Compared with Tong Zhi, who was loyal to the feelings of marriage in the early stage, Dazhuang is a carrot, always thinking of hooking up with women, especially he and Meimei have also talked about the object and said that they want to marry her. Mei Mei even did not marry for the sake of Dazhuang in her life.
But why, in the end, when Zhuang's sister-in-law left, Tong Zhi and Wen Li thought of an unmarried, one without a wife, and also had an emotional basis, so that when the two simply lived the future together, Mei Mei did not agree, and Dazhuang was not willing?
It is said that who is young and not lightly crazy, Dazhuang when he was young, he attracted bees and butterflies, and indeed he was used to seeing beautiful women and laughing at it, but he finally decided to be responsible for Zhuang Sister-in-law, a child bride, and married her, which shows that he has only been addicted to his mouth, and there is no thief's guts. If he is really a person with a heart, he can completely lose his sister-in-law and marry Mei Mei.
Zhuang Sister-in-law is not ugly at all in our opinion, but the character setting in the play plus the beautiful Wen Li is next to it as a foil, it seems that Zhuang Sister-in-law seems to be very ugly, especially if she is still uncultured and has no job. Therefore, for a moment and a half, it could not cure Dazhuang's restless heart. In addition, sister-in-law Zhuang had just come to the big city from the countryside at that time, and she felt a little inferior in her heart, and she also felt that she was not worthy of a big zhuang with a formal job in a big city, and the relationship between husband and wife was like a spring, if you were strong, he was weak, and if you were weak, he was strong. As a result, in the early stage, Zhuang's sister-in-law was drunk by Dazhuang like an air bag, and she could only swallow in the face of Dazhuang's disgust.
When did the status of the sister-in-law slowly rise, that is, after giving birth to a son. Although Dazhuang is a bit cultured, he can't get rid of the small peasant consciousness in his bones, and he always feels that having a son is superior to others. It just so happened that Wen Lisheng was a daughter again. He had a good relationship with Tong Zhi, so why didn't he have the heart to compete. The wife of the family is a cultural person, who is beautiful and has a good job. Say no envy, that's impossible. Now there is one better thing than others. Whether it is a long-term relationship, or the wife has a fight, in short, Dazhuang has also begun to treat his wife equally. At least no longer be a little daughter-in-law who can be bullied as much as she wants, as she used to be.
To say that Sister-in-law Zhuang entered the heart of Dazhuang, we must start from the division of the house. Speaking of which, although Dazhuang and Tong Zhi are good brothers who talk about everything, they are also technical talents, but Dazhuang's contribution is really not as high as Tong Zhi's, people are senior engineers, and Dazhuang is only a unilateral technical talent, Tong Zhi has the capital to go to the chief engineer, deputy factory director, factory director and other management, Dazhuang basically does not have. Therefore, in the matter of dividing the house, whether it is the master's eccentricity or the decision in the factory, there is actually no excessive or unfair treatment on the surface.
But the so-called crying children have sugar to eat.
Others did not feel unfair, Dazhuang two people feel that Dazhuang and Tong Zhi have the same working years, the same technical workers, why the houses divided by others are bigger than them, better than them. Sister-in-law Zhuang fought for the house this section, had to admire ah! If Wen Li encountered this, I am afraid that she would only scold Tong Zhi, but what is the use of scolding his own man, he can't decide who the house is given to, or Zhuang Sister-in-law is strong, directly looking for trouble in the factory, although from a neutral point of view, I think it is inappropriate to do so. But at that time, if you didn't fight for it and only relied on others to give it, then unless you really had a greater ability, others would like you not to argue or make trouble, and endure all the unfairness.
Not to mention, Sister-in-law Zhuang was lucky enough to meet a superior to inspect the work, and Sister-in-law Zhuang relied on high emotional intelligence to let her husband's treatment as a small technician directly mixed into the house assigned by the factory director. I have to admire my sister-in-law! Dazhuang also completely changed his view of his wife because of this incident. At the critical moment, we have to see my wife!
