What is the most painful high school student? Probably thinking about 211/985, but the actual operation only took 350, every day I wanted to work hard, but I actually worked hard for two days, and on the third day I began to play back to the original shape, lying flat and laughing.
Without further ado, I'll give you an example, which was a personal experience of my students.
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I have a student who has just finished his grade and is directly bored with school.
The reason is very simple, his total score in the sub-subject examination is 490, but he wants to take the China Public Security University, which needs 620 points, and there is a difference of 130, he thinks that this 130 is too difficult, there is no hope!
Is this a problem that many high school students are prone to? Recall that you often hear other people chatting —
"This kid used to get good grades, but then he didn't know how to go down."
"This baby used to be smart, but then she didn't like to learn."
"Whoever is a child, when he was in junior high school, he was very strong, but he couldn't do it in high school!"
In fact, these children are different, but in the end they all fall into a state of "boredom" and cannot extricate themselves.
They're not "no," they just don't have the right way to quickly adjust their mindset.
We must understand: everyone has a big dream in their hearts, but a huge goal also means a huge difficulty, you think, if you go out and see a small stone, you can definitely remove it casually, but if you open the door and see "Taihang, Wang Wu Ershan", I can't you immediately become a "contemporary fool"?
So, when your goals are very ambitious, learn to split the goals!
So I told him —.
"Now you have about 20 months, and on average you need to raise about 7 points a month, but we have six courses, and each one of them only needs to be scored 1.2, and you can get in." Was it difficult for a single subject to rise by 1.2 points in that month? ”
It's easy to say one!
So, when he said this, he was full of confidence again!
Now, after a little more than half a year, he has risen by 60 points, half way from his goal, but I believe him: as long as he persists, he will definitely be able to go where he wants to go.
So, when the dream is big, you may wish to disassemble it into a specific task for each day! After all, the dream that can be realized is every step we take!