In the morning, the psychology teacher called me and told me: "You have walked from that muddy hole to the door, you only need to push open the door of the cave to see the wider world outside."
Of course, walking out of this cave is not my end, it is just a starting point.
When I heard such a high evaluation given to me by my teacher, my eyes involuntarily turned red.
I had listened to the advice of my psychology teacher to stop watching his surveillance videos and peeking into his life trajectory.
This time I held out for days without going to see his surveillance video.
In the evening, when I came home from work, he actually came back.
We looked at each other for a moment, but neither of us spoke to each other.
I sat down to eat as usual, and the lively atmosphere at the dinner table before I came back suddenly froze, and I ignored it or chatted with the two children as usual about some interesting things that happened to them at school today.
After finishing the food in the bowl, I took the bag up to the second floor and left time for the children and him.
During the whole meal I didn't look directly into his face, didn't think about what to run away from.
It just felt a little awkward, and I didn't feel relieved until he was gone.
Before the child went to bed, he said that he wanted to talk to me for a while, and he said: "Mother, the heart of harming people must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without, this sentence is that the mind of hurting others cannot be there, and the heart of guarding against others cannot be without it."
For a moment I didn't know how to answer him, and I wondered why he thought of that.
Just ask him: Baby, what do you want to express? As if he were waiting for me to ask this question, he immediately told me:
"I mean you have to pay attention to prevent others from hurting you, let go of people and things that don't love you, and love yourself well!" Don't let a word or two from someone else affect your mood! ”
When I heard this, I felt very sad and sad.
Children who should have been carefree should have good memories in childhood, but because of their parents, they have endured these things that should not have been borne by their age, and we who are parents are really ashamed, baby, sorry!
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