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Love is a romantic verb, and a person's heartbeat is the best answer.
There are many reasons to like someone, maybe it's a momentary glimpse, maybe it's the ends of the hair blown by the breeze.
Or maybe it's a special move, a detail is enough to make people's hearts beat faster.
Some people think that only beautiful people will make people move;
But love is not the preserve of a few;
What really moves a man's heart is the rich and interesting interior rather than the beautiful appearance.
Beautiful people are always scarce, and love and life are created by many ordinary but not mediocre ordinary people.
So what kind of woman is easy to make men move?
The ancients said: "The most important thing is that the human world cannot be retained, and Zhu Yan ci mirrors the flower and the tree."
Pretty is a plus, but it doesn't make a decision.
Putting all the chips on the value of the face, it is bound to be invincible.
And a woman with a unique temperament, rich connotation and excellent independence, whether beautiful or not, is enough to make men move.
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A quiet and calm woman is even more heartwarming
Wang Wei wrote in the poem: "Walk to the end of the water, sit and watch the clouds rise."
Let others make noise, they are always gentle, not flustered and not busy.
Calmness is a kind of strength;
And a woman who has a temperament as light as a chrysanthemum, always calm and calm.
You don't have to show off your buds, it's enough to make people feel excited.
Just like Shen Meizhuang in "The Biography of Zhen Huan", she always does not argue or grab, and does not put herself into the whirlpool of struggle.
Even if she was offended by Yu Ying'er, she wouldn't bother.
She is not as beautiful as Zhen Huan, nor is she as well-behaved as Concubine Hua.
But she has this, people's light as a chrysanthemum temperament;
And the integrity of "preferring to die with incense on the branches and never blowing it down in the north wind" was favored by the emperor.
There is also the actor YongMei, who shows a calm and calm demeanor from her bones.
She is not in a hurry, nor does she deliberately cater to the public;
In his own life, he moved forward step by step, polished his acting skills, and finally gained recognition.
Her beauty is not the appearance of youth and beauty;
It is to experience the precipitation of the years, the quiet and calm, the attitude of life without controversy.
Looks will pass with time, but a person's temperament is increasing day by day.
A woman with a unique temperament, she does not deliberately show off herself.
I am not in a hurry, but I can handle things in an orderly manner, gentle but with my own strength.
Whether a woman is beautiful or not, her unique temperament and gentle and firm heart will make men move.
03
Men prefer women who are easy and pleasant to get along with
A rich and interesting soul is often more heartwarming than a good-looking skin bag.
Running around life and work every day, it is inevitable to feel bored and tired.
If, a woman's soul is interesting and has a rich inner, it will not be boring to get along with such a woman.
On the contrary, it is relaxed and comfortable, and naturally it will also make people feel excited.
Many people have a cognitive misunderstanding that they are beautiful enough to catch a man's heart.
Beauty is important, but there is a skin bag, there is no connotation, and love will not last long.
Life is already not easy, and many people need a source of happiness and spiritual pillar.
If, you can maintain an optimistic and positive mindset;
Always give each other encouragement and let him feel the beauty of life.
Nature will feel your uniqueness and can't help but be impressed by you.
What men like is not blindly giving and binding, but a kind of companionship with a long stream of fine water.
And comfortable people, getting along is too worth the heart.
All the sadness and grievances of a person can be resolved by her humor and the soul can be healed.
It is as if a person walks silently in the dark, and the positive optimism of the other person illuminates himself.
How undesirable is this.
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A woman with a rich mind and an independent spirit is more attractive
Shu Ting said in "To the Oak Tree": "We share the wind and thunder, we share the mist and the flow of neon".
Beautiful love is independent and lifelong dependence, mutual support and have their own boundaries.
This possesses independent thought;
Women who are enough to stand shoulder to shoulder with each other can't help but be amazed and feel moved.
Love is not to become a vassal of anyone, nor is it a person's single fight.
Rather, like two great trees, they resist the waves of fate together and grow separately.
When we are together, we share with each other, accompany each other, and manage this precious relationship together.
When we are not together, we live our own lives.
Independent enough, rich enough, you can get the wind and water by yourself.
In love, the most wrong way is to pin your hopes on each other, and then be affected by the other party.
Or be anxious alone, suffer from gains and losses, and take love as the whole of life all day.
This will not increase the love of each other, but will consume themselves.
Independent-thinking women also have a yearning for love;
But she also understands that whether it is life or love, don't rely too much on each other.
Everyone has their own things to do, and asking too much will outweigh the losses.
Constantly improve yourself, make yourself good enough, let the other party see the sparkling you, he will naturally be moved for you.
Love is what everyone yearns for, but there are very few people who can manage it well.
And quiet and calm, easy to get along with, rich in thought and independent women;
Beautiful or not, it is enough to make a man's heart move.