It is often said that this is a stressful time: the pressure of exams, the pressure of the workplace, the pressure of socializing, the pressure of bringing a baby, the pressure of middle age... So many people become tired from tearing with emotions. Teachers, tired? In the last month of 2021, please accept these 50 warm comforts, and all unhappiness will end here.
To those of you who care too much about what others think
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You can't make an orange that everyone likes, and others love to eat apples and bananas, and that's not your fault.
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Relationships, sometimes, are the same thing: I treat you with sincerity, but I don't cling to you. Live in fate, not in relationships.
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You don't need the world to understand you. It's okay. Some people will never really understand what they haven't experienced, but some will understand and be grateful for understanding you. (Matt Hagrid)
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One day you will understand that grievances must be digested by yourself, and stories do not have to be told every time. There won't be many people who really understand you, and what you can do is hide your secrets and become stronger step by step.
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There is no need to deliberately fit in, and interesting people will naturally attract each other.
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There are people in the world who hate coriander, don't like milk tea, don't like soda, and feel bored playing games. Well, it's normal that someone doesn't like you, it's not how bad you are, it's that sometimes it doesn't matter how good you are. For people who hate coriander, good coriander and bad coriander are the same.
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One of the biggest breakthroughs in my life was that I stopped worrying about what other people thought of me. After that, I was really free to do what I thought was best for me. We become free only when we do not need the approval of outsiders. (Roy Martina)
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Even if you are said badly and hated, there is nothing to care about, because "how the other party views you" is the other party's subject. Carrying other people's problems without permission will only make you feel pain. in Adler
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Not being embedded in the mold is the common sentiment of people, and not being embedded in it is the real self. (Nanae Aoyama)
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Don't change your otherwise happy self in order to cater to others.
Give your efforts to you who have not yet borne fruit
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"Frying" and "boiling" are both ways to become delicious, and so can "refueling"!
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We often say "come on", not to feel that you are not hard enough, nor to compare you with others, but to sincerely feel that you are more than this, you deserve better, I hope you can be treated kindly and favored, so don't give up, and work hard!
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You've really done a great job. This sentence exists here, when you need courage, remember to take it out and say it to yourself.
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Don't forget the mood of wanting to pick the stars.
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Be patient and don't be discouraged. You think that if spring is coming, the earth will make it complete little by little. in Rilke
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Take your time, be quick.
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After surviving despair, the value of time will be doubled.
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Every experience in life is writing your resume. Many things that you thought were insignificant, when you look back, have scales that cannot be counted.
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Day after day, which seems to be untouchable, will definitely let you see the meaning of persistence on a certain day.
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Although it is very difficult at the moment, this experience may bear fruit in the future. (Haruki Murakami)
To you in a foreign land
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As long as you don't get sick, the money will be earned slowly.
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When you encounter something bad, deal with it as appropriate and filter it properly.
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People in a foreign land, don't get sick. Eat well and you won't get homesick.
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Lose your temper less, go to bed on time, don't mess around, and remember to laugh.
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When you feel like you can't pass, think that you've come from all the moments in the past when you feel like you can't go.
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If you feel that everyone is not helping you, it may be that God thinks that you can do it yourself.
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Living in a so-called foreign land, the heart should be straight and resolute, and the mentality should be roundabout and gentle. （@Joeysole）
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I called my grandmother at home/ called and said / I'm looking at the moon now / You're looking at the moon too / So / Our eyes / Will be on the moon / Meet. (Jiang Eryan's "Gaze")
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When you feel too busy to take a break, that's when you need to find time to rest the most. (Matt Hagrid)
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No matter how sad the day is, remember to carefully remove makeup, wash your face, take a shower and dry your hair, and get into the bed safely and steadily, the bed is like a time capsule, "sigh" will take you to a bright morning.
To you who love and cannot
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Have the courage to be the past of others.
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Life is difficult to complete, and it is not necessarily a regret to ask for it.
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Some people are lucky just to meet them.
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There are always things in the world that you can't get no matter how much you expect them, so try to forget them.
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You have to think that at this moment someone is missing out on someone else in order to meet you.
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It should be to get strength and happiness from liking, not to spend all strength and happiness to like.
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Two sentences that I have always liked: "The more you are yourself, the more you are loved by another person." "How you love yourself is teaching others how to love you."
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Strive to be excellent, and then be generous. The so-called life, do something, have love, and have more expectations.
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Take your time, I believe that there is always an encounter, it is mutual liking, mutual appreciation, growing together, and it is across the vast sea of people, with gentleness to come.
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In short, the years are long, but it is worth the wait.
To you who are not very happy
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There is a saying that there are no people who are completely happy, only people who want to be more open. In other words, if you want to open a little, it is easier to be happy.
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Negative emotions are smaller than you. It's always smaller than you, even if it feels bulky at times. It works in your body, you don't run in it. It may be a dark cloud floating in the sky, and you are the whole sky. There was a sky before the clouds appeared. Dark clouds cannot exist apart from the sky, and the sky is still the sky without dark clouds. (Matt Hagrid)
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If you / slowly raise your hand up / lift to the top / suddenly open five fingers again / then congratulations / You just set yourself a firework. (Yang Yiwu, "Put up to two at a time")
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I think sleep is the cure for everything, close the curtains, cover the quilt, sleep in the dark, and wake up feeling that there is no trouble. Later, I found that my expectations for life are nothing more than this: eat delicious food, sleep well, if you can still be with the people you like, be healthy, and make a little money, it will be super invincible and happy.
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Human roaming guide: Feel bored to find fun, feel that there are too many concerns about others to make yourself unhappy and withdraw. We are first alive, then enthusiastic or cold, serious or casual.
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In order to make life happy, it is necessary to love the daily chores. The brilliance of the clouds, the swaying of bamboo, the chirping of the flocks, the faces of pedestrians – the need to taste the supreme nectar from all the daily chores. (Ryunosuke Wasagawa)
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There are two ways to forget about life's troubles: music and cats. (Albert Schwartz)
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It is better for people to be able to walk around and meet all kinds of people, things, and things than to be bored at home. Don't always excuse that it's hot in the summer and cold in the winter, go outside and look around. There may be many new and old memories. (Yochi Shimada)
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Find a good friend, find a good weather, find a tree full of fruit, shake off a few sweet fruits. Find a quiet corner and share bits and pieces of each other's boring lives. Wait for the breeze to blow softly and watch the white clouds drift silently. (a few meters)
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Whenever I feel depressed, I remind myself that you are traveling free of charge in a 12,000-kilometer-diameter aircraft with a circulatory system. The gloom disappeared in an instant, and a sense of romance suddenly arose in my heart.
When many people are unhappy, they often say: The world is not worth it. However, it is said that another explanation of "the human world is not worth it" is that the human world is originally like this, it is not worth your entanglement, it is better to live a little freely.
As one writer put it: Be gentle with yourself, you are nothing more than a child of the universe, no different from plants or stars.
Source | CCTV News Night Reading, China Education News comprehensive collation