Familiar stranger Liang Xiaoni and his people

The first time I saw Liang Xiaoni, it was in the place where I parked every time. My son went to the Oriental Education make-up class every weekend, and after the class at eight o'clock in the evening, I went to pick him up every time. The car was fixed at the bridge not far from the school, and every time I stopped, I could see a black Lexus. More times, it caught my attention. Two cars one in front and one in front, one in front. It's interesting.

In order to occupy the parking space, we will all arrive early. Park the car, stand on the edge of the bridge, look at each other, say hello, and meet it.

At first, she was more proactive, sometimes I went late, would wait for me, knock on my car window, and go with me to the Wei River behind the school to walk around, while walking and talking about what happened to the children at school. There was someone to accompany, small talk, and the time became brisk.

See you every week, talk about more topics. Children, work, family, in-laws and so on. I have to say that Liang Xiaoni is more talkative than me, most of them are she talking, I am listening. The most talked about was her family.

01 Elderly unmarried daughter

There is a little sister-in-law (Yan Xin'er) in the family, which is a headache. In his 40s, he has not yet started a family. As soon as the New Year's Festival came, her mother-in-law wiped her tears and said that she was sweet, beautiful and profitable, how could she not find a suitable object? What should I do when I get old?

Liang Xiaoni complained to me, saying that when her sister-in-law first started looking for a partner, she was too picky and always thought she could meet better. Overstepping the head, after 35 years old, it is getting harder and harder to find.

Until now, Yan Xin'er still has illusions and wants to find a man who is newly married. The family advised her to consider a divorced man, she was also reluctant, said that she did not want to settle, always felt that she had been delayed for so many years, waiting for the person who wanted to work together, the second half of her life would rather live alone.

Every girl's heart longs to meet a perfect love, which has nothing to do with age. "It is advisable to drink alcohol and grow old with your children." Qinser is in the imperial palace, and it is not quiet. "Such a moving vow, such a long day, who can not yearn for it?"

I don't know if Yan Xin'er can wait for the person she wants to wait for in the future? "Half of life is rice, oil and salt, half of the stars and the sea." Life is far more realistic than we think.

At the age of 42, her parents are still alive, and she can return to her parents' home every New Year's Holiday, and from time to time she has to endure the regretful eyes of her relatives and friends. Most of the time it is a person, young friends play on their own, friends of the same age are basically married, there is their own side of the world to protect, only she is alone. Busy work during the day, late at night, I don't know if I will regret her persistence?

5 years, 10 years... Time will tell us the answers we want.

02 Mother-in-law

Liang Xiaoni said that her mother-in-law was semi-paralyzed, and she lived in her home for more than ten years, and three meals a day would be done separately according to her mother-in-law's preferences, so she could not get a good sentence. Specifically, once her husband quarreled with her, even if the fault was not in her, her mother-in-law would only protect his son from beginning to end, and did not bother to say a word of justice. Often at that time, her heart is cold to the end, and what a pain.

Her father-in-law was in good health, and every morning he went for a walk by the river, and there was a vegetable market next to it, and she asked her father-in-law to buy some vegetables when he returned, and he was always empty-handed. When she commutes to work, she has to buy vegetables and cook, and she wants to pick and choose when she is busy.

When you meet a selfish and cold family, you can only have fun in your life.

The only thing that makes her feel relieved is that her husband's income is relatively considerable, and the money is handed in, which makes her feel more secure.

From the conversation with her versailles, I learned that they have three rooms and two cars, and I think they should have a considerable amount of savings.

The days are like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge. We are not her, whether she is happy in suffering or happy, it is her choice.

03 The happiness of ordinary people

Whenever she talked about money, houses, cars. Such a sneaky prodding and prodding show off is very stimulating to my nerves. I am the same age as her, I have a room and a car, materially far inferior to her, but I am emotionally rich. My husband hurt me, cherished me, respected me, we have been married for 10 years, sweet as ever. The son is intelligent and sensible, and is a proper warm man.

Perfect life does not often exist, you and I are mortal, mentality determines the happiness index. When it is bitter, sugar is embellished; when it is happy, it is treated calmly.

The mentality is relaxed, and the two people who meet in Pingshui can also talk to each other very happily. We're not good friends, we don't have to be so demanding. At a fixed time, it seems that I am still looking forward to meeting a person who can pass the time together and chat with each other.

This fate will last for three years. None of us have any intention of making deep friends. Geese have left traces, waiting for the time for children to leave school, accompanying the stage of children's growth, we have all guarded for love.