Yu Boya Zhongzi period to meet with the sound of the piano, the marriage as a confidant, Lian Po Lin xiang like because of the negative Jing matter, so become a confidant, Taoyuan Sanjie will be in the chaotic world, Guan Baozhi befriended in the business travel, the exchange between friends, often need to go through a medium. Throughout the ages, no medium has appeared as frequently as wine, and no medium has caused controversy like wine.
Nowadays, people's "wine and meat friends" are mostly pejorative, referring to friends who get together just to eat, drink and have fun, and do not do serious things. It seems that as long as the friendship is stained with wine, it will accelerate its deterioration. Some people will even "beat to death" friends who drink meat, thinking that friends they know at the wine table are best drunk and scattered, and they don't know each other when they meet. But Guo Xiaoqian wants to say that this is a negative stereotype.
According to the "Essays on the Mountain House" of the Yuanren Jiang Zhengzi, Liu Guo's first meeting with Xin Zhiyi, who was famous all over the world at that time, was still a cloth cloth, and because he was uninvited, he did not leave a good first impression. Xin abandoned his illness and annoyed him for his arrogance, so he ordered a poetry examination and pointed out a bowl of sheep kidney soup on the mat. And Liu Guo did not give in, drank heavily, and generously gave poems "after death, I don't know what is outside my body, but also with the wine with the wind", showing off his own arrogant and free temperament and bright poetry, which has been recognized by "idols". Subsequently, the two ate wine and meat separately, becoming friends of Mo Rebellion.
Guo Xiaoqian believes that the concept of "wine and meat friends" should be corrected. It is true that true friendship is about mutual understanding, not about eating and drinking together, but if there is no mutual participation as a medium to create a place of communication, where does friendship between people come from?
In the wine field, there will also be real friendship. Just like the two "Xin Liu" met at the wine table, they were "friends of wine and meat", but it did not affect them from becoming true friends who took care of each other.
True friendship will be achieved by each other, and the formation of Liu Guohao's style of words is inseparable from the promotion and guidance of Xin Zhiyi. Liu Guo's "Longzhou Words" is recognized as the most accomplished lyrics, in addition to the "Tang Duoling" that "wants to buy osmanthus flowers and carry wine", it is also counted on this "Qinyuan Spring" written in the style of Xin Ci, "Bucket wine shoulders, drunk crossing Zhejiang, are not happy!" ...... Penglai Pavilion, it is not too late to visit Jiaxuan, and this wanders. "There is wine and meat, sitting and talking about the high pavilion, Liu Gaizhi's imaginary picture of meeting with friends is the best annotation to this friendship."
Guo Xiaoqian would like to advise everyone not to be prejudiced against those "wine and meat friends." The person sitting across the table from the wine table may be the "Shi Xian" himself? No, in Li Bai's poem "Nanling Bei Children Enter Beijing", he used the allusion of "fools who will buy ministers lightly" to ridicule the worldly people who were before and after gong, and then said "Laugh at the sky and go out, my generation is a basil person", and say goodbye to all the liquor bureaus that "make me unhappy".
All in all, in terms of wine and meat, how to make friends, what is the matter with wine and meat? It should be known that sincerity for confidants, true temperament to make true friends, wine and meat are only a medium, and the interaction between people will eventually return to sincerity. As long as you meet each other with sincerity and smell the same, you can make true friends at the wine table.
Winter is a good time for warm wine friends, the wine farm is a good place for a warm atmosphere, and when we are in it, communicating with each other, we must learn to grasp the right measure and match each other's rhythm. Maybe before the New Year arrives, new friends will come to us early.