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The children who are educated in this way are the most likely to succeed, see Liang Qichao's handwritten letter to the children

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Since the fall of the Republic of China, in the Liang family of Xinhui in Guangdong, Liang Sicheng, Liang Siyong and Liang Sili brothers are three academicians. Among them, the architect Liang Sicheng (1901-1972) was an academician of Taiwan's "Academia Sinica", the archaeologist Liang Siyong (1904-1954) was an academician of Taiwan's "Academia Sinica", and the rocket control system expert Liang Sili (1924-2016) was an academician of the Chinese Academy of Sciences.

The children who are educated in this way are the most likely to succeed, see Liang Qichao's handwritten letter to the children

Portrait of Liang Qichao

Liang Qichao (1873-1929), the father of the "Three Academicians", was a famous politician, thinker, historian, writer, social activist and "encyclopedic" academic giant in modern China.

The children who are educated in this way are the most likely to succeed, see Liang Qichao's handwritten letter to the children

Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin

He was also a successful educator and had nine children: the eldest son Liang Sicheng, the second son Liang Siyong, the third son Liang Sizhong, the fourth son Liang Sida, the fifth son Liang Sili, the eldest daughter Liang Sishun, the second daughter Liang Sizhuang, the third daughter Liang Siyi, and the fourth daughter Liang Sining. Five sons and four daughters, everyone has become a talent, all of them are national models, and they are the pillars of society.

The children who are educated in this way are the most likely to succeed, see Liang Qichao's handwritten letter to the children
The children who are educated in this way are the most likely to succeed, see Liang Qichao's handwritten letter to the children

Archaeologist Liang Siyong

"Three academicians in one discipline, all talents in the court.". This is related to Liang Qichao's educational thought and educational methods, and one of the textual embodiments of educational ideas and educational methods is Liang Qichao's family letter.

On August 29, 1927, Liang Qichao's "To the Children", although less than 3,000 words, was very informative and rich in content, including Liang Qichao's own writing habits, physical condition, guidance for children in college course selection, study, and employment, the concepts, methods and taboos of doing learning, the marriage of Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin, and so on. This family letter, concise and profound, the author was quite enlightened after reading it, and believes that the following points are worth noting:

1. Liang Qichao's habit of writing letters. Liang Qichao said to the children: "The letters that have always been written to you are always written at night. ”

2. University learning and recreation. Liang Qichao believes that during college, it is necessary to deal with the relationship between learning and entertainment, and when choosing courses, "in addition to specialized science, you must also choose one or two kinds of knowledge about your own entertainment, such as music, literature, art, etc." According to your third brother, you have read many literary books recently, very good, very good. You originally had some musical genius, and it would be best to use some effort to make him grow up."

3. Impart the way of university learning. Liang Qichao warned Liang Sicheng that university studies should not be too specialized, and that they should learn more about humanities. He said: "Si Cheng's learning is too specialized, I would like you to take advantage of the year or two after graduation, to spend some time to learn more common sense, especially in a certain department of literature or humanities, and use a little more effort." I am afraid that because what you have learned is too specialized, you will make your life nearly monotonous, too monotonous, and you will be easily bored, and boredom will be the root of suffering and even depravity. Moreover, if a person wants to make friends for benefit, or read books for benefit, he must also have a little more aspects, so that he can have the opportunity to talk and exchange or open the book, not only friends, that is, in the family, like you have a father like me, it is also a rare happiness in life. If your intellectual interest is too monotonous, you will be exhausted with me in the future, and you will not be able to take my lessons, and the pleasures you should enjoy in your whole life will be reduced a lot."

4. Liang Qichao's academic concepts. I am a person with a lot of learning and interest, and the reason why I can't specialize in being successful here is that my life is extremely rich in content, and I can always maintain a tireless spirit, and I have never been here. Every time I go through a certain period of time, my interests turn to new aspects, and I feel like a new life, such as ascending to heaven, like a new lotus out of the water, I realize that this life is extremely lovely and extremely valuable. Although I do not want you to learn from my overflowing shortcomings, at least I want you to learn from my flourishing strengths.

5. Research method of "excellent travel and self-satisfaction". The ancient philosophers of our country taught people to do the method of learning, and the most important thing is to travel and cover, so that they can be self-satisfied. As a result of my decades of experience, the more I look at it, the more I feel that it is kind and interesting. All those who do learning always have to use the two work cycles of "fierce fire" and "slow fire stew". When simmering slowly, it can make the boiling play a digestive role, harmonious and real.

