As a father of two daughters, I want to teach them to be clean and self-reliant

A teacher said in class that girls should "guard themselves like jade", which caused a lot of controversy, and many people thought that this was a feudal remnant of the idea, which was the suppression of women.

For this question, I, as a man, a woman's husband, and a father of two daughters, dare not deny it completely.

To be honest, I always think that it is much harder for women to live in this world than for men. Even if a man is mixed up and lost, as long as he does not die, he will generally die; and women are different, a young girl, once out of the house, is like a sheep walking in a forest surrounded by wolves, and may encounter accidental injuries at any time. And once a girl is mixed into the bottom of society, it is much worse than a man, and the insults, oppression, and deception she encounters will be hellish mode.

I believe that a person who pays attention to the news a lot and has some experience will not think that I am alarmist.

Moreover, the differences between men and women in all aspects are objective. Physically, women are not as strong and powerful as men; physiologically, women always have a few days of weakness every month; in thinking, most women are not as rational and calculating as men; culturally, the world has always been a patriarchal society; in gender relations, people's requirements for women are more demanding and even divided; in male and female love, women will become pregnant.

Therefore, in the face of a young and ignorant girl, the first way we can tell her to protect herself is to keep herself like a jade and clean herself. Especially if you have a daughter at home, you must start sex education after the child has gender awareness, telling them the knowledge of women's physiology, the differences between the sexes, the principle of pregnancy contraception, how to get along with men, how to prevent sexually transmitted diseases, etc. Don't think that a child is too young to think that there is no need, because criminals will never let her go because she is young. Don't pin your hopes on boys, too, because boys' families never think their children will suffer.

In recent years, the total number of abortion surgeries in China every year has been about 10 million cases, and girls between the ages of 18 and 25 are the main force, and many people even repeat abortions. In addition, sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS are still spreading. As for the news of children born in the toilet of middle school students, it is not uncommon. And all of this, the most hurt and affected is still the girl.

Raising a daughter, everyone hopes that she can be safe, healthy, happy, and happy, then, we should educate her to protect herself, cherish herself, don't go where you shouldn't go, and people who shouldn't interact should stay away. Let her not underestimate the evil of human nature, and do not challenge and test the inferiority of human beings.