When the mother is a little crooked, the parenting is very positive! (Wen | Crooked Mother)
Many of the child stars we have seen on the screen in the past have grown up, such as Yang Mi, Zhang Yishan, Guan Xiaotong, etc., and now they are also developing very well. But how many people remember him now? He is the big-eyed cute baby in the "Baby Project" cooperated by Jackie Chan and Gu Tianle 15 years ago, and at that time, he also captured the hearts of many "mother fans" with a cute and cute image.
In fact, the big-eyed cute baby in the movie that year was named Cai Zhiqiang, born in Australia, and was a mixed-race child. Due to the good reputation and box office of the movie "Baby Project" at that time, Cai Zhiqiang was also successfully shortlisted for the Best Newcomer Award at the Academy Awards that year, and was the youngest finalist so far.
I thought that Cai Zhiqiang, who had such a high starting point, would have been developing in the entertainment industry, but then there was very little news of him on the screen. It was not until he later posted a dynamic on social networks that the "big eyes" of his childhood returned to the public's vision.
In the photo, he has no appearance of a child at all, and now his facial features are more three-dimensional, he is thin and tall, his face shape is no longer the round face of his childhood, and his hair is long and scattered on both sides, which is completely a juvenile appearance. From a cute face with flesh to a "world-weary face" of some high-level decadence, netizens have left messages: the change is too big to recognize.
The reason why Cai Zhiqiang slowly faded out of the public's vision is because he did not choose the path of acting, but like an ordinary child, he returned to school life, which is also a happy choice.
Another well-known child star is a negative model, and she is not as lucky as Cai Zhiqiang. She is the famous Taiwanese child star Ji Baoru. Ji Baoru also debuted as a child star, but he ruined his life's happiness.
Ji Baoru's parents are very patriarchal, so they have thrown her to her grandmother to raise since she was a child, but her grandmother does not love her very much, and even after discovering her granddaughter's acting talent, she pulls the young Baoru to participate in various TV shows, completely treating her as a cash cow.
Ji Baoru debuted at the age of 5, and since then he has been a tool to make money to support the family's expenses, and thus lost the opportunity to go to school. Later, Ji Baoru slowly reached puberty, and grandma was worried that her cute appearance would disappear, so she forcibly corseted her chest and gave her a needle to inhibit bone growth, which made Ji Baoru stop growing tall forever at 149cm.
Later, when Ji Baoru became an adult, in order to get revenge on his parents and grandmother, he married at the age of 19 despite his family's opposition and fled the cold family.
But later Ji Baoru's husband died early, her mother-in-law had a grudge against her, her parents did not care, and Ji Baoru, who had no academic qualifications, could only go to work as a cleaner and do the dirtiest and most tiring work to make ends meet in order to raise three children...
It was not until old age that Ji Baoru was able to break away from his original family, no longer resentful, take refuge in Buddhism, and gain liberation.
Everyone's original family is really important, and due to the influence of her parents and grandmother, Ji Baoru has not achieved true happiness in her life, and resentment has accompanied her for nearly a lifetime. There is a saying that goes well, "Happy people heal their lives with childhood; unfortunate people heal their childhood with a lifetime".
1. Pay enough attention to family affection
Children are born with only their parents, so the source of all their security is the love and attention of their parents. For a sensitive child, the parents' lack of attention and lack of concern is likely to make the child feel insecure and inferior. If you want your child to have a sense of security and courage, and rely on the family to feed the family, parents must lead by example, pay enough attention to family affection, and improve the cohesion within the family.
2. Respect children and treat them equally
Children are born to grope forward, so it's normal to make small mistakes. As a parent, we must be angry, not a little thing to blame and slander, but should give children more patience and companionship, timely correction and education of children, listen to children, respect their thoughts, and treat them equally.
3. Create a good family atmosphere
Family atmosphere has a very important impact on the development of children's personality, long-term living in a low and negative environment, children's inner pressure will be very large, emotional instability, easy to cause character defects; and living in an optimistic and positive environment, the child's personality is often lively and cute, for the sake of others, is conducive to future communication and development. Therefore, parents should try to create a good and loving family atmosphere for their children to protect their children's healthy inner growth.
Crooked Mom Conclusion:
A person's family can be said to be the biggest confidence in his life, giving a child a healthy and beautiful original family can help him go further and more powerful. As a parent, we must pay attention to the influence of the original family on the growth of the child, try to provide a loving and healthy family atmosphere for the child, and do a good job in his stable rear.
Today's topic: Do you have a patriarchal situation in your family? Let's talk about the influence of your original family on you!
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