Wen | Zhang Ping
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Some girls have no parental protection, no safe haven, and some are all alone, fighting alone to face the world.
Such a girl is undoubtedly unfortunate, because every girl's life should be loved by her parents and exist like a little princess.
But life is like this, there are good and bad, there will be happiness and misfortune, as for which one you will encounter, it all depends on fate.
The more you are in a difficult situation, the harder you have to grow, like a tenacious grass, you will be glad when you grow up, fortunately, you worked hard and persevered hard enough at that time to have your later endurance.
I encourage young people to suffer more when they are young than adults.
Because of this kind of thing, the sooner you experience it, the faster you will recover, and when we are young, we have enough time to practice, even if it is wrong, what does it matter, anyway, youth is capital.
Adulthood is different, everyone's opportunities are equal, you can make mistakes, but society will not give you the opportunity to make up for it again and again, and every mistake you make after you are older needs to spend a lot of time to repair.
01。
In the TV series "The Sea of Stars", Jane Ai, who was reduced to an orphan from a small princess, can be said to be the most miserable person in the whole drama, but even though she experienced a lot of suffering in her childhood, she still became a person who was praised by everyone through her own efforts.
Compared to Jane Eyre, Gillian is relatively luckier. Gillian is Jane Eyre's cousin, and since the death of her parents, Jane Eyre has lived with her only aunt, who has two children, one is Gillian and the other is Amin.
Although she is an aunt, she is not good to Jane Eyre, and at first she does not want to raise Jane Eyre, until she sees the inheritance left to her by Jane Eyre's father, and then changes her original intention.
Although she had her aunt's care, Jane Eyre's life was still miserable. The aunt herself is not a good person, shrewd and sophisticated, and the preference for sons is very serious, so she treats Jane Eyre and her daughter Gillian badly.
Son Amin wants to sleep in Jane Eyre's room, and after directly occupying it, Jane Ai refuses, but the aunt still turns to her son and stubbornly drives Jane Eyre to live with her daughter Gillian.
The house was a single room in the attic, and the room was simple and leaky, so whenever it rained, the sisters could always hear the sound of dripping water when lying in bed.
Day after day, I finally survived until I grew up.
02。
After adulthood, Gillian is still a look of only Ruoruo, she is different from Jane Ai, Jane Ai is stubborn and assertive, and has strong endurance, but Gillian has a good temper, and even some encouragement, and what her mother says is what it is.
After Ah Jiao became an adult, she was originally promised by her mother to the mentally handicapped son of a rich family in the countryside, but unfortunately the other party did not look at Ah Jiao, so she escaped the disaster.
In the end, Jane Ai was successfully tricked by her aunt into going to the countryside, promised to the family, sold some money, and prepared to pay off the debt to her son, but finally escaped for Jane Ai.
This incident became the fuse for Jane Eyre to break up with her aunt. In the evening, Jane Ai and her aunt quarreled when she returned home, and her aunt scolded her mother in front of Jane Ai, and Jane Ai hurt her aunt in a moment of anger, and then fled to Guangzhou overnight, where Jane Ai and Ah Jiao, who had accompanied her for more than ten years, were temporarily separated.
When she first arrived in Guangzhou, Jane Ai made a little progress by her own efforts, and when she finally had a place in a large company, Gillian came to Guangzhou to rely on her.
Originally, for Gillian, she was not eligible to enter a regular company, because she had no diploma, average ability, and no intelligence, but because of Jane Eyre, everything about Gillian became simpler and more.
03。
For a girl who grew up in a patriarchal family and was treated like a commodity by her mother, the first half of Her life was undoubtedly miserable.
The reason why her life can be turned upside down is entirely because she is in the right camp.
If she is still obedient and obedient to live by her mother's side, then there is a high probability that she will eventually be married to an ordinary man and live a life without love and happiness.
If it weren't for Jane Eyre, not because of her persuasion, perhaps Gillian would have chosen to confess her fate early, and would not have thought of struggling at all, and said no to her mother.
Gillian's personality is still weak, she is timid, cowardly, step-by-step, and ambitious Jane Eyre are completely two types. The ancients cloud "near Zhu is red, near ink is black" is a certain reason, when you are in contact with some capable, courageous people, over time you will also become impressive.
Similarly, if you're surrounded by impatient, bragging people, it won't be long before you become the kind of person who likes to talk big
In this life, it is very important to take sides. Stand right, life continues to improve, stand wrong, go downhill everywhere.
So if you are very ordinary, then you must learn to contact more with better people, because only with excellent people, your vision and pