Although Li li and Tong Zhi, Chinese "Golden Marriage", were also introduced at the beginning, but compared with Dazhuang and Zhuang Sister-in-law, they are also free in love.
Wen Li was beautiful and cultured, and when she first got married, Tong Zhi simply held her in the palm of his hand and spoiled her. Of course, Wen Li also felt that she should be held in her hands and not do housework, but if Tong Zhi did not listen to her, it was a quarrel, go back to her mother's house, and wait for Tong Zhi to pick up.
It is really a heartfelt dislike for Dazhuang and Sister-in-law Zhuang, of course, there may be a relationship with her cousin Meimei, but more than that, she feels that Sister-in-law Zhuang is a rural person. Dazhuang did not approve of treating his wife as a princess. To say that the latter we can barely accept, men and women are originally equal, you say that the husband's appropriate humility is deserved. Like Wen Li, who thinks she is a princess, she really disagrees. You said that if you marry Anjie to someone, the mother's family is enough for others to use for a lifetime, then it will work, but it is just an ordinary working class. Barely enough to eat and wear warm, and Sister-in-law Zhuang is just because the place of birth is different, what is there to be proud of.
If you have read books, the cultural people are as high as her eyes, and no personnel will be handled. No culture is like Sister-in-law Zhuang who is kind to people and reasonable in everything, then I would rather have no culture.
But on the other hand, I always think, why would Wen Li, who has such a strong sense of superiority, care so much about her husband and Li Tianjiao?
Tong Zhi later moved his heart to Li Tianjiao, which we do not deny. But to tell the truth, in the early days, they were just a simple working relationship, and even when Li Tianjiao returned to Beijing with Tong Zhi, Tong Zhi did not know who she was. And Wen Li just because she saw Tong Zhi and Li Tianjiao taking pictures together, listened to the gossip in both ears, especially when Yan Ni said that when she picked up her father, she saw her father and Li Tianjiao talking and laughing, so she took the child to the factory to transfer her husband back.
A little bit of catching the wind and catching shadows, just make a fuss and sacrifice the future of your husband? What about her confidence? What about pride? What about superiority? Is it that in the depths of her heart, she feels that her husband is originally a person who cannot withstand temptation, or does she feel that her charm is not as good as that of the year?
Although Wen Li loves to be pretty and lives a tight life in order to buy clothes, she does not worship gold and does not expect her husband to soar. Relatively good material conditions, she prefers to be a family together and live a dull life with her husband and children. No matter how much Wen Li did, she never said whose man has the ability, let Tong Zhi hurry up to earn her a future, create a superior material life for her, never.
Perhaps it was the social environment at that time, after all, everyone's work in that era was still distributed by the state, and there was no such idea as doing business, even if it was a double worker, the family conditions were not much better, and everyone's life was similar. But I still have to say that on this point, Wen Li's words and deeds are consistent. She did not let her husband climb up in action, and she never felt that her life was so difficult.
But men are not the same as women after all, a woman has no career, and has a family and children. But if a man has no career and no stage to show his ability, it is equivalent to a tree that lacks water, and sooner or later it will wither and die. Originally Wen Li thought that Tong Zhi was the same, there was nothing to pursue, just want to live a plain life, but when one day she found that the people around her wanted a career, wanted identity, wanted status, she panicked, no idea, she was originally just a little girl, from small to large, I hope that someone has been spoiled on the line, material aspects are not much demand.
But her man wants to fight for a career, and wants to spell out a certain status. Intellectually she knew she should be supportive, but emotionally, she didn't want to. What if the husband becomes an engineer and becomes the director of the factory? The family is not her alone, and the children are not hers alone. Why tong zhi went to the third line, Wen Li suddenly changed her personality, from a wayward little princess to a good wife and mother, and the relationship with her mother-in-law directly rose to the same as a mother and daughter.
Part of the reason is that she has to carry the burden of the family and numb her own missing heart with busyness. It's more that she knows that her husband is changing, in excellence, in strength, and she must also make herself strong and more useful than before. But the cruel reality is that a woman's sense of security does not stem from how strong she is, but from the fact that the other party can tell herself with actions, she does not have to worry at all, do not have to think wildly.
But obviously, Tong Zhi did not give it. Because her husband was not around and empty, her insecure heart finally saw her husband take photos with other women, and the wall she had worked so hard to build completely collapsed, there was no wind and no waves, as Wen Li said, why not Chuanhe Dazhuang, and others, but with Tong Zhi.
The woman was young, pretty, more cultured than she was, more attractive and attractive than she had ever been. She was a mother of four children, and she didn't want to admit it anymore, and she was old. Or maybe she knew that her husband had taken a fancy to her because she was young and beautiful. So she is afraid that her husband will be attracted to women who are equally young and beautiful and can also fight shoulder to shoulder with their husbands. Da Zhuang was worried, but he even let go of Mei Mei, who had been pestering, and did not do anything excessive, not to mention that he was just playing a verbal battle with other women. But her husband was not such a person, a person who had never looked at other women and never spent his intestines except hers before.
The so-called people who recruit cats and dogs every day are nothing to be afraid of, and the terrible thing is that people who have never had peach scandals have peach scandals. People who are clean and self-righteous have a scandal, and those eighty percent have moved the truth! We think so, and so does Wen Li.
She is beautiful, excellent, beautiful, and her husband married her is simply a high climb, it is simply the previous life that saved the galaxy, but such a husband betrayed her, where can proud people accept it. In particular, Tong Zhi felt that there was nothing, and never explained to Wen Li, and what was even more hateful was that Li Tianjiao seemed to have done a blatant act, taking the initiative to put the ambiguity again and again. It is said that men have always been reluctant to take the initiative to throw themselves into the embrace. After all, if you refuse once, people can take the initiative to have two times, three times, and one time can't refuse, and the previous rejection has become a desire to get away with it.
Worried about a big stall in the family, the husband developed his career at will, but also made a scandal, this serious inequality and pride from childhood to adulthood, suddenly crushed Wen Li, instantly demon. But whatever her husband and the woman could do, she couldn't accept. In the end, it was Tong Zhi who didn't give Wen Li enough security. It was Tong Zhi who made Wen Li feel that she was only worthy of him to have children, and when the old mother took care of the old and the young, she was not worthy to fight with him.
Obviously, she is the one who has no requirements, only hopes that her husband is around and lives an ordinary life with the mother of the child and the family. But in the end, it is her fault not to let her husband fight for her career, her husband has a scandal with other women, and her calculation is also her fault. Because she ruined her husband's future, she erased all her efforts to this family, and became a sinner in the eyes of her husband. Or is the husband too cruel?
You are full of gossip, but you blame me for making unreasonable trouble. You didn't give me enough security, but you said I was suspicious. Women, after all, still have to love themselves more, with their own changes to cope with men's changes, even if they really pay wrong, not to be discouraged!