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I always thought I was still young, but I didn't know that I had turned gray hair.
People born in the 1970s are almost fifty years old. Some people, who are more than fifty years old, are embarrassed to reveal their age when chatting with people.
There are many people who are grandparents. There are also some people who hold their children, but are mistaken for holding their grandchildren, and the bitterness in their hearts, the reasons for this, are only clear to themselves.
ay. After the 70s, he grew old in a flash and was happy in pain.
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After the 70s, we seem to have eaten everything.
The old ancestors told us: "If you eat bitterly, you will be a good person." ”
However, our suffering seems to be more than others. Counting carefully, from the day of birth, suffering has not been interrupted.
About the countryside. Most of the post-70s generations are born in rural areas. At that time, no one was rich. A family with ten thousand yuan, known as a "ten thousand yuan household", is one of the biggest people in the village.
People who grew up in the countryside should be countless in terms of doing farm work: cutting rice, feeding pigs, herding cattle, catching ducks, planting seedlings, digging soil, cutting firewood...
Reading is a side business, and doing farm work is the main business. Many people, who have not finished junior high school, go home to farm. It's not that the grades are too bad, it's that there is a lack of labor at home.
About the city. Count, how many post-70s generations around you have moved from the countryside to the city?
Someone said: "The hometown cannot keep the body, and the foreign country cannot accommodate the soul." ”
In order to earn money to support the family, for the next generation to live better, I tried my best to buy a house in the city. Perhaps, until now, the mortgage has not been paid off and the job is not too good. The matter of paying off debts is worrying to think about.
Great view of the city and big park. However, without a piece of land of our own, we have become rootless duckweeds.
About the child. When they were young, they caught up with the era of family planning, and many couples had a child. Now, when I am older, I can have a second child.
Forty-somethings, having children is a difficult thing, and raising children is even more difficult.
When you are sixty years old, you are not able to do your energy, but you have to manage the growth and learning of your children. How bitter is this? Let's talk about it on that day, I can only think of it this way.
About part-time work. How many people, after graduating from junior high school, went to the south to work? After years in the factory, I thought I could live a good life. However, from the first day he entered the factory, he has not been able to get rid of the fate of part-time work.
Being bullied when you're away from home is a small thing, and making little money is a big deal. However, without a skill, without an economic foundation, without a part-time job, what else can be done?
About marriage. The older generation, holding a hand, will go to the whitehead. However, in our generation, the number of divorced people is slowly increasing. Many people, when they get married, are jubilant, and when they are divorced, they cry and cry.
The instability of marriage has also brought a lot of troubles. In the future, will the husband and wife be able to grow old with white heads? I hope so.
There are many self-made people, but when they buy a house and have children, they still end up empty-handed.
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After the 70s, the speed of making money will never catch up with the speed of getting old.
Money, life does not bring, death does not take away. When it comes to money, we are always very dashing, but when we really want money, we know that there is too little money and it will never be enough.
No matter what kind of suffering, it comes down to nothing – no money.
Finally understand that having money can make ghosts grind.
It takes money to support parents, money to grow up, money to live in the city, and money to support oneself. But where does the money come from? It's really confusing.
Earlier, I wrote an article titled "Don't Laugh at the Fifty-Year-Old Who's Going to Apply."
Some readers left a message: "52 years old, still working hard, there is no way to live difficult, I hope young people do not discriminate against us." ”
There are also readers' messages: "Fifty years old to apply, that is not to admit defeat, life does not give up, come on!" ”
All kinds of heartache seem to be concentrated at the age of "50 years old".
When people reach middle age, there are old and young. If you are thirty or forty years old, your spirit is still strong, your body is also tough, and you can make money bitterly, you can stand up; however, after fifty years old, your life will go downhill, and mentally and physically, you will have signs of "eating and consuming".
Last month, our unit came with a new doorman Lao Hu.
I asked Lao Hu, "You are only in your fifties, and you are a doorman, is it not early?" ”
Old Hu said: "If nothing else, I just want to have a place to pay me pension insurance." ”
It turned out that Lao Hu went to many places to work, and did not solve the problem of old-age care. He is now anxious and worried about the problem of old-age care.
When people reach the age of fifty, they have to serve the old. If you don't have any savings and you don't have a pension ready, it will be even more difficult in the days to come.
To be honest, most of the post-70s have such an idea - the pension can not count on children, but also rely on themselves. No matter how many children you have, you can't count on it.
However, post-70s people, their parents are mostly in the countryside for a lifetime, their pension problems, are their own problems.
"What to do"? Who do you talk to to? Filial piety to parents is what we should do, and not expecting our children to manage their own pension is also a problem we should consider.
In a word, without money, it is even more difficult.
04
After the 70s, don't worry, there are still more sufferings waiting.
When I was a child, I learned a poem: "The little one leaves home and returns to the old man, and the rural voice does not change the sideburns." ”
During the class, the teacher said: "The poet has been away from his hometown for many years, and the children in his hometown do not recognize himself." Just by hearing the poet speak his hometown dialect, he knows that he is a native of his hometown. ”
In fact, we have also become "poets who have left their hometowns".
Hometown, it's really hard to go back.
If you want to go back to your hometown, at least you must have a house, you must have good living conditions, you must have a healthy body, and you must have a pension money.
Many people, the hometown is still there, but the old house is gone. Perhaps, the hometown has changed its appearance, and there is no homesickness at all.
I can't go back to my hometown, and it's hard to mix in a foreign country.
How will you live in the days to come? Get by, live a day.
Along the way, we all look at each other step by step, and no one knows what we will encounter next.
Perhaps, we still have to face the problem of delaying retirement, when can we really breathe a sigh of relief?
"Where has the time gone?" Before you feel young, you are old, having children for a lifetime, and your mind is full of children crying and laughing." A lyric that depicts life vividly, and those who read it have been in tears.
After the 70s, suffering is a common thing, remember to make fun in suffering.
Author: Cloth coarse food
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.