would ask his mother for it, but look for Fan Ming, and as long as it was not too much of a request, Fan Ming would basically agree.
Han Leng went to play at his classmate's house and found that his classmate's home was very luxuriously decorated, and the colorful colors were very beautiful, and he was moved.
After returning home, Han Leng told Fan Ming about this matter, and he did not say a word and rectified the room for his son.
Afraid that Li Ling would not agree, when she was waiting for her to travel, she took advantage of the free time to paint the wall. Han Leng liked it very much.
And Li Ling came home and was shocked, these days when she was not there, what did both father and son do.
Li Ling told Fan Ming that her son didn't understand things, don't you understand things yet? Fan Ming said: Children can be transformed as much as they want, and they can be comfortable.
Li Ling told Fan Ming many times not to spoil the children too much, he would say that I had a number in mind, rest assured.
Faced with the choice of college in high school, Li Ling wanted her son to become a soldier, and Han Leng thought the same way.
Since then, Fan Ming is no longer accustomed to his son, and his son used to do nothing at home, and now he does nothing at home, reducing the pocket money given to his son.
Because he was afraid that his son would not be able to adapt to the life of the army, he was militarized in advance, allowing him to enter the state, and also laying the foundation for him to become an excellent soldier.
Every morning, whether he went to school or not, Fan Ming stipulated that Han Leng must get up at 6 o'clock, and if he slept late, he would punish his son.
He went for running training with his son, returned home, and asked him to make breakfast for the whole family.
Han Leng's living expenses ranged from 50 yuan a week to 100 yuan a month, because it didn't cost much to be a soldier.
He went to his mother to give him more pocket money, and how to play tricks did not work.
Han Leng also did not have time to play, and was more surrounded by housework.
He thought to himself, was my father's thing to me an illusion before? He couldn't accept that Fan Ming's attitude toward himself had changed three hundred and sixty degrees.
Han Leng told his mother that his father was for your own good and that being a soldier was stricter than this, and he still did not understand.
After Fan Ming knew his son's thoughts, he wondered if he had done something wrong.
He found a day to talk with his son for a long time, and after the exchange, Han Leng finally understood his good intentions and untied the knot in his heart.
Han Leng was more serious about doing things, and his father let him do whatever he wanted, without any complaints.
After graduating from university, Han Leng was appointed as an instructor in the School of Engineering of Nanjing University of Science and Technology for his outstanding performances, becoming the youngest instructor.
After growing up, Han Leng completely understood that Fan Ming's feelings for himself, many key moments, was that he pointed out a clear path for himself, and he was very grateful to him.
If it weren't for Fan Ming, it would most likely not have been him now.
The first salary, Han Leng gave all to Fan Ming and his mother to thank them for their cultivation.
On Fan Ming's birthday, Han Leng quietly prepared a surprise for him and carefully selected gifts.
Fan Ming was very touched to receive his son's gift, shed tears, and said in his mouth:
Son, grow up!
Fan Ming treats his stepson without blood relations, but he is closer than a father and son who are related by blood.
Sometimes, the biological father and son can't do what he does, he is a qualified father and a qualified stepfather.
Fan Ming did all this only because he loved his wife, loved Han Leng, and made up for his missing fatherly love.
A child has not felt the father's love, life is incomplete, and the father's love is great.
Father's love is like an umbrella, shielding you from the wind and rain. Father's love is like rain, washing your heart. Father's love is like a road, accompanying you through life.