My eighties —the old wildcat is coming — two, your dad is coming

My '80s

The old wildcat is coming

When I was a child, I was frightened every day, frightened and frightened, happy and happy has always accompanied me, and I was scared. ------

The old wildcat is coming—your father is coming

Meow, the old wildcat is coming.

I said, "I'm the old wildcat!" Stop shouting. "I was beaten, it was my father who beat me, and my mother pulled me to prevent my father from hitting me." Only mothers are good in the world" is real. I remembered my mother's goodness, but I also remembered my father's badness: the stick hit the body, which was much more than the old wildcat that had never met.

The father of that era was really incredible, and the international doubles were two superpowers: down with the US imperialists and defeated the Soviet revisionists; down with the class enemies at home; beaten by wives and children at home; and genuinely beaten invincible hands all over the world. Listening to General Daddy, one day they were working in the mountains, and they saw a flying saucer coming from the universe and stopped next to them. A strange group of aliens came down from the flying saucer, with mouths as big as a washbasin, eyes on fire, and noses like the noses of elephants. Their leader said to Big Daddy, "Can you give them some food to eat, they are passing through the earth to go to Baba Star to catch the market, and they are hungry." Originally, Big Daddy wanted to order food for the aliens, but they didn't expect them to say, "Why are you so backward here!" "Big Daddy, as soon as they heard the fire, they lifted the hoe and fought with the aliens, and finally the aliens were beaten and ran away crying. It's really an invincible hand that beats the universe.

If you think about it, I was 3 years old at the time, of course, I was beaten to the point where I didn't lose my temper, and at the beginning I had to have my father personally present, look around for a stick, and then do the family law. Later, no matter who it was, whoever found me making trouble, just say, "Don't jump, your father is coming." "I was immediately frightened.

At that time, Dad fought all day long, the US imperialists, the Soviet revisionists, and the class enemies were paper tigers, and if they didn't fight white, they would fight first; everyone would fight from eating to sleeping; other things would be fought from eating to sleeping: one person eating was called beating a flat guy; interacting with people was called dealing with people; sleeping on the floor was called hitting the floor------。 Enjoy the joy of heaven and teach your children to call playing a baby.

A few years ago, my father also told me about the benefits of beating me, my father said: "At that time, the children, three days do not fight, go to the house to uncover the tiles, if you do not fight, you can not control you climb high and low, play rhinestone mud, you know, these are dangerous things, beating you is also forced, fortunately through my fight, these dangerous problems have been solved." ”

Listening to my father say this, I realized that when we were young, we were beaten by ourselves, and I didn't blame my father at all. It's just that I didn't understand things when I was a child, otherwise my father should say after I hit it: "Thank you dad, play well." ”

Why did the children of that era "not open the house for three days?" In fact, Dad also said that the degree was light, our real situation is "a day without marking the house to reveal the tiles", you think ah, at that time, mom and dad had to contribute all their energy to socialist construction, there was no time to take care of me, we wandered around all day, what can we do without doing some tile picking? I could only turn around, at that time we did not turn out the guns, if we turned out the guns, hit the Us Empire and the Soviet Revisionists did not want their father to do it, we played while playing, because at that time I also believed in a "fight" word.

I remember when I was 4 years old at home with my brother, my brother was old enough to catch insects, no way, the effective means I could take was my brother catching once I hit once, when my brother was beaten by me all day crying until late, tears with dust were rubbed on the face, fancy, when the younger brother saw his mother come back, he ran desperately, always running and crying, when the brother was one year old, I remember my mother always said: "My poor wild cat", and then picked up my brother.

When the younger brother finds a patron, he will immediately complain to his mother: "I catch insects to play, my brother beats me, and my mother beats my brother!" The younger brother thought that his mother would do justice, but he did not expect that his mother was very serious at this time, she patted her brother's ass and said: "If you catch a worm, you should hit it!" "Mother told us that there was a child, the mother took to work, the mother was working in the field when the child sat and played on the grass on the edge of the field, the child saw a big worm, he thought the big worm could eat, he grabbed the big worm in his mouth and sucked, the mother found that when the big worm was sucked by the child, there was only one skin left, and the child died soon after. This story made me feel very frightened, so as long as my brother caught the worm, I hit it, and I thought that hitting it once was a meritorious deed, and I was very proud.

At that time, who beat children was proud, because children did not understand things, and everyone thought that they could not fight without a weapon. At home, the children are played by their parents and brothers and sisters. The teacher hit when I was reading. Listening to the homeroom teacher of my junior high school, when his parents sent him to school, he handed the teacher a bundle of small bamboo, and his father instructed the teacher: "Sir, please be sure to care about my son, this semester no matter what, this bundle of bamboo will be interrupted." At the end of the semester, his father went to the teacher, and the acceptance result was that the bamboo sticks were broken, and his father was very happy, because their family was from Xuanwei, Yunnan, so he gave the teacher a Xuanwei ham.

Our teacher said that at that time, people believed in filial piety under the stick, show talent under the stick, parents had to fight for the filial piety of their children, and teachers had to fight for the sake of students. This concept of letting children grow up healthy in the middle of the game has been very popular until I was teaching.

