Text: Cradle of Love Smile Winter
Use the simplest words to give you warmth, give you companionship, lead you to grow, and help you be strong.
How a person's fate is determined by many aspects, such as the environment, family, thoughts, abilities, etc., but the most important thing is determined by oneself, and through one's own efforts, many things can be changed.
A hard-working, kind, strong, brave person will often create a richer life.
And a lazy, negative, narrow-minded, selfish person will often suffer a lot of life.
Therefore, most of a person's suffering is caused by himself, don't believe it.
01
Their own laziness
"A hundred kinds of ills, all from laziness." Laziness will make a person achieve nothing. A lazy person will have many bad habits, such as procrastinating, increasing obesity, missing opportunities, and losing items.
Accumulate a lot of small amounts, and over the years, life will become difficult.
Pie will not fall from heaven, don't choose ease when you can suffer and struggle.
Life is fair, and it always gives the industrious with the sweetness of a harvest and the wickedness of poverty to the lazy.
A good life is created by one's own industrious hands and diligent mind, working hard when you are young, and enjoying happiness in old age.
Franklin said: "I have never seen a diligent and honest man who wakes up early complains about bad fate. Good character, good habits, and a strong will will will not be defeated by supposed fate. ”
We must be a hard-working person, water the years with their own hard work, grow up healthily, and live up to this life.
Of course, everyone has inertia, which is the common sentiment of human beings. Because we can't be like the machine, can be day and night, efficient operation, not to mention the machine, to a certain period of time, but also to do a good job of maintenance and maintenance, so as to continue to work.
As a person, especially an adult, we must also understand the combination of relaxation and leisure, but we must also understand that taking advantage of youth, "do not have to whip yourself".
In the best years, try to fight for a future you want, rather than living a sluggish and lazy life. In this way, we have warm blood memories to recall, a happy life to enjoy, and a brilliant tomorrow to look forward to.
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Their own paranoia
Paranoid people, unable to listen to the advice of others, unwilling to accept the opinions of others, unwilling to admit their own mistakes, stubborn, self-righteous, such people are often prone to detours, make mistakes, and cause bitter results.
In fact, in our lives, in the experience of others, in the persuasion of the heart, there are many opinions that are more reliable and are sincerely taught by people who have come here.
And "advice is good for the ear", but the paranoid person is unwilling to listen to the advice of others, always feel that their thoughts and actions are correct, insist on going their own way, and eventually be poisoned by their own ignorance and fearlessness.
Everyone is not omnipotent, they have their own areas that they do not know, things they do not know, situations that they do not understand, and their own shortcomings and deficiencies.
Especially when you are not sure, you must humbly accept the opinions of people who are more mature in these aspects, at least you can listen to their opinions first, think more diligently, and then make judgments, so that you can avoid making a lot of unnecessary mistakes and reduce a lot of mistakes.
"Good wind with strength, send me to the clouds", rely on the strength of others, let go of the so-called paranoia, we may be more likely to succeed, why not enjoy?
03
Own complaints
There will always be some unsatisfactory things in life's ups and downs, but if you blindly complain, it will not only not help, but may even make things worse.
When encountering difficulties and problems, we should first learn to solve them, not complain. A person who loves to complain, can't resist the pressure of real life, and often puts himself in a poor situation.
In fact, the quality of life, we need to rely on our own efforts, if we only complain, then we can only do nothing for a lifetime, but also comfort ourselves ordinary and precious.
When you start complaining, think more about those who are still trying to live, trying their best, carrying the weight forward, and slowly getting better.
They are in the storm, but they never complain, strong and brave to face, not afraid of wind and rain, they will finally smile to meet the beauty of the rainbow after the rain.
Don't complain about a little thing, each of us is capable of creating a life and changing our lives; don't complain because of some misses, miss the sunset and can also expect the stars to be full of stars; don't complain because of a little dissatisfaction, accept the grind of life, you will eventually become a better self.
No one likes someone who always complains, and no one wants to be with someone full of negative energy.
Amplify our own pattern, reflect on our own problems, work hard to take action, and solve things with our hearts, and our lives will become more smooth and sweet.
Fate always treats those who are diligent, wise, and optimistic, and a person's life is mostly caused by himself.
No one's life is smooth sailing, whether it is a headwind or a failure, the key is still in themselves.
Strive to be a self-motivated person, a hard-working person, not afraid of hardship, let go of paranoia, good at listening, willing to summarize, no longer complain, we will eventually get closer and closer to their ideal life, to create their own piece of the world.
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