Friendship plays a very important role in our daily lives, and there is no one who does not need friendship.
But friendship is not so great, and the biggest misconception people have about friendship is that it is omnipotent.
I remember a story where When Amir saw Hassan being bullied or even molested by older children, he chose to be silent and evasive, at the same time, Hassan fought firmly with his opponent for Amir's kite, and the opponent cruelly revealed the master-servant relationship between Amir and Hassan, and Hassan loudly retorted that the two were friends.
Amir, who was hiding in a corner and did not dare to appear, heard these words without any encouragement or emotion, and the cowardice in his heart finally devoured his soul, and tragedy occurred.
This is our biggest misconception about friendship, thinking that it is omnipotent.
In fact, friendship is not a panacea, but friendship can give us some precious feelings in some places that we did not expect, and friendship is also one of the most precious emotions in the world.
Looking back more than 1,000 years ago, do you remember a story called "The Year-old Friendship"?
Legend: Kong Rong Zi Wenju, Lu Guoren, the 20th grandson of Confucius. Like to learn, read a lot of books. During the Jian'an period, Emperor Xian built the capital in Xuchang and was repeatedly promoted to "General Master" (official name, equivalent to Daliangzao, by the time of the Han Dynasty, there was no real power). Seeing that Cao Cao's ambitions were getting bigger and bigger, to the point of intolerability, he always wrote a song to satirize him.
Cao Cao was jealous of Kong Rong's reputation and couldn't do anything with him. Shanyang Commandery Guard Xi was worried, saw the wind and made the rudder, and with a small mistake, he asked kong Rong's official to be dismissed, and Cao Cao took the opportunity to fabricate the crime and frame Kong Rong, saying: Kong Rong once made a big fuss with You Heng and praised each other, and You Heng said that Kong Rong was "Zhongni does not die". Kong Rong said that You Heng is "Yan Huisheng". He committed the great sin of disrespect, and was killed.
Kong Rong and Guangling Chen Lin Kong Zhang, Shanyang Wang Yue Zhongxuan, Beihai Xu GanweiChang, Chen Liu Ruan Li Yuanyu, Runan Ying Ying Delian, Dongping Liu Gonggan, and called Jian'an seven sons. The remaining six sons were all very friendly with Cao Cao's son Cao Pi Cao Zhi, and were all made a genus by Cao Cao, with only Kong Rong serving as Han.
Plain You Heng, the character is straight, very literary, but not among the seven sons. He thinks that he is a literary talent who is good at eloquence, untamed, likes to satirize current affairs, denigrates the powerful, and only cherishes Kong Rong, who also likes his talent. You Heng was just twenty years old, and Kong Rong was already forty years old, so they became friends. Kong Rong then wrote a song to recommend You Heng and praised him many times in front of Cao Cao. Cao Cao wanted to summon him, but he always scolded Cao Cao.
Cao Cao held a grudge in his heart, but You Heng's talent was very famous and he did not want to kill him, so he sent someone to give him to Liu Biao in Jingzhou, and he insulted Liu Biao. Liu Biao could not tolerate him, because Jiang Xia was too defensive of Huang Zu's temperament, so he gave him to him. In the end, he was killed by Huang Zu and was only twenty-six years old when he died.
This is the year-rounder.
Yes, as early as so long ago, people's emotions were so real, friendship has reached such a point, wholeheartedly for others.
Back to our real life, are there such people around you?
Is there also such a person who can make us happy every day, be the first to stand up to help us when we encounter difficulties, and be the first to share his happiness and happiness with us when there are happy things?
If so, please cherish them, love them, give them the best friendship, and let this friendship last forever.
If not yet, please don't be discouraged and discouraged, as long as we treat people sincerely, in the near future, such people will definitely appear around us!
After all, the happiest thing is that the best friend is around.
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