"Star II", a special existence in the entertainment industry!
When most students are still realizing their dream of being an actor through difficult art examinations, the second generation of stars has long occupied a place in the entertainment industry by virtue of the resources and contacts accumulated by their parents and mothers in the early years.
From Zhang Mo and Fang Zuming in the early years to Guo Qilin and Chen Feiyu today, as soon as they appeared, they were the bright existence under the magnesium lamp, and they could be seen in major well-known variety shows and film and television dramas.
However, not all the second generation of stars are shining with the aura of their parents.
Sun Tie is the son of Sichenkova, but their mother-son relationship is rarely known, and even Sun Tie himself rarely claims his origin.
His low profile, because of his personality, but also because of the poor and lonely childhood experience.
Sun Tie was born in Schengova's first marriage, and when he was born, Schenkova was 23 years old and had been married for nearly 5 years, but Schenkova was very unhappy.
When she married her first husband, Sun Tianxiang, Sichenkova was only 18 years old, which was the age of emotional impulses, and a momentary admiration was enough to make Sichenkova promise lifelong.
But after getting married, Sun Tianxiang's "macho" personality was revealed, not only did all the housework be done by Sichenkova alone, treating her as a rough messenger, and even asked Sichenkova to give up her job and single-mindedly take the children at home.
But Schenkova did not back down and still insisted on working, and in this way, the contradiction between the two became deeper and deeper.
After the birth of her daughter Sun Dan and son Sun Tie, Sichenkova's pressure became heavier, and she had to take care of her two children while taking care of her career.
For Sichengova's pain, Sun Tianxiang not only did not pity her, but also shared the housework and pressure for her, and also took the suffocation at work home and sprinkled all the anger on Sichengova and the children.
In the end, Sichenkova finally couldn't bear it, and when her son Sun Tie was 4 years old, she resolutely divorced Sun Tianxiang and left the home that made her miserable.
The divorce with Sun Tianxiang made Sichenkova feel relieved, but it also brought a lot of harm to the young hearts of the two children, especially Sun Tie.
It turned out that at the time of the divorce, Sun Tianxiang and Sichengova had already agreed that the son would belong to Sun Tianxiang, and the daughter would be raised by Sichengova.
Decisions between adults often do not seek the consent of children, and on the day of separation, the young Sun Tie cried out of breath, and he held Schengova's leg and did not let her go.
A "Mother, don't go" shouted out Sun Tie's helpless sadness, and also made Sichengova cry.
But, Szczynkova had to go.
At that time, Sun Tie, only 4 years old, young and ignorant, was exactly the age when he needed his mother's company, and all along, his mother was all his warmth and dependence, but now, this warmth is no longer there.
The father Sun Tianxiang's other marriage gave Sun Tie another blow, the stepmother did not treat him well, the father's temper became more and more grumpy, and the father and stepmother quarreled all day.
Growing up in such a family, Sun Tie's temperament became more and more dull, and it was difficult to say a few words all day, and he was disgusted with this family.
In addition, Sun Tianxiang often said bad things about Sichenkova, and told Sun Tie that it was Sichengova who abandoned him and abandoned the family, and they would live such a life.
Sun Tianxiang's brainwashing was successful, and Sun Tie began to transfer the "hatred" to Sichenkova's body.
Over there, Szczynkova's life was not going well, especially emotionally.
Shortly after divorcing Sun Tianxiang, Sichenkova met her second husband, Ao Xingchen.
The two are considered to be flash marriage, and it is very sweet to start a married life, but after a long time together, contradictions and problems gradually appear.
The final failure of the marriage was a movie, when Schenkova was in the process of career development, and she was unwilling to give up the role of tiger girl in "Shoko the Camel".
But precisely because this role has a large-scale scene, Ao Xingchen resolutely refused to allow Sichengova to shoot this scene, and in order to stop Sichengova, he also ran to the shooting scene and made a big fuss.
The farce brought the relationship between the two to an impasse, and the two often quarreled over the incident, and when Schenkova was on fire because of "Shoko the Camel", they quarreled even more.
Ao Xingchen could not accept the marriage of "strong women and weak men", but Sichenkova refused to give up her job, and finally the two divorced.
The second failed marriage left Schenkova's life chaotic and physically and mentally exhausted, which made her have no time to take care of her son who was far away.
When Sun Tie was 13 years old, Sun Tianxiang, who was becoming increasingly grumpy, could not help but use his second wife, this time, the hand was very heavy, and he also used a knife, and finally, Sun Tianxiang was imprisoned for deliberately hurting others.
Before he became an adult, his family was scattered, and Sun Tie was isolated. By the time Schenkova heard the news and hurried back, things were irreparable.
At this time, Schenkova was preparing to move to Switzerland with her third husband, and she proposed to Sun Tie to move together, but was ruthlessly rejected by Sun Tie, who bluntly said: "That is your home, not my home." ”
Sun Tie's indifference made Sichenkova very sad, but she also could not bear to let the child live alone, for this reason, Sichenkova went to Sun Tie many times and talked to her, but she was treated coldly by Sun Tie.
Sun Tianxiang's provocation of discord was obviously successful, but it also obviously hurt the child.
Sun Tie was unwilling to accept any help from Sichenkova, there was no economic income, life could not be guaranteed at all, and at the age of 16, Sun Tie chose to drop out of school.
After leaving school, Sun Tie went to Shenzhen alone, and his first job as a doorman with no academic qualifications and no background was as a doorman.
The hotel porter, although dressed clean and tidy, but the salary is very low, only 300 yuan a month, after paying the basic cost of food, clothing, housing and transportation, he can not save any money.
Even live, are to pick the cheapest simple shed, even 600 yuan of medical expenses can not afford to pay, if it is not the next door neighbor to help advance payment, Sun Tie, may not even be able to cure the disease.
During this period, Sichenkova has also been looking for opportunities to ease the relationship between their mother and son, but Sun Tie did not give her a chance at all, either refusing to see or frowning coldly.
The turning point of events occurred in 2001, when Schenkova broke her leg and could not walk due to filming, and her daughter Sun Dan, who was far away in France, rushed back to Beijing after hearing the news.
Sun Dan told Sun Tie the news of his mother's hospitalization, hoping that he would come to visit the patient, but was refused.
In a fit of rage, Sun Dan gave Sun Tie all the diaries written by his mother Sichenkova over the years.
The entire 4 books, tens of thousands of pages of the diary, word by word, reveal the self-blame and sadness of a mother who could not accompany her son to grow up.
After reading the diary, Sun Tie's heart was full of emotions, and he was happy and sad, it turned out that for so many years, he had always misunderstood his mother, and the maternal love he longed for was not nothing, but existed in another form.
Regret and sadness mixed, after reading the diary, Sun Tie hurried to the hospital.
After years of heart knots finally opened, both of them were red-eyed, and Schengova cried even more.
After the relationship eased, Schenkova sent Sun Tie to Belgium to study, and after returning to China, she brought him into the show business circle by hand.
Although they are all small roles, Sun Tie learned very seriously, and soon developed his own feelings about acting and began to try to take on some larger roles.
But he is too low-key, debuting with such a big aura as his mother, but he is stunned that he did not make a sound, and now he is basically withdrawing from the circle and no longer starring in any TV series.
The failure of his parents' marriage is always the child who is injured, and for Sun Tie, the trauma of childhood will be a pain that he will never forget for the rest of his life.
Even if the relationship with the mother is gradually eased, the trauma will not disappear, after all, the injury has been caused, and can only rely on time and feelings to slowly heal...
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Author: Two Ying