When I was a teacher in 1998, I learned in college that a child's ass is a tiger's ass, and the tiger's ass cannot be touched, and corporal punishment and disguised corporal punishment of students are prohibited. After work, most parents always say as soon as they meet: "Teacher, if your child does not obey, you will beat it, as long as you do not kill and maim it." Some people thought that it must be a group of poor mountain villagers who said this, but in fact, it was not, this sentence was first said by Zhu Yuanzhang. Zhu Yuanzhang asked Song Lian to be the prince's teacher at that time, and Song Lian asked Zhu Yuanzhang before taking office: "Can you fight?" Zhu Yuanzhang said, "You can fight." Song Lian asked again, "To what extent can you fight?" Zhu Yuanzhang said, "You can't die." Zhu Yuanzhang left many words, such as what the dignitaries loved to say: "Fengtian carries the fortune, the emperor edicts." ”

Once I was standing on the fourth floor of the school, and within 10 minutes, I watched four teachers beating students.

The first teacher beats a student from the classroom to the outside of the classroom. The second teacher knocked a student out of the classroom into the classroom. The third teacher hit a student in the hallway of the classroom. The fourth teacher beat two students at the same time in front of the teaching building. The hardest hit was the teacher in front of the building, who punched and kicked in unison, and after a while he was out of breath and tired, and the parents on the side continued to fight. This style of play is called "mixed doubles" by students. I watched while drinking tea, and it felt pleasing to the eye, and this scene witnessed that our school is a strictly managed school and parents are satisfied. It was true that at that time, our school was the first place in every exam, and there was an endless stream of students who came to our school to find them.

The four teachers beat up the students who "did not want to make progress" together, and trained the students with the fists and feet of the "human soul engineer", at that time, the land was a beautiful scenery, and it was a disaster that was difficult to read now, and I was afraid that there would be students who would have serious psychological problems, depression, and jumping off the building. But it didn't exist at that time, and often after the beating, the student would immediately write an essay and give it to the teacher, thanking the teacher for waking him up from sleep. And the teacher-student relationship will not be affected, and the student with whom I have the best relationship now is the one I have hit the most. Of course, there are also individual students who may have a serious psychological shadow after being beaten by the teacher, such as 20 years later in the street beating the class teacher 20 years ago Chang XX, it is said that he was beaten by the teacher after graduating from junior high school 20 years often woke up at night, 20 years later, in the street encountered an unscrupulous class teacher, decided to do for Skywalker, because this class teacher also often beat other students. He did justice and beat up the class teacher who had no power to fight back. In order to report the good news, he recorded a video and sent the video of the beating of the class teacher to the victimized students to comfort the hearts of the students who were beaten. This incident had a great impact at that time, and I was scared and trembling, because I was a very responsible teacher in the school, beating students steadily, accurately and fiercely, so I was called "the four killers of XX Middle School" together with the other three famous teachers in the school. There may be students who have been psychologically shadowed by me, and there may be students who are also looking for opportunities to avenge the beating of that year.

"Your father is coming" When we were young, the time that scared me was very short, because soon my father could not find a reason to beat me, at the age of four we had to find pig grass, five or six years old to understand things, seven years old I would stir-fry cooking, I fried vegetables to cook with my brother was highly praised at the time, whenever someone said: "Yu Ba really understands things, can cook rice and stir-fry, take my brother to bring so well", I will always beat him deeply for his brother's "disobedience".

Mom and Dad have rarely beaten children in recent years, and one day I saw a dad with a naughty child who frightened the child like this: "Your mother is here." ”

After listening to it, I felt very kind and strange, The Chinese father has been catized over the years, the Chinese mother is a tiger, the Chinese mother is on fire, and the Chinese grandmother is a god.

Once on the street, I saw a son beating his father, that son's age is similar to mine, presumably also shocked by "don't jump, your father is coming", this will hit his father on the street, is it revenge for the three days of a dozen?

I now admire my father, who was beaten by him when I was a child, even if sometimes very hard, and once I counted the scars on my legs, because I had not yet read, and I could not count them. But I didn't hate him, on the contrary, I admired him more and more, and I knew that he was beating me and being whipped by that era. Dad was in his 30s at the time, and the deep wrinkles on his face were the whip marks of that era, in fact, he suffered a lot of unspeakable pain, but he always smiled and carried the weight forward. Now that he is 74 years old, he insists on hanging the pot in the world after retirement, and on the wall of his simple clinic, he hangs the proof of his noble medical skills, and the pennants tell me that my father is a strong man in life, he has helped thousands of people, he has helped me, and I have chosen to be an upright person no matter what the situation.

As I grew older, I understood my father more and more, and being beaten by my father when I was a child became more and more a good memory for me. So when Dad talks about the benefits of hitting me, I now take it for granted, and I'm convinced that a father, no matter when he hits his children, contains love that no one else can understand.

What was once fear has now become a warm, inseparable emotion, and this is the father's beating.

What scared me at that time and left me with the aftermath, which has not changed until now is the meeting.