Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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The beauty of love is always so intoxicating! Let people forget the loneliness and pain, just for the people in front of them a look of affirmation, even if this life is more difficult, it is worth it in the world!
In life, between tens of millions of people, a chance encounter with a person, in the name of love, the deep heart of the crown, is an arrangement in the dark, and it is also the fate of the right time.
Falling in love with someone, there aren't many reasons. Some people, just one glance is a hundred years of steadfastness! Some people, Xu is a mediocre person in the eyes of others, but they are the brightest star in their own eyes!
What is love?
Love is the corner of the mouth when thinking of a person, and love is to be with a person, and the language of the four eyes without half a word is like a thousand words.
Love, is can't help but approach, is full of my willingness to take the initiative to run!
It's just that love always starts easily and ends without reason! Too many people who love halfway, think back to the past are deeply sorry!
Between men and women, even if they love each other again, there will be quarrels and differences, even if they love someone deeply, it will inevitably make each other sad.
Love, in essence, is a sweet and sour companion.
Some people, without experiencing a separation, do not understand that they have long been deeply rooted. Some feelings, if they are not lost and regained, do not know who is indispensable to themselves!
After falling in love, not everyone can understand how to operate. The road of feelings has never been as beautiful and smooth as imagined.
Some people, although in love, impulsively make disconnected behaviors under a momentary atmosphere. And because of true love, even if the disconnection behavior occurs, they will still be together.
Only people who do not love each other enough will make themselves extra calm in the process of disconnection, and then start a new life.
After disconnection, if both people have these 3 feelings, they will definitely be together! And, once again, the feelings will be deeper than before!
If you and your ta feel the same way, get back together as soon as possible:
1: There is no way to invite others into their own lives
The disconnection under one breath is the self-protection made by the subconscious when the emotions are out of control, and the information conveyed in the form of disconnection to the other party needs to pay more attention to their inner feelings!
And the other party is also in such a similar psychology when it is emotionally excited!
Therefore, under the influence of emotions, the two people obviously thought of breaking the tranquility in advance, but because of their face or thinking that there was nothing wrong with them, they refused to take the first step!
During the disconnection period, relatives and friends around you may arrange blind dates or intentionally introduce the opposite sex to the person who is experiencing disconnection because of kindness. In the face of such a situation, people who have experienced disconnection do not have the half heart to invite other members of the opposite sex into their lives.
Because, in the hearts of those who have experienced disconnection, there is still an irreplaceable person.
Some people, can't say where is good, that is, no one can replace it! Some people, even if they are angry with themselves to the point of suffocation, are still the greatest salvation in their lives.
Only people who truly love each other deeply will regard each other as the only one in their lives! Even if there has been a big conflict, this does not affect love!
Arguing is to discuss things on the facts, and to break the connection is to blame the other party for not considering the problem from their own point of view! However, love is still there, without the slightest reduction in ingredients!
Two people who really love each other, even if they are disconnected, cannot invite other members of the opposite sex into their lives.
If, after you are in a hurry to break off the connection, you have a psychology of difficulty in controlling yourself and taking the initiative to approach, then stride towards each other! Don't let love have been lowered by time, only to think of getting closer, I'm afraid I'm really going to miss it!
2: Thoughts become disasters, and it is difficult to sleep and eat
The feelings between men and women begin with a heartbeat, from the deepening of love and the formation of habits and the continuation of interdependence.
People who love deeply in their hearts, even if they have broken the link because of a momentary emotional uncontrollably, they will still not be able to escape the prison of thoughts tailored for themselves!
Love, quarrel, face to face, anger must also be together!
But the disconnection of the momentary qi is completely invisible to each other, and the taste of nostalgia mixed with that kind of thought is the cause of the difficulty of sleeping and eating, and the result of love and qi.
Because the inner qi has not completely subsided, because I am afraid of "losing face", I have to endure my thoughts and worries and do not take the initiative to contact. But it will "cleverly" probe each other's news through common acquaintances, or follow each other's every move through certain media platforms...
When you know that the other party is not having a good time, you have mixed feelings, and when you see what the other party has sent, you will feel lost!
In fact, adults are the best at disguising their inner world! However, when the night is quiet, the heart will jump out and dialogue with yourself:
You have never stopped loving him, you are always thinking and thinking!
In real life, many people who really love each other impulsively make disconnected behavior because of some objective things, and finally have to continue to love each other in another form because of face.
In fact, it is not necessary, missing a person to the extreme is can't help but contact, do not force yourself to stop because of face. When you connect with your loved one, and your inner feelings are the same, then you will never be separated for anything again!
Don't let go of the heart, and the mouth must be hard! Don't know that no one but that person can get into your own eyes, but you are not willing to say "I still love you deeply"!
3: After disconnecting, double self-blame
When two people are together, they can rationally know the importance of empathy when they are calm, but ordinary people are most likely to do things that even they don't understand in the face of emotions.
Excessive language and excessive behavior are all regrets after the beginning.
It is often said that emotions are managed or that people who are rational enough will suppress them. In fact, when emotions come, it must be to distinguish how much the emotional impact of things on people is, so that they can control or manage!
It's like some people fall on their heads and pat the dust on their bodies as if nothing has happened, while others have to lie in place and cry!
Everyone's endurance is different! The pressure of facing things in different moods is also different! As a result, how to pinch, control or manage emotions when they come, they cannot use themselves to demand others.
Therefore, when people have some behaviors when their emotions are too extreme, if the other half does not understand tolerating empathy or is as extreme as the other party, then love is easy to derive their own stubborn disconnection.
Some people may feel that two people who make such a big fuss are not suitable for being together at all, but in fact, after two people have broken off the connection, they can truly recognize themselves and know the importance of smoothing their edges and corners in their feelings for love.
Everyone is a first-time person, no one is born to be an expert in emotional management, but all those who can walk from passion to dull to twilight are constantly running after passion, helping each other to grow old.
Two people who broke the connection because they did not understand empathy before, if they broke the connection, they would double their self-blame and know that their edges and corners needed to be smoothed out.
Then after getting back together, each other will understand empathy and good communication, which is the correct way to love each other!
If you are not in love, you will never be separated.
People who really love deeply will also cause a brief disconnection due to various objective reasons and subjective factors. However, if two people truly love each other, in the process of disconnection, there will be a phenomenon of thoughts, difficulty sleeping, inability to invite other members of the opposite sex into their lives, and self-examination and self-blame.
Some people, when they are together, are convinced that the relationship will not change, so they are too egotistical. The pain of disconnection made me understand how to become a qualified lover.
People who truly love each other, no matter what, are inseparable from each other, and there is no way to forget each other!
People who really love each other will still be together, because only staying with each other is the best ending for each other!
The person who really loves deeply, even if he has said that he has been separated ten thousand times, is still a fate that is doomed to be inseparable in the dark!
May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become dependents, and they will not have to break the connection to understand what is cherished!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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