Men or women are looking for love in their hearts before they have fully entered the adult world.
To be loyal or loyal for love, this is not easy, it is even more rare, because adulthood only cares about the world. Love is only an integral part of the world.
In the process of pursuing love, men and women have some different ways of cherishing love. Men like loyalty, while women like loyalty. Can you believe it?
Why is that?
Loyalty is wholeheartedness, there is no two hearts.
Chastity is the same, there is faith, there is will.
Sincerity is to expose oneself, not to deceive or hide.
In fact, loyalty does not explain how long it is to be single-minded, nor does it explain the degree of consciousness of wholeheartedness.
Chastity is an emphasis on the psychology that has always remained unchanged, but it needs to be maintained by a reasonable belief, and it needs a strong will to dominate. Once faith is lost, the will is weakened, and although it remains unchanged, it is powerless.
Sincerity is only a way of inner release, not that it is unchanged, nor how long it lasts, let alone justified beliefs and the need for reverse will.
So, isn't the combined meaning of loyalty and fidelity different?
When they are young, women are obsessed with love, because there is infinite beauty and it is not easy to get. Love in the psychology of a young girl should be a priceless treasure, not getting it is the unsatisfactory fate, and getting it is all kinds of happiness. Therefore, in the treatment of love, the girl gives loyalty a high psychological status, which is understandable.
As adults, women still like to be faithful, why is this? Needless to say, women are born chaste, and the important thing is that they feel that they have already received a treasure and are willing to be loyal. In the hearts of women, it is certainly an irreplaceable value, and it can never be broken copper and iron.
After marriage, women will still choose fidelity, which is also well understood, because of the role of culture and family relations. The role of culture is great, and if it is not done well, it is a negative evaluation. Family relationships cannot be ignored, because no one is only alone with the object, but more often married into new relationships. Interpersonal relationships are not scattered.
Men are different from women, but they have their own characteristics, that is, they prefer loyalty.
Loyalty and loyalty have completely different meanings, the former is unchanging, while the latter is variable, and this is the problem.
In addition to the gender problems that men themselves have, men's heat is staged, not straight, more like a functional relationship, which requires the regulation of independent variables, especially the influence of automutation range.
Young men, obsessed with love, but that also likes to hide. Once you break through Tibet, it will take a lot of courage. Therefore, it is not easy to be sincere, and as for chastity, do not expect extravagantly.
Adult men are too realistic, and their value orientation is dominant. The reason why loyalty is that the value is small, and once the value changes, it may be loyal to reposition. It is not easy for men to be honest, but they are very good at sincerity, which is the basic requirement of men in society.
So how can a man be unfaithful? Men dominate themselves, so are they also disloyal to themselves and their family relationships? Definitely not.
Men's beliefs may be values, and the will is only to resist pressure. Loyalty must be chosen, and loyalty is hardly achieved.
Therefore, the adult world is more about the world itself. The persistent pursuit of love, which is the ideal of a brave teenager, is either pure or clear.
In fact, complexity and depth are the real pursuits, which is a fact that cannot be changed, because society forces people to change, either growing up or growing.
Love loyalty or fidelity, and maybe good luck.
Loyalty in the adult world is complicated.
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