Finding a satisfactory nanny employer requires empathy and heart-to-heart

The series of domestic service reports recently published by this newspaper have aroused social concern. How to solve the problems in the domestic service market? How to "find a satisfactory nanny"? Many readers have told their own experiences and feelings.

"It is said that it is not easy to find a good nanny, and most of the things I hear in my ears are changing nannies like marquees, more than a few months, and fewer days I quit the nanny." I've been hiring this babysitter for two years and haven't changed it. Others say that I have met a good nanny, but to be honest, there is a most critical problem here, that is, empathy. Mrs. Wen, who is in her 80s, said in an interview how she got along with the nanny. The old man confessed: "When the nanny first came, her own washbasin was buttoned up after it was used, and her own quilt was dried at both ends for three days. In the small talk, I told her that when I dried the quilt again, I would also dry it, so that we would both be comfortable, and wouldn't you also worry about my health? For some small things that make the old man "awkward", the old man always has to think about it in a different position first, and then communicate sincerely with the nanny. In this way, the old man and the nanny have something to say to each other, never sulk, and get along more and more harmoniously.

"I'm a nanny, and I do the job of serving people." Nearly 50-year-old Xu Jie told reporters bluntly, "In the 5 years of being a nanny, I have changed 6, the shortest one has been working for two months, and now the one I am doing is the longest, and it has been almost two years." Xu Jie summed up that there were many reasons why the previous work was not long, and both sides had a time when they "couldn't tolerate" each other. She said: "For example, in the summer, I sweat when I move, and I want to turn on the air conditioner early, but the employer is a 90-year-old old woman, afraid of the cold, not only does not turn on the air conditioning, but also closes the door when sleeping." No way, I just have to be patient. For example, my habit is to wash my hair every day, and the elderly are not used to it. However, what touched me about the old lady was that once I had two days off at home, but the old man paid for two days' wages, saying that it was not easy for me. I thanked the old lady from the bottom of my heart for her understanding, so some small things can be endured. My experience has taught me that only by being good to others can others be good to you, and it is better to compare hearts to hearts, so that both sides can not be bad! ”

Professionals believe that in addition to the multi-position thinking of the two parties to adapt to each other, a number of initiatives launched by the Family Service Industry Association in recent years have also played a positive role in the regulation of the city's domestic market. "We have formulated and implemented the Tianjin Family Service Industry Convention, the Tianjin Family Service Industry Service Quality Standard, and the Tianjin Family Service Industry Family Service Contract, all of which have obvious effects on regulating the development of the industry." For example, when the two parties to the employer sign the contract, the detailed terms can better protect the rights and interests of both parties and reduce future disputes. The relevant person in charge of the Tianjin Family Service Association introduced it. In order to standardize and develop the family service market in Tianjin, the association put forward the "ten unification" requirements for the family service industry in Tianjin, while protecting the interests of all parties in family services. In addition, we will carry out poverty alleviation docking and deepen cooperation with Shanxi, Hebei and other provinces. Promoting the employment of "LvliangShan care workers" in Tianjin and promoting the training of high-end domestic talents in the "Internet + entity service" of beijing-Tianjin-Hebei home economics have promoted the standardized development of the city's domestic service market to a certain extent.

Reporter Wang Shaofang

【Source: Tonight Newspaper】