In a lifetime, people will probably rub shoulders with eight million people, greet tens of thousands of people, intersect with thousands of people and only be very close to a few people, but these people will eventually disappear into the sea of people.
The people we meet in our lives have friends, relatives, and of course, villains and thieves, so how should we deal with them when we meet villains?
In fact, as early as hundreds of years ago, someone gave the answer, this person is Wang Yangming, known as "the first perfect person in the ages". Wang Yangming founded with his own ability"
Wang Yangming's encounter was bumpy, it can be said that he met many "villains", first offended the eunuch Liu Jin, was demoted to longchang, and then was killed by adulterers, almost lost his life, even after experiencing many tribulations, Wang Yangming was still mixed up in the second half of his life, why?
In "The Unity of Knowledge and Action: Wang Yangming's Mind Study", it was found that Wang Yangming had his own set of rules for dealing with the world, helping him to have a smooth career. In his book, Wang Yangming admonished the crowd:
Tip 1: Roundabout tactics
After Wang Yangming quelled the rebellion, he was not faced with promotion, but frame-up. At that time, some people wanted to kill Wang Yangming on the way, and secretly sent Jinyi Wei to assassinate.
However, Wang Yangming saw that this Jinyi guard was not afraid, but instead gave him five or two pieces of silver, praised this Jinyi guard for his integrity and was a rare talent in the official field, and said that he would write to the imperial court to introduce him.
This Jinyi guard was exaggerated, not only thanking Wang Yangming for his introduction, but also reminding him to be careful of the villains that the imperial court wanted to frame him.
It was precisely because Wang Yangming had taken precautions in advance that he would not be harmed. In fact, Wang Yangming's approach is typical."
Tip 2: Don't think so
After Wang Yangming entered the official field, he found that the official field was very sinister, and there were many deceitful people. Wang Yangming was in danger, and it took only one month to quell the rebellion of King Ning.
Originally, it was to give Wang Yangming a credit, but because it touched the interests of the eunuchs, Wang Yangming was relegated to the dragon field under their trap.
Even if he was relegated to the dragon field with a harsh environment, Wang Yangming did not care, but was blessed by misfortune, understood the essence of "heart science", and successfully founded Wang Yangming heart science.
Although villains are hateful, if they openly confront them, it is not the best choice, and it is likely to lose both in the end.
Wang Yangming learns wisdom in his heart
In the long history of China, there are two recognized "saints", and Wang Yangming is one of them. The psychology he founded not only influenced many scholars and celebrities in China, but also became famous overseas, influenced celebrities in other countries, and became a culture respected by the world.
Although many years have passed, Wang Yangming's wisdom can still bring blessings and good luck to readers. When you encounter difficulties in life and don't know how to solve them, you may wish to check out this book "The Unity of Knowledge and Action: Wang Yangming's Mind Study". This book
The book "Unity of Knowledge and Action: Wang Yangming's Mind Study" summarizes Wang Yangming's life experience, also known as "Wang Yangming's Biography", and understanding his life can allow us to learn more useful wisdom.