Speaking of Jacqueline, everyone may not be as familiar as Diana, but if you mention her ex-husband, it is clear that he is the former President of the United States Kennedy, she and Diana are quite similar, they were born in high society, both experienced the betrayal of marriage, but the choices of the two are very different, Jacqueline chose to be patient in the face of Monroe, and Diana chose to divorce when facing Camilla, creating a different ending.
Jacqueline Diana
Born on July 28, 1929 in a wealthy area of New York, Jacqueline's mother was a brilliant knight, Jacqueline's grandfather had multiple identities, both as a lawyer, a banker, and a real estate developer, he built more than 200 buildings in New York City, including luxury apartments on Fifth Avenue and Parker Avenue, a veritable rich family.
Childhood Jacqueline
Her father was also from a good background, not only owned a million family fortunes, but also very handsome, a charismatic fan, and he himself liked to provoke girls everywhere, so Jacqueline's father, like her presidential husband, was a prodigal son.
Unlike Diana's father, the Earl of Spencer, Jacqueline's father was very fond of being a father, and he was very fond of his daughters, perhaps because of business, rather than having a knighthood to inherit, and he often mingled with his daughters, encouraging them to do everything they wanted, including climbing trees, teaching her to swim, riding horses, letting go of her hands when riding, participating in baseball games, and so on.
It can be said that Jacqueline's childhood was very happy, her mother cared for her very much, her father held her in the palm of his hand, and had to coax her to sleep every night, which had a profound impact on her life, but this happiness did not last long, and when Jacqueline was 11 years old, that is, in 1940, her parents chose to end the marriage.
However, even like Diana, her parents are divorced, but Jacqueline is still luckier than Diana, because her parents are still happy to take them out to play, Diana's parents, regardless of the marriage, the most concerned is not the children, but their respective feelings, even at the expense of hurting them.
Diana
Diana remembers very clearly that after her parents divorced, she attended a wedding, at which she acted as a flower child, at this time, the parents each took a beautiful dress, asked Diana which one she preferred, let her make a choice, if she liked her father's one, she followed her father, and vice versa, she followed her mother, which may not be enough for adults, but it made Diana feel deep fear.
Young Diana
When she became an adult, she told her friends that when her parents asked her to make a choice, she was particularly afraid and bitter, and that no matter who she was with, her parents would not have the heart to accompany her, which was the biggest difference between her and Jacqueline.
In childhood, Diana, like Jacqueline, was a student who gave the teacher a special headache, and both liked to play pranks, Jacqueline was keen to fill the balloon with water, and then find a female classmate, break the balloon, let the water spray the female classmate, she would laugh happily, enjoy it, but let the teacher have a headache. Despite this, she is still a top student, which is the biggest difference from Diana, whose only praiseworthy is sports, not cultural classes.
Childhood Diana
After graduating from college in 1951, Jacqueline entered the Washington Times Herald as a reporter, and by chance, Jacqueline met John F. Kennedy, who was speaking passionately for the election of the Congressman, and with just one glance, he entered Jacqueline's heart.
Kennedy and Jacqueline
In the summer of 1953, Jacqueline married Kennedy with a vision of the future, she always thought that she would live happily, in fact, if she could pretend not to hear, can not see Kennedy's peachy sky, she will be a happy woman, Kennedy and Charles are not the same, no matter how many lovers he has outside, it is not as important as the wife at home.
Speaking of Kennedy, we have to mention his affairs, the most famous of which is the entanglement with Marilyn Monroe.
Monroe and the Kennedy brothers
In 1954, at a banquet, when Kennedy first saw Monroe, his eyes were fixed on her, and Jacqueline also noticed her husband's strange eyes, trembling with anger and blue in the face, but Jacqueline, who had been good at self-adjustment since childhood, did not embarrass her husband, but just wronged herself.
Marilyn Monroe
Beginning in 1955, Kennedy and Monroe frequent dating, in 1961 the two officially began to fall in love, Kennedy took advantage of Jacqueline's vacation, there were people who held a party for Kennedy, after the party and then selected a room for them, then, Kennedy and Monroe stayed one night, Kennedy thought that as usual, just an ordinary "date", as a result, their every move was monitored, the next day all the people in the United States knew that Kennedy and Monroe were dating.
Although the private affair was exposed, it was really not a big deal for Kennedy, his lovers were too numerous to count, as he himself said, a day without a woman is a migraine!
After their love affair was made public, they did not stand up to refute or explain, but walked together generously, often walking together, traveling together, watching the sunset and watching the sunrise together, like a little couple in love.
