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Source / Uncle Zhifuudashu (ID: zhifoudashu)
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Two days ago, there was a news on Weibo hot search, which made people feel heavy.
On the afternoon of October 25, Huaibei, Anhui.
The network exposed that in the Huaibei Vocational and Technical College in Anhui Province, an abandoned baby was found downstairs in the girls' dormitory.
It is understood that the abandoner is a freshman girl living on the sixth floor of the dormitory building where the incident occurred, and it is said that she is only 17 years old this year.
The girl's "crime process" was shocking.
She blocked the baby's mouth with a strip of cloth and fell straight down the stairs, finding herself with no signs of life.
Many of the girls in the same dormitory building were too scared to go to the toilet and did not sleep all night.
The police station said that the case of abandoning the baby in the Huaibei Vocational Hospital had been handed over to the criminal police team, and the police were currently investigating the case.
After the news broke, netizens exploded.
"Cover the baby's mouth and throw it downstairs, it's not that the devil can't do this."
"Some people would rather fall into depravity as cattle than be human beings and do human affairs..."
Some netizens also said:
Today's girls don't know how to protect themselves at all, freshmen, enter school in September, pregnancy dates really don't dare to think deeply...
Students, when learning for a living.
It should be the age of education in school, but there are many thoughts and impulses that should not belong to this age.
For example, the girl in this incident was pregnant before marriage.
The newborn child was thrown from the upper floor in this way, which was not abandonment, but naked intentional killing.
The girl's actions have been implicated in intentional homicide.
She has lost the most basic moral bottom line and conscience, and what awaits her must be the disaster of imprisonment.
However, we can't just look at one thing at the surface.
The girl was pregnant in October, and no one noticed that parents and teachers were unaware, which is also worth pondering.
People and the environment complement each other.
A girl's pregnancy had nothing to do with the school, but if she became pregnant during school, it was not normal for the school to be unaware.
Similarly, there are the parents of girls.
From the time the daughter is pregnant to the time she gives birth, it is ignorant of this, and it is light to say that it is neglectful.
Some people say that such a sad thing happened, if the girl is the main culprit, then her parents and the school are accomplices.
We cannot deny that people are self-perfect, but we cannot deny that the environment can affect a person's life.
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Girls who make irrational moves because of early love are not unique.
Last month, in Luoyang, Henan Province, a girl climbed up the high bridge and cried:
"What the hell am I doing wrong, and why are you doing this to me?"
Saying that he wanted to jump into the river and live a light life, the situation on the scene was very dangerous.
Fire rescue personnel saw that the girl's mood fluctuated greatly, in order to prevent accidents, one group of firefighters was responsible for stabilizing the woman's mood, and the other group carried rescue equipment ready to carry out rescue.
The dialogue between the two sides is as follows:
The girl shouted: Stay away from me!
Firefighters anxiously remind: don't stomp your feet, that's tin!
The girl fell into her own emotions, unable to extricate herself, and kept repeating:
"What the hell am I doing wrong, where am I sorry for you?"
While comforting, the firefighters took advantage of the girl's inattention and ran directly to grab the girl's arm.
Everyone joined forces and successfully rescued the girl.
Although the firefighters had been comforting the girl, she was still very sad and sat on the ground and cried loudly.
According to witnesses at the scene, the girl was still in school and was a minor.
Her relationship with her boyfriend broke down, and in pain, she wanted to end her life.
Netizens have left messages below:
"Drilling the horns, you shouldn't think about others, you should think more about yourself."
"It's the height of youth, what's not to like?"
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Adults understand the truth, but minors may not be able to understand.
Today's children are becoming more precocious, and the phenomenon of early love has become more common.
Blocking is not as good as thinning, for this situation, parents should guide their children reasonably.
As the writer Rosson put it:
The best protection for girls is bottom-line education, and the highest education for boys is sunshine education.
In general, early love mostly ends in tragedy, because children who are too young simply do not have the ability to last forever.
To educate your own children, you must stay sober and bottom line.
Only by giving them a clear understanding of the consequences of each step they take can they avoid tragedy.
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Children in early love in adolescence have insufficient self-control over emotions, and if parents do not provide timely guidance, it may cause irreparable consequences.
Search for early love in Baidu, we will see such a scene:
"A high school girl committed suicide due to early love;
Early love was blocked, and the 17-year-old boy left a suicide note and jumped into the river to commit suicide;
The flower girl jumped off the building because of emotional problems..."
Professor Luo Xiang, a political science and law star, once said:
"Happiness, there is no shortcut. All happiness means hard work. Happiness is only a by-product of responsibility, and to pursue happiness without responsibility, the last thing you get must be pain. ”
But many minors do not understand this truth.
In the process of growing up, children will inevitably make mistakes.
If you don't get the right education after making mistakes, you can easily go astray.
Just like the above "17-year-old female college student in Anhui throws children".
If parents and schools do their due duties, uncle thinks, the ending will be different from now.
As I said before, people and the environment complement each other.
Good people in bad environments may also become bad people;
And the bad guys are in a good environment, and they will see the wise and the bright and bright under the ears.
Regarding early love, the father's words to his daughter who is hesitant to go to her boyfriend's house for the night in the movie "Perfect Stranger" are impressive:
"Don't go to his house because he's not happy, that shouldn't be the only reason, and don't expect me to support you more."
But I will say that this is an important moment in your life, something you will remember for the rest of your life, not just a conversation you will have with your friends tomorrow.
If you think about it later, whenever you think back, it will make you smile, you do it.
But if you don't think so or aren't quite sure, forget about it, because you still have a lot of time left. ”
In the end, the daughter did not go to the boy's house for the night, because she knew that she was not enough to bear the consequences of the night.
I hope that more underage girls will understand this truth.
If you like someone, you have a lot of time to get to know each other deeply, and don't rush to expect it to blossom when your emotions are budding.
Love is not a momentary pleasure, but to grow up with each other and progress together.
Similarly, early love is not a big mistake.
What parents can do is to guide their children to understand the consequences of early love, such as the harm of pregnancy and miscarriage, and life after losing school.
And what children can do is to maintain sanity when in love, keep the bottom line, and don't end up hurting others and hurting themselves.
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* Article source: Uncle Zhifuudashu (ID: zhifoudashu). Author: Uncle, former airline employee, height 1 meter 86, three views than the facial features, the vision is broader than the eyes; I have never seen you, but I understand you better than anyone. Unauthorized reproduction shall not be reproduced twice, send friends, forward the circle of friends please feel free.
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