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In the world of feelings, to see if a person really loves you is never to see what he says, but to see what he does.
Human nature is the most unpredictable, and many times you simply can't see what a person's heart is like. For those who are used to rhetoric, it's not really how much they love you.
Loving someone is more about putting it into practice than saying a few words. For those who stay on the surface and do not actually pay, they do not love you more than imagined.
Loving this thing is a true feeling from the heart, and it is to treat it with the heart. And these three kinds of men, seemingly affectionate, are actually the thinnest.
Rhetorical man
In real life, there are many different types of people, and some people may say something nice and make people feel that he is quite sincere.
In fact, it is not true that truly loving someone is more to prove it with practical actions, rather than just by mouth. For those who only know how to express themselves with their mouths, he does not have much sincerity.
It is said that the love that can be truly felt is true love, and the love on the mouth is too cheap to pay any cost at all.
A person should never just listen to him, be coaxed by those rhetoric, and the person who really loves you, he is more about doing it.
Love is something that needs to be maintained for a long time, not to say a few nice words, but to love you.
A person who can always express his true heart with actions is a person who is affectionate from the heart and loves you with his heart.
On the contrary, people who only know how to speak by mouth, seemingly affectionate, actually deceive others, can not deceive themselves.
A superficially obedient man
There is a kind of man, he usually does not bother with you, what you say is what it is, may feel that such a man loves himself in the eyes of many people.
In fact, it is not, sometimes it is just that he is not willing to cause trouble, and he directly obeys in order to avoid trouble, but his heart does not approve.
For those who are blindly obedient and have no ideas of their own, there will be no problems with each other when it is good.
But when it comes to disagreements, or when a choice needs to be made, he will definitely be at the side of his family and will never protect you.
Only people who are good for you from the bottom of their hearts and who truly approve of you are truly loving you.
Love is actually hierarchical, some people just pretend to love you, some people love you with their lives, the difference between the two is turned upside down.
At any time, we must learn to distinguish a person's true heart, do not be deceived by the superficial affection, otherwise it is yourself who will be hurt in the end.
The kind of man who is superficially obedient is actually the thinnest in his bones, and he will not really think about you.
A man who is good to everyone
In the world of feelings, what kind of people you meet, what kind of life you will have. Choosing a person is actually choosing a life.
When you meet a person, you must see the real person as they really are. For the kind of man who is good to everyone, it seems to be fraternal, but in fact, no one loves.
A man can be good to anyone, then you will not be an exception, you will never become his favorite.
Only those who know how to keep a distance and can give enough to the people you prefer are worth your careful treatment.
It is okay to love someone, but it must be worth it, otherwise there is no meaning, and men who are good to everyone seem to be affectionate, but in fact, they are the thinnest.
The kind of central air conditioning in the feelings is good for everyone, and in the eyes of others, it is a warm man, but he is not only warm to you, such a man does not know how to manage feelings.
So, choose a man, choose the person who will put you in your heart, you will always be the unique person, so that you will be happy.
summary:
In this life, people will meet many people, but they must choose the right person. Choosing the right person may lead to happiness for a lifetime; choosing the wrong person may lead to regret for life.
At any time, you must distinguish the people around you, choose the person who really loves you, knows how to draw boundaries, and only gives love to you, so that you will always be happy.