Compared with Charles, Kennedy has absolute power, he is confident and strong and assertive, while Charles is partial to self-pity, lack of self-confidence and masculinity, dependent on others, especially his mother Queen Elizabeth, so Kennedy dares to disclose all his lovers, but Charles can only secretly date Camilla.
As her relationship with Kennedy heats up, Monroe is no longer satisfied with just being his lover, she wants to replace Jacqueline as the first lady, based on her beauty and ability, she is very confident that Kennedy will definitely be because of her, and the same as the one she called "statue", however, it turns out that it is just her fantasy.
Although Kennedy seemed to be extremely fond of Monroe, often letting her pretend to be his secretary in and out of the White House, he was definitely not alone in Monroe at the same time, for family reasons, he told his friends that he had never really fallen in love with anyone, which is why he has always been reluctant to marry, so he cannot be devoted to Monroe alone.
For the relationship between Kennedy and Monroe, Jacqueline is clear, Monroe has also provoked her many times, in the face of her husband's chaotic private life, Jacqueline also wanted to give up this marriage, but she insisted, the reason is because she really loves this man, and secondly, she does not want to make herself a divorced woman, in order to make herself look happy, Jacqueline will never embarrass Kennedy outside, has always played the role of a good wife and mother, but also played a husband and wife relationship.
Jacqueline not only tolerates Kennedy everywhere in life, but also helps Kennedy a lot in her career, and the book "Image of the Brave" was completed by Jacqueline, so she still has weight in Kennedy's heart, but maybe in Jacqueline's heart, this weight does not help at all, she wants all.
Let's take a look at how Diana deals with her husband's lover, Camilla.
On July 29, 1981, Diana and Charles held a luxurious wedding that was unparalleled in the world, and compared with Jacqueline, Diana felt happy at this moment, the wedding was as beautiful as a fairy tale, she loved Prince Charles, everything was as perfect as she imagined.
However, just a few months later, Charles was photographed dating Camilla, and then caught together on the spot at Camilla's sister's birthday party, Diana was furious, aggrieved and sad on the spot, but this did not make Charles stop his love for Camilla.
Subsequently, in order to avenge Charles's infidelity to marriage and disrespect for herself, Diana chose to be with the bodyguard of Buckingham Palace, and after being discovered by the Queen and Charles and other members of the royal family, the bodyguard died in a car accident shortly after.
In 1990, Diana was with car dealer Gilbe, and the result was a "warm nephrite gate", which once again disgraced the royal family.
She was then insane, often moody, and even randomly dropped things, jumped down the stairs in order to make Charles pay attention to herself, and constantly asked Charles's friends Hall and Diane about Camilla.
Perhaps, feelings are the same as yellow sand, the tighter you grasp, the faster it runs, because of Diana's behavior, but let Charles date Camilla more often, in his opinion, Diana is willful and ignorant, like a little girl, but Camilla is like a mother to tolerate him, in contrast, Charles prefers the mature and stable Camilla to the lively Diana.
Seeing that this marriage has been irretrievable, Diana has found 5 boyfriends in succession after their separation, but still always cheated, these are not the main reasons for her divorce, most importantly, she decided to compete with the royal family, therefore, the royal secrets were shaken out, which angered the queen, ordered them to divorce immediately, and finally Diana broke Paris.
Compared with Jacqueline and Diana's experience, it is very similar, but two different choices, resulting in different consequences, Jacqueline and Diana are different in that she is confident and assertive, very rational, and knows what the consequences of what she does, but the reason for this is because she had a good childhood, and Diana has always been in a state of lack of love.
Let's talk about the husbands of both of them, the same thing is that they are restless in marriage, and even Kennedy is even worse, just imagine, the husband is keen to get into trouble, the wife should tolerate it, and it takes not only tolerance and patience, but wisdom.
However, the reason why Jacqueline can still insist on marriage, one is because Kennedy will still show concern for her, willing to talk with her when she is at home, in addition, once Jacqueline wanted to divorce, Kennedy's father firmly opposed, and even spent 1 million US dollars to let Jacqueline not mention divorce, so she also has family support.
Diana has always been in a state of pursuit of the attention and love of others, charles loves Camilla, does not care about Diana in the slightest, disregards her feelings, does not want to pay attention to her even at home, or always quarrels, which is the most hurtful thing about Charles.
Meanwhile, Diana's mother-in-law, Queen Elizabeth, also ordered them to divorce, diana did not have a strong backing as a spiritual support, nor did she have a clear mind like Jacqueline, she did not make the choice that was most beneficial to herself, but self-pity and trampling.
If Diana, like Jacqueline, learns to think rationally and learn to be patient, perhaps, she can live as long as the queen, and to this day, she can laugh at the red dust with her daughter-in-law, the real civilian princess, but there is no if in life.