Text/Xingzhi Online Special Author Summer of Words
Big S announced the divorce for several days, one moment was exposed to the lady's hotel alone to eat 40,000 Taiwan dollars of white truffles, the next moment with Fan Xiaoxuan, Fan Weiqi and other friends party was photographed, looking very dashing, completely not the state of people imagining after the divorce lost soul.
Seeing her like this, many netizens beat gongs and drums to celebrate her return to singlehood.
There is a very strange phenomenon in the entertainment industry, many married female stars are exposed to the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband is cheating, the news of exhaustion, and those who are divorced are getting better and better.
Zhao Liying, Tong Liya, and Yin Tao, who has recently been on the hot search for "42-year-old girl with a back image", are all like this.
When did divorce become a panacea for female celebrities to return to girlishness?
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When Wang Xiaofei and Big S fell in love at first sight, it was the time when his mother Zhang Lan's pretty Jiangnan was the most popular, and at that time, with the help of his mother's financial resources, he became a member of the "Four Young people in the capital", which was very beautiful.
Big S married Wang Xiaofei, many people thought that she was married to a rich family, in fact, she did not necessarily covet Wang Xiaofei's wealth, but she must feel that she married a particularly good man who could look up to and rely on.
Unexpectedly, not long after they got married, Zhang Lan was kicked out by Qiao Jiangnan because of the failure of the bet, and Wang Xiaofei's value fell several times, and he began to toss and start a business.
He set up a food company and launched a milk tea, and also let his wife help endorse it, but this milk tea quickly disappeared, and he engaged in real estate, logistics, and e-commerce, but there was no improvement.
At one time, there were rumors that Big S sold his mansion to help Wang Xiaofei get through the difficulties, and the recent S HOTEL, which looks good, seems to be a love for his wife on the surface, so why not use big S's fame to do publicity?
There are many people who joke that Wang Xiaofei has been relying on women all her life, relying on her mother before marriage, relying on her wife after marriage, and big S does not necessarily dislike Wang Xiaofei to become poor, but how to toss there is no splash, but also rely on her to wipe her ass, she must be tired.
Big S before marriage was a hot A-list female star, singing, dancing, hosting, filming, doing everything, and doing it all well, and after marriage, the topic around her changed from works to when to have children.
In order to have a child, she gave up eating vegetarian food to eat meat, the weight has been controlled at 42 ~ 44 kg, she began to gain weight rapidly, and has not recovered to the original weight, and even when she gave birth to her second child, she almost died, her career is not what it used to be, except for the occasional variety show, the work is almost all in a stagnant state.
Wang Xiaofei was drunk and spoke indiscriminately on Weibo, although she won the favor of many people, but did not consider the position of her wife, which was probably the last straw that crushed their marriage.
Wouldn't someone as assertive as Big S want to? What did I get out of a decade of marriage? Bloated figure, stagnant career, never bad mother-in-law relationship, and the husband's ever-clean mess.
Don't talk to people in their 40s about love, the adult world has to face too much, there are too many to bear, can't help me solve the problems in reality, love is just a castle in the air.
Big S understood, made up her mind that moment will not look back, she can persist until Wang Xiaofei's career has improved and then divorce, has given both sides dignity.
It is said that the new show she hosted with Little S is already planned, and it seems that she is ready to return to the entertainment industry as a single mother.
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A few days ago, the topic of "Tong Liya card point jazz dance" was on the hot search, in a variety show, Tong Liya wore a bandeau, a loose black silk coat with unbuttoned clothes, and the slender waist swayed freely with the rhythm of the music, releasing a completely different hot and sexy beauty from before.
Dancing "hot dance", wearing a bandeau, these for Tong Liya before the divorce, even dare not think, Chen Sicheng likes simple girls, the ideal type is "Beijing Love Story" Tong Liya played by Shen Bing.
In fact, Tong Liya's personality is completely different from Shen Bing, she has rebellion and strength in her bones, but for Chen Sicheng, she obediently played Shen Bing.
She does not wear revealing clothes, does not shoot large-scale film and television dramas, because Chen Sicheng likes long hair, she does not even dare to cut short hair, she is a decent and generous well-behaved girl on every occasion, and because of the influence of her husband's same cheating experience, she even rejected such a wonderful role as Gu Jia in "Thirty Only", which can become popular.
In short, Tong Liya in the marriage, trembling to be her Mrs. Chen, did not dare to do it, nor did she dare to say, carefully caring for her precarious marriage, but also bearing all kinds of pointing points for her husband.
After the divorce, Tong Liya really changed, she not only danced a hot dance for the first time, but also bravely went on stage to be a host, she no longer played some painless little love, but challenged some roles that had not been challenged before in the main drama.
People seem to watch her transform from an ugly duckling in marriage to a white swan that soars freely in the sky after divorce.
A fan left a message under her hot dance video, saying, "Break out of the comfort zone, try again and again, break through a better self, such a Tong Liya who does not love it?" Tong Liya also replied to this comment with a warm little red heart.