6. Taboos of learning. Liang Qichao said: There is no need to make too much progress in learning, just like packing cans, stuffing too much and too much urgency, not necessarily benefiting. I have just taught your second brother that "you can travel well and make yourself comfortable", and you must remember to use those two sentences.

7. The success of Liang Qichao's family education and the failure of Kang Youwei's family education. Liang Qichao said: (Mr. Nanhai) The family is really a mess, there is no way. The most troughed was one of his son-in-law, the third aunt. When Nanhai was born, he had already made all kinds of tricks, even stealing and cheating, and Nanhai was now in debt of seventy thousand, at least half of which was owed to him. He colluded with outsiders to exploit. Now he is still in charge there, the second aunt is the birth mother of the third miss, and now he is in charge, but the words of the daughter and son-in-law are listening, and outsiders have any way. Jun Mian worked hard and complained and wanted to rectify it, so there were rumors of "interference in internal affairs" and had to ignore it. His two brothers, Si Zhong and Si Zhuang Tonggeng, still didn't understand anything at all, far inferior to Dada and Sima Yi. Living is two silly big little. People should not be bad, but the rice bucket is afraid of becoming bad in the future. There are also two young ladies at home, who do not know what results they will be manipulated by those three aunts in the future, compared to our Aunt Zhou and your brothers and sisters, it has really become two extremes. I really don't understand why a person like Mr. Nanhai would not discipline his children and create such a situation. As a result of our public consultation, in addition to the responsibility of our protégés for the engraving of the suicide note, we hope to raise some money, which we will keep, and wait until his furniture is exhausted, and now there are houses, books, calligraphy and paintings, etc. worth a lot. To be able to help the two stupid and poor young ladies a little, it is just a little bit of a snack.

8. Old White Nose: Old Baby, refers to Liang Qichao's youngest son Liang Sili.

The children who are educated in this way are the most likely to succeed, see Liang Qichao's handwritten letter to the children

appendix:

Liang Qichao: "To the Children"

[29/August/1927]

I haven't written a letter for more than a month, but I'm afraid I'll upset you.

The reason for not writing letters is very simple, because this year's heat is so hot that the mass movement with mosquitoes is more at stake than the Wuhan Democratic Party, and at night it is either outside the courtyard or in the tent, and it is simply fifty or sixty nights without being next to the desk, and naturally there is no opportunity to write a letter. After Jia Siyong returned, I forgave him a lot of letters, and I became more and more lazy.

Regarding the matter of Zhongzhong's studies, I have recently sent a telegram, and Siyong has two letters to discuss in detail, and I think I have already received them. My proposition was to ask him to put an end to political science in Wisconson and return to his home country to study the Army. Because the United States is by no means a place to study the army, and because it is active in the military circles, it is not possible to have relations with some "classmates" in its own country, so it is absolutely forbidden to enter the "beating school." As for which school in China is the best, I will actually investigate and prepare for you in this year.

Si Cheng stayed in the United States for another year, transferred to Europe for a year, and then returned to the best. I have a bit of an opinion about sicheng studies. Si Cheng's study is too specialized, and I would like you to take advantage of the fact that after graduation, you will spend a little time to learn more common sense, especially in a certain department of literature or humanities, and use a little more work. I am afraid that because what you have learned is too specialized, you will make your life nearly monotonous, too monotonous, and you will be easily bored, and boredom will be the root of suffering and even depravity. Moreover, if a person wants to make friends for benefit, or read books for benefit, he must also have a little more aspects, so that he can have the opportunity to talk and exchange or open the book, not only friends, that is, in the family, like you have a father like me, it is also a rare happiness in life. If your intellectual interest is too monotonous, you will be exhausted with me in the future, and you will not be able to take my lessons, and the fun you should enjoy in your whole life will be reduced a lot. In the past two years, I have often felt like a strange omen for my thoughts in the past two years, afraid that he will gradually walk into the lonely and cold way, and I hope that when you come back to see me, I will be satisfied with my lively and springy child three or four years ago. Although this realm is related to the whole of personality cultivation, the influence of academic kaoru is not small. So I want to cure your illness, or prevent your illness, and I can't help but pay attention to this. These words have to be said to you for a long time, because before you graduated, you should pay attention to your specialization and do not want you to be distracted, and now that the opportunity has arrived, you cannot be cautious and talk to you. You read the letter, what is your opinion? What does the emblem mean? No matter how busy the school class is, it is necessary to reply to me with a slightly longer letter to reassure me.

