I was reading the book "Zheng Yuanjie's Family Education Class" and read the article "Father and Son" that Teacher Zheng Yuanjie and his father were invited to read in the CCTV "Reader" program, the language was simple, but it expressed deep love, which made people deeply moved. If fathers and sons in the world are treated like this, where are there so many stressed and depressed children?
Give your child more appreciation, less expectation, because he is your child, he is also himself, he is a unique being.
I read a large number of parent-child education books and know that educating children should be "unconditional love", and that they must know how to praise and appreciate children.
However, reading Zheng Yuanjie's book, his understanding of family education is so thorough that it runs through one word - love.
Zheng Yuanjie's father's education of Zheng Yuanjie, who dropped out of school after reading the fourth grade of primary school, and Zheng Yuanjie's education of his son who left school early, the love and education inheritance between them truly showed people what true love is.
I was once impressed by the positive discipline and PET effectiveness communication introduced from the West. In fact, Teacher Zheng Yuanjie's family education, what his parents taught him, and what he taught his children, is the truth that has been truly practiced in our native land.
Before the teacher Zheng Yuanjie let the child withdraw from school to educate himself, I dare not agree, but since reading this book, has been intimidated, in the educational physique of our time, Zheng Yuanjie, as a father, dared to stand up to protect the rights and interests of the child, refused to play the prevention shot that did not know the way, exposed the school's lunch deduction, etc., is a lot of vulnerable groups, the parents who give their children to the school to be arranged by the school do not dare to think, Chinese may have always been enslaved.
Fortunately, Zheng Yuanjie is a person who dares to be bold, has a sense of justice, and is brave and pragmatic, and it is precisely because of people like them who dare to challenge authority, speak for vulnerable groups, and safeguard morality and justice, and the social system is becoming more and more perfect and more respectful of vulnerable groups.
Teacher Zheng Yuanjie did not define how advanced the theory of family education was, but was summarized by his personal experience, his own growth and the practice of educating children's growth, and shared with everyone with great affection.
Having such a father, three lifetimes are fortunate. "Fairy Tale King" is a journal that many people have been chasing since they were young, and so have I, and so have my son.
Seeing this book, I feel that I still have to read all of Zheng Yuanjie's books. This "Father and Son" is very touching, every parent should read it, specially reproduced and shared here, I hope to give you the same shock to your heart.
Parent:
I am a sheep. I lived to the age when I should have been a father.
The world is wonderful, and at this age, a passion arises in my mind, accompanied by a primitive impulse in my body. This is probably the baton that allows life to continue.
I long to be a father. The desire to let a unit in life continue through me.
In our case, it is not that you have to give birth to what you are, but what you give birth to every year. For example, last year, whether you were a sheep or a rabbit or a horse, the children born were dogs. The dog's mom and dad aren't necessarily dogs either, it could be rabbits.
All the children born this year will be pigs. So there was such a little pig as my son. This is our fate. Whatever he was, I loved him, and my blood ran through his veins. Even though I am a sheep, he is a pig.
Some of our dads here don't, they always wish their children weren't like this. Take my neighbor Cow, for example, whose son is a snake, and how he sees his son as unpleasant, blowing his beard at his son all day long.
I asked him why he abused his own son, and he said his son was supposed to be a tiger, or at least a cow. His son was so unfortunate that he had such a father.
Fathers can only do one thing with their children: love.
My son is a little pig, and that's enough.
I don't envy other people's tiger sons, nor do I envy other people's Maxima sons, and any life form in this world will lead to the destruction of the earth. Lions are as great as ants. I dare to say a word, do you see human beings on the earth? From the perspective of ecological balance, grass is as important as humans.
If you don't understand this truth, you are not a qualified father.
I am a sheep, I gave birth to a little pig, and I feel happy and comfortable. If in this world, sheep can only give birth to sheep, and horses can only give birth to horses, what should it be like?
I love my little piggy son. If he's a chicken or a snake or a rabbit or a mouse, I love him as much as I do, and make him the happiest kid in the world—because I'm his dad.
Sub-Chapters:
I'm a pig and my dad is a sheep.
From the day I was born, I found that my father was different from me. Later, I also found that the fathers of other children were different from my fathers.
Take the neighbor's little pig, whose father is a tiger. Speaking of the bunny next door, his dad was a horse. In contrast, my dad seemed weak and unremarkable. But I love my dad the most. I don't think it matters what Dad is, what matters is whether he's a real man or not. Some dads are tigers, but he's not a man. I've seen a rat daddy, and that's really an authentic man.
What is manhood? I think that he should first love his children wholeheartedly, be equal with the children, and scold the fathers of the children are not manly, they are cowards; He also does not dislike children, no matter what they are, he loves children.
Children are born to you, and if you are not satisfied, hit yourself. What does it mean to hit a child? It's not that the child has to let you give birth to him.
My dad was a sheep, but he was a man and he knew how to love me. I want him to be the happiest dad in the world.
I sometimes secretly wonder, what if my dad was a mouse or a chicken or a snake? I was still proud to love him as soon as I was -—— because I was his son.
After reading it, how do you feel? Did your parents treat you like this? Are you doing this to your children?