Moreover, Sister-in-law Zhuang is kind to people, and she is digging her heart and lungs out of everyone, Wen Li always looks down on people, people in addition to the initial anger, but with Wen Li to do a few times, and then did not see what difficulties they have, they helped. Whoever is smiling, where like Wen Li this also looks down, that does not want to talk to people more than two words, anyway, only she is the best, everyone should bother her. Others are not very willing to be close to her, she also uses it for her own sister, of course, people help her to do bad things, she still has to complain about others. People borrowed her money, and instead of being grateful, she felt that they had given her a look.
When such a woman encounters an incident, she always finds the fault of others first, both to outsiders and to the family. After Tong Zhi's spiritual derailment, everyone thought he was hateful, scum. But before he cheated, did he feel that he was very pitiful? Wen Li in addition to beauty, gave this family what, as soon as they encountered things, they quarreled, quarreled and ran to their mother's house, four children, it can be said that none of them were raised well, the only good south was still brought up by grandma.
It is said that the authorities are obsessed with bystanders, and perhaps Wen Li, who is in it, still feels that she has been wronged. But as a bystander, Da Zhuang can soberly see Tong Zhi's difficulties, and anyone who has a wife who does this can't eat it. We have to be reasonable in everything, the mother-in-law is not good, the daughter is not good, the son is good, and I have not seen you bring a good son. For the sake of the son ignoring the husband, the husband and daughter should not resist because they meet someone like you and endure your various works?
In contrast, Dazhuang definitely felt that he was not too happy. No matter how hard the years, his wife did not lack his food and clothing, three years of natural disasters, can eat enough, not to mention that there is always meat to eat. When the child grows up, he will also go to find a job and earn some money. There is no calculation in small things, and there is no ambiguity in big things. If learning culture is only to increase the use of words when quarrelling, it is not as good as a daughter-in-law like Zhuang who does not know a few big characters, is sober and reasonable, and is at home and outside the home, and will never let her husband be embarrassed.
All men want to marry a beautiful woman, but a woman's beauty needs money to nourish. In the past, when eating was still the first time it was needed, marrying a beautiful daughter-in-law may be happy in the first few years. In particular, Wen Li is not like Anna, who knows how to respect reality and recognize the essence of life. Daughter in the hometown, do not raise or send money, have to buy two beautiful clothes first, not to mention the era of material scarcity, that is, modern, few people can stand it.
It is said that people are afraid of comparison, Dazhuang is not a person without conscience, he is not unaware, relative to Tong Zhi, in addition to his wife is not so beautiful, he is more comfortable. Both materially and spiritually. Besides, although he was a little ridiculous when he was young, he never thought of divorcing his wife or betraying his family. At least for Mei Mei, he has not provoked mei mei since he got married, and he has always been unable to let go of mei mei.
Especially later, when Zhuang Zhiwen fell ill, Dazhuang lost his clothes to stretch out his hands and eat to open his mouth, and only then did he understand the difficulty of Zhuang Zhiwenli, watching Tong Zhiwenli's two sons from love to love each other to look at each other, he was clear in his heart, and he owed his wife in the past. If I had treated you the way you treated me, you would have left me long ago. If Tong Zhi dared to treat Wen Li in the way that Dazhuang treated Zhuang's sister-in-law, Wen Li would have left him long ago. In terms of skill, Dazhuang was not as good as Tong Zhi, and he also posed the man's prestige in front of his wife, a bad chaff wife, and was spoiled by his wife for a lifetime. In his words, "You are the pillar of our family."
Maybe it's old, old, Dazhuang doesn't want to toss anymore, or maybe Dazhuang doesn't want to add trouble to his son, but more is the debt to Zhuang Sister-in-law, and wants to use the lonely life behind to repay the sorry that Zhuang Sister-in-law did not say! I have to say that the male and female protagonists of the golden marriage are not Tong Zhiwenli, saying that Zhuang Sister-in-law and Dazhuang are more appropriate.
If you can't choose what I love, try to love what I choose, people can only see each other's beauty if they cherish it, don't go to the time when yin and yang are separated, they will only say sorry! Strive to make our marriage more beautiful and less regretful!
Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished!