Life is like a school where misfortune is a better teacher than happiness. ——— Fritsch
Speaking of child stars, everyone will feel that she is sought after by the public at a young age, then her starting point is so high, the road ahead will be much easier than others.
Child stars enjoy attention and pursuit at a very young age, earn money for their parents, and fight for face, but not all child stars are smooth, let's understand a child star who has been tortured by wind and frost, she is Ji Baoru.
From the beginning of the genius child star to the later single mother, Ji Baoru, who was once injected with a growth inhibition needle, how difficult was her life?
Ji Baoru, who was born in 1971, due to the traditional thinking at that time, Ji Baoru's birth mother gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and sent her as a girl to Grandma's family.
Grandma is a rural person, has no culture, and is more "son-preference". Therefore, Ji Baoru did not get good care from a young age, did not have good food, did not have new clothes to wear, and began to do a lot of housework at a very young age.
Because Ji Baoru's big eyes are beautiful, by chance, she was selected by a director to participate in a movie. Although she has not been valued since she was a child, she has a unique talent in acting, and can subtly express the eyes and details of the characters. And because of her unhappy childhood, she is even more adept at crying. As soon as the director shouted, her tears were like drops of water that broke the line and couldn't stop.
Perhaps on another level, she needs to vent her own grievances and pain in life in this way. Therefore, in that era, she played a lot of roles like this lack of love, even if it was a difficult play, she could grasp it very well. Her acting skills are naturally unpretentious, and her memory is also super strong, and she can quickly remember the content of the script.
Ji Baoru was liked and favored by many directors, and at that time she was also known as a "genius child star" and was loved by many audiences.
But in an interview, she said that she was not acting to make money, but to see Grandma happy, for her to be nice to herself. However, Grandma was not exhausted, and used Ji Baoru as a tool to make money, and had to let Ji Baoru take over the play day and night.
At that time, Ji Baoru didn't even have time to go to school, she couldn't study like other children, she didn't even have time to sleep, and she was assigned a full job by Grandma.
But the path of child stars is very short after all, and Grandma actually has an evil idea for this wealth code. She took Ji Baoru to an illegal small clinic to inject a drug that inhibited growth.
She couldn't let Ji Baoru grow tall, and Ji Baoru's voice also stayed at the age of 13, which deeply planted the seeds of hatred in Ji Baoru's heart.
At that time, popular nightclubs, Grandma in order to make money, but also arranged for her to go to the bar to sing, was taken advantage of is also a common thing. And several performances were arranged in one night, and she could not rest when her voice was hoarse. Ji Baoru's money could not reach his own hands, and Grandma gave her a little living expenses and did not let her fall in love.
But Ji Baoru, after being brutalized and controlled by Grandma's madness for a long time, finally had the idea of rebellion. These buds have accumulated to a certain extent, and an opportunity will always erupt.
A little girl is tortured in her original family, can't get the life she wants, can't feel the slightest affection, and will hope to be saved by a man. Finally, when Ji Baoru was 17 years old, she met a man who changed her life, and this person was Yu Long.
She fell in love with Yu Long and became pregnant not long after, and was asked by Grandma and her father to beat up the child after she knew about it, and she eloped with Yu Long without listening, when she was not yet 18 years old.
After Ji Baoru followed Yu Long, he ran a restaurant with him. The couple struggled together for several years, and slowly the two of them began to save money to buy a house. When the days were about to get better, suddenly one day, Ji Baoru found Yu Long on the phone with another girl behind her back, and that girl was only sixteen or seventeen years old.
Not only that, her family has experienced market turmoil, the family has lost a lot of money, and her mother-in-law blames her. Ji Bao left Yu Long in a huff, and he ran a KTV by relying on his past connections. Yu Long repeatedly came to the door to apologize, and Ji Baoru did not want to see him.
However, not long after, a bad news reached Ji Baoru's ears, and a KTV on Taipei's Fushun Street was burned, killing 16 people on the spot, and Yu Long was in it. Later, she learned that Yu Long was depressed all day after she left, and he often went to buy drunks when he did not go to KTV.
Ji Baoru was full of guilt, if it weren't for her Yu Long, she wouldn't have gone to that KTV, and such a tragedy wouldn't have happened. She regretted that she did not forgive Yu Long in time and lived in self-blame all day long. But she had three children, and she became a mother, Sang, to support them.
During that time, she lived a very decadent life, and even committed suicide several times, but in the end she did not succeed. She also vented all her anger on the child, and she had always wanted to get rid of Grandma's control but eventually became Grandma, and she hated herself for such a self.
It's been like this for 12 years. Finally, one day, one of her friends successfully fired her, and Ji Baoru suddenly woke up. In the past, she had been living in regret, pain, betrayal and torture, completely unable to see what life should be, and all her negative emotions were brought to her by a tragic childhood.
She eventually narrowed her path and eventually blocked it all. But the mountains and rivers are doubtful and there is no way, and the willows are dark and the flowers are bright and another village. She finally felt by chance that she should change her mind.
So she started her life again. Ji Baoru joined the Quality Life Association to help the elderly and children with disabilities, focus on public welfare, and strive to reconcile with their loved ones who they once hated.
Today, Ji Baoru has dragged that dark self out of the deep quagmire and redeemed himself. She sees things that really make sense, and she shares her experiences and lessons on the show, hoping to help more people who are hurt by themselves emotionally and spiritually.
As she said, to piece together the broken life, it is necessary to pick up the fragments little by little, and to find the value of the self little by little. Only those who have experienced suffering can know more clearly how to better grasp happiness.