You often have headaches, and it is also a thing that I can't rest assured, you are not as strong as your brothers and sisters in your birth, you should make up for it yourself extraordinarily, if you use too much force, cut the future health and happiness, this is not a big deal! Before the school was too heavy, it was impossible, after this year's transfer, it is necessary to change your attitude slightly. Si Cheng, you have survived for three years, and this year should be stewed. It is not beneficial to your body alone, that is, it is for your studies, nor is it not so undesirable. You must listen to Daddy's bitter words.

Zhuang Zhuang actually upgraded in the extremely difficult to upgrade the university, from the age of your sisters and brothers, you are the earliest second-year college student, you want your father to listen to how happy. You are still a general science student this year, next year you will choose a special, do you plan to choose now?. Until today, no one in China has learned this course, and there are very few men. There is also one thing, because when you come back from your studies, you can be a big helper for your father, and I will ask you to be a consultant for many books in the future! Isn't that good? If you yourself feel that your temperament is still close, then choose him, and choose one or two disciplines that have close contact with him as a supplement. If your school has a good professor in this subject, stay in school, otherwise choose the best school in the United States to transfer, sisters and brothers will of course investigate for you properly, you think about it yourself.

My sister wrote to say that you were sick from time to time because you worked too hard. You're fine, I'm not very worried.

You think very much, this is no wonder, but the days pass very quickly, you see your third brother has returned in the blink of an eye, in three years you will become a scholar to come back to help Daddy work, how happy!

The letter has arrived. Profiting so much with a mere amount of capital was an accident that Xi Zhe did not know how much effort he had spent. But he was an idle man, and he did not think that he was laborious. The remaining part of the perpetual insurance loan and the part that will be returned one after another are intended to be remitted to you at any time for operation. Next autumn will expire, and now the loan will be eight percent interested, and I plan not to repay him, and I will withhold it next year. Wait, if you can get out, as long as someone buys. I plan to sell them all, and I want to make up another dollar to pay you ten thousand dollars. I'm afraid it's not easy. The old things are only afraid of becoming waste paper.

Our grandfather and son often telepathic, which is really strange. I already talked to Aunt Wang two months ago about giving them birthday gifts, and when I wrote a letter, I had to say too much, and I forgot to write it, who knows you remembered it again. I never remembered Jesus' birth. Now you can do it according to your letter. Several students gave them twenty yuan each for the birthday gift, the birthday gift, and the birthday of Jesus. Gui'er's sister and brother pressed the age and Jesus ten yuan each, but you two couples only gave the old age money, and nothing else was given, don't you say that Daddy is eccentric?

A few days ago, I had a stomach upset and a fever, and I had been in trouble for several days, and the old illness was also at stake. After the new illness was cured, Tang Tianru made a ointment for me, took it for three days, and the old illness was better for the most part. Now the weather is cold and the people are very comfortable.

In the past few days, several old classmates of Wanmu Caotang, Han Shuyuan, Xu Junmian and Wu Xianzi have come here to discuss the matters behind Mr. Nanhai.

The two of them discussed the best way, and I didn't agree with it. In the past three months, a solemn dowry should be held in China, about the time in Beijing, and the Lin family will be represented by Hui's aunts, and will report to you after consultation.

Fukuro came to live in Jin for a few days, and now that Si Yong was in Beijing, they would meet when they could not do so.

Dadas are busy with their homework, but they are doing a good job and are very progressive. In the second half of the year, liangqing did not enter the school, and Liangqing worked as a teacher at Nankai Middle School. Give them some English and arithmetic, and if they continue like this, they may be worth two years in school.

It's getting tougher.

Daddy August 29

It's two o'clock, not writing.

The children who are educated in this way are the most likely to succeed, see Liang Qichao's handwritten letter to the children

Recommended Bibliography:

[1] Wu Liming, Liang Qichao and His Sons and Daughters, Beijing: Peking University Press, 2013.

[2] Tang Zhijun and Tang Renze, "Liang Qichao's Family Letters, No. 54 Nanchang Street", Beijing: Chinese University Press, 2016.

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