In 2015, host Jin Xing asked Yan Ni: "So far, what is the thing that makes you regret the most?" ”
Yan Ni subconsciously pulled the corner of her clothes and slowly said two words: "Divorce!" ”
When Venus asked questions further, Yan Ni was stunned, like a stuffy gourd, no matter how Venus drove the atmosphere, Yan Ni always answered what she asked.
In the end, Venus was forced to be anxious, and said this in front of all the audience friends: "Throw her a mental hospital!" Not at all. ”
Why, on the other hand, did Yan Ni feel so confused when she mentioned divorce?
Counting down, Yan Ni has been divorced for a full 17 years, and 17 years later, Yan Ni challenged a new role for the first time, and succeeded in one fell swoop, winning a full house of applause.
In the recently concluded TV series "Breakout", Yan Ni played a "Shi Hongxing" with multiple personalities, in the play, Shi Hongxing can be the second in command of the fierce Jingzhou Zhongfu.
It can be a little sister who coddles in front of her brother and worships her for no reason, or a big woman who flaunts her martial prowess in front of her brother.
In Yan Ni's own words: "When I first received this script, I agreed without a trace of hesitation, because it was different from all the roles I had played before, and Shi Hongxing's character personality was deeply rooted in my heart." ”
Yes, Yan Ni did play the role of Shi Hongxing, which was the first time she broke through herself and challenged new roles after 17 years of divorce, and some careful people must have found that there was also the affection of Yan Ni's daughter in the play.
So the question is, what really happened between Yan Ni and her ex-husband?
In 1994, Yan Ni had just graduated from the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts and was assigned to the Beijing Air Politics Cultural and Labor Troupe, and according to Yan Ni's own recollection: "During that time in the cultural and industrial troupe, it was the most difficult day for me.
At that time, Yan Ni was still speaking fluent Shaanxi dialect in her mouth, and every time she spoke with one mouth, she would cause her colleagues around her to laugh.
Because of the accent problem, Yan Ni does not have a role to play, and the only meaning of her existence is the spare tire, and if the original role is temporary, Yan Ni will come in handy.
But who will give up the hard-won role to others, the family sees yan ni's work slump, they want to help her introduce a boyfriend, and want Yan ni to focus on the family.
Yan Ni is not exclusive to blind dates, and happily accepts that the other party is a military man named Zou Wei, who is not handsome but can be seen, and people are more generous and honest.
Yan Ni still remembers that when the two wanted to meet, Zou Wei was wearing a green striped top and a pair of black trousers.
Yan Ni's first impression of Zou Wei was very good, so she chose to try to get along, and the feelings at that time were very simple, without any impurities.
After about a year of dating, the two registered their marriage.
After marriage, Yan Ni still had a heart to throw her heart into her career, and Zou Wei also supported Yan Ni's work, personally sending Yan Ni to the filming place every time. Of course, the two did not have children at this time.
2 years later, Yan Ni gave birth to her daughter Yuanyuan, what Zou Wei did not expect was that Yan Ni actually had to go out to shoot a drama just after she was born, on the one hand, he was distressed by Yan Ni on the other hand, and angry that she disregarded her family.
At the beginning, Yan Ni also knew to go home at night to take care of her daughter, but slowly, it became a Monday home, a month to go home, the longest time, directly 5 months did not come home.
When she returned home after 5 months, her daughter did not know her, which made Yan Ni feel very unhappy, she knew that this was her debt to the family.
Zou Wei has persuaded Yan Ni more than once to find a stable job in a public institution, nine to five every day, and cook a simple dinner after returning home.
Yan Ni was verbally reconciled every time, but she was still filming non-stop to catch the announcement, and the dissatisfaction had filled her husband's heart, only one outlet was left.
In July 2004, Yan Ni finished her three-month job, thinking of sneaking home to surprise her daughter and husband, and on the way home, she went to a supermarket to buy a lot of vegetables.
The husband who returned home from work saw the shoes in the entrance, listened to the movement in the kitchen, and knew that his wife had returned, but his heart did not waver, but he made up his mind and said to Yan Ni in the kitchen: "Let's divorce!" ”
Because the sound of the range hood was too loud, Yan Ni only heard her husband's voice, and came in a loud voice: "Well, let's eat first." ”
Zou Wei changed his shoes, walked quickly to Yan Ni, grabbed Yan Ni's arm, and said seriously: "I said, let's divorce, the car, the house, and the deposit all belong to you, and I will get out of the house." ”
After Yan Ni heard this sentence, her head was suddenly confused, in the past few years, although she was busy with work and neglected her family, she never thought about divorce.
She went up and hugged Zou Wei and begged him not to divorce, for the sake of her daughter, for the sake of this family, she was willing to change, but when Zou Wei said the word divorce, she had already made up her mind.
No matter how Yan Ni pleaded, Zou Wei did not respond, Yan Ni saw Zou Wei's resoluteness, and could only bear to agree to the divorce, and her daughter lived with her mother Yan Ni.
In the days when she had just divorced, Yan Ni felt that her life was boring, she had no home and no lover, and no one left a lamp for her after returning home.
But when she saw her innocent and lovely daughter on the side, she decided: I have to cheer up, I still have my precious daughter.
Half a year later, director Shang Jing found Yan Ni and invited Yan Ni to participate in Tong Xiangyu in the TV series "The Legend of Wulin", and after reading the script, he resolutely chose to give up.
Because the character setting is Lotte and funny, but Yan Ni's current mood is not suitable for shooting at all, but director Shang Jing feels that this role is not Yan Ni.
After a long ideological struggle, Yan Ni was embarrassed and finally took over the role.
Yan Ni recalled this period of time: "When filming this drama, it was the most difficult time for me, but I had to keep laughing and acting comedy. During that time, I laughed heartlessly in the crew during the day, but at night I would always hide in the quilt and cry. ”
Fortunately, she survived those days, and once "The Legend of Wulin" was broadcast, the response was innumerable, and the role of Tong Xiangyu also became synonymous with Yan Ni in the future.
After this, there were countless olive branches thrown at Yan Ni, and her value also rose, and Yan Ni at this time was thirty-five years old, and it is no wonder that some people say that she is a late bloomer.
Yan Ni, who has a smooth career, ushered in the second spring of her life by chance.
In 2007, Yan Ni filmed the TV series "Homecoming", and played with wang Wei, a 9-year-old actor, in the crew, Yan Ni was like a big sister, taking care of everyone.
After coming and going, Wang Wei was taken care of by Yan Ni, and at the beginning, Yan Ni was worried that the age difference between the two was too large.
Later, Yan Ni felt that she actually liked it, and she didn't care much, so they came together, and Yan Ni often helped Wang Wei in her career.
He has cooperated in many film and television works, of which "Female Army Soul" is one of them, and this relationship has been from 2014 until 2014, and there has never been a breakup on the way.
Just when everyone thought they were going to cultivate the right results, Yan Ni suddenly announced to the outside world the news of their breakup.
When the media asked Yan Ni about this relationship, Yan Ni's eyes were unstoppablely gentle, and after a short thought, she said:
"I still admire him in my heart, and he really led me for many years. Aside from that arranged marriage, maybe this was my first real love. ”
For a long time after the breakup, Yan Ni did not have any scandals and concentrated on her career, until 2016, when the media suddenly broke out that Yan Ni and Wang Qiming, who was 11 years younger, lived together.
Also with relevant photos, before the relationship, the two are supporting each other and working hard, but Wang Qiming is just the opposite, after being exposed, he has not taken a play again, all day around Yan Ni, I don't know that Wang Qiming is Yan Ni's little assistant
Later, Yan Ni really couldn't stand it, so she took the initiative to break up, and also ruthlessly drove Wang Qiming out, it is said that Wang Qiming's luggage was packed by Yan Ni, and then thrown into the corridor.
How could Wang Qiming give up and find a bunch of people to come to Yan Ni's door to make trouble, and even posted photos of the two living together on the Internet.
Yan Ni never reacted at all, but then a series of remarks and photos on the Internet disappeared, and the matter passed.
At this time, Yan Ni was 47 years old, and she could no longer withstand any tossing, just when the media speculated that Yan Ni would no longer believe in feelings.
Another explosive news suddenly came out, Yan Ni and the post-80s actor Zhang Duo was together!
Although this relationship has not been certified by both parties, but not denying it is a tacit acquiescence, perhaps Yan Ni is disgusted with that kind of swinging feelings, and now all she wants is a quiet and stable life.
Throughout the first half of Yan Ni's life, it seems that she did not do one thing right, but she seemed to have done a lot of things correctly.
Her ex-husband taught her to value family, and her ex-boyfriend taught her reality.
I think this is also the meaning of Yan Ni's role as Shi Hongxing in "Breakout".
Originality is not easy, washing the manuscript must be investigated
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