Some time ago a friend was getting married and called me, I was working out of town and couldn't come home for her wedding. I thought it was a shame because we've known each other for 9 years, and the relationship is particularly good.
Then I sent me the cross stitch that I had prepared for her marriage in advance, which I had embroidered for three years with my own hands, a big home and everything.
I thought she would be very impressed, but just two days ago the courier I sent out came back to the original, and I was quite blind at the time. After thinking about it for half a day, I thought that maybe the courier didn't get through her phone, didn't contact her, so I went back.
Then I called her and she didn't answer, I think maybe she was busy, and she would get back to me when she was done. As a result, I didn't get a call back from her in the evening, until the next morning I received a WeChat message from her, saying; let's not contact it in the future, when we never met...
I was confused at the time What was the situation? What am I doing wrong? And then I called her again, she hung up, and gave me a weChat call again, don't call again, I won't answer it, and when I go back, I've been blocked by her.
I thought about it for a long time, was it because I didn't give her a gift, didn't transfer money to her? Maybe it's that I'm underconsiderate, ignorant, and lost a friend, maybe someone with low emotional intelligence like me doesn't deserve a friend to put [tears]