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Zhao Liying since giving birth to a child, every appearance is full of exhaustion, when attending the event, the eye bags are drooping, the eyes are unfocused, the whole face is collapsed, when "You Fei" was popular, Zhao Liying endured a lot of insults, saying that she did not have a sense of girlishness and forcibly played a young girl, and the male protagonist Wang Yibo was tired.
Before marriage, Zhao Liying is an actor from the grassroots, she was scolded all the way, but all the way with the attitude of desperate three women to break out of the sky, is a typical inspirational female star, after marriage, she is always stared at the mother-in-law around her.
Feng Shaofeng and the opposite sex a little intimate behavior was photographed, just a group of people stared at Zhao Liying's attitude, because the door disparity was looked down upon by the mother-in-law news is also frequently reported, after giving birth to a child is not in a good state, not to mention, as if a woman gets married and has children, the topic can no longer be separated from men' children and mother-in-law.
After the divorce, Zhao Liying once again restored the identity of the desperate third wife, and successively announced highly anticipated works such as "Who is the Murderer" and "Savage Growth", and her state has actually seen better and better.
When I was a guest in Li Jiaqi's live broadcast room, the screen was full of "sister is so beautiful", "sister is so beautiful", "sister is so gentle".
Some fans couldn't help but say, "After watching last night's live broadcast, I sighed again, and the chestnuts in the crew were full of vitality and sparkling." ”
The photos posted on Zhao Liying's birthday have once again reached a new height, compared with the previous face full of exhaustion, her collagen has returned little by little, and the girlish feeling that disappeared after being mocked after giving birth to a child has even appeared on her face again.
After the divorce, Feng Shaofeng, who has rarely had a free window, was quickly photographed and made a new girlfriend, but all this has nothing to do with her anymore, no one will stare at her reaction, and no one will chase and ask her whether she wants to divorce or forgive, she just needs to continue to do her favorite thing.
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A few days ago, Yin Tao was photographed when filming Reuters, a rare hot search, she is 42 years old, the back shadow is too wonderful, completely a 20-year-old girl.
In the entertainment circle of beautiful women, Yin Tao is not particularly beautiful, and when she was young, she still looked slightly mature and old-fashioned, perhaps because she knew that her strengths were not looks, so she has been silently honing her acting skills and rarely doing marketing.
Many people don't know that Yin Tao, like Sun Li, is also a Grand Slam queen, while there are only 5 Grand Slam queens in China so far, and the other three are Yan Ni, Sarina and Jiang Wenli.
In addition to the old artist Sarina, Yin Tao's fame is very different from the other three, because she is so low-key, so low-key that many people only remember her role, but can't remember her own name.
Wu Qionghua in "Red Detachment of Women", Zhou Ayu in "Wenzhou Family", Luo Yuzhu in "Chicken Feathers Fly to the Sky", she graduated from military art, and has contributed countless classic roles to us over the years, but it is rare to see any lace news on her.
In fact, Yin Tao talked about a vigorous love affair with a rich second generation not long after her debut, and despite the strong opposition of her parents, she stubbornly married each other, she did not deliberately hide this experience, and generously admitted in an interview that she had been married once, but left for more than a year, she said that living together can know whether each other is appropriate.
Her career also gradually improved after the divorce, and it was out of control, because most of her scripts were excellent, and there were rumors that she had a very strong gold lord behind her, and she never responded to these rumors, only speaking with one good work after another.
In fact, for actors, acting skills are their most reliable gold masters, without acting skills, no matter how good the work, no matter how good the team, it is useless.
At the age of 42, she is still single, and now she is living more and more wonderfully by strength, and she is living younger and younger.
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Why are so many female celebrities in a very bad state after marriage, but they are getting better and better after divorce? Because getting married is not as simple as two people who love each other together.
Marriage is to tie the fate of two people and even the fate of two families together, the rise and fall of the other party and the other family are closely related to themselves, as long as they take care of themselves before marriage, after marriage, they must also take care of each other's family and everyone in each other's family.
Your dress, your work content, you must consider whether your mother-in-law is satisfied, whether your husband has face, you do not earn money with children, people are not satisfied, you can't take care of your children when you earn money, and others are still not satisfied.
However, once the in-laws or husbands have any negative news, they will first become the target of the public, pay off the debts for the other party, not to mention, but also be blamed because of your fame, so that our family's affairs are so concerned.
For most financially independent women, if marriage does not bring her enough emotional value, drags down her reputation, and even affects her financial situation, then this marriage has no existential value, divorce is good, how you want, just need to consider your own needs and preferences.
If so, shouldn't women get married? Of course not.
Most of us ordinary people, it is impossible to earn as much as the stars, life is not as wonderful as them, marriage for us, is to find a trustworthy person, together to drive away loneliness, to raise children together, to take care of the elderly together, to fight against the ups and downs of life together.
A good marriage is mutually value-added, I have more time to contribute time, you earn more money to contribute more money, as long as the husband and wife put their strength in one direction, there is no obstacle that cannot be passed, after all, the sky is falling, and there is a person to help me stand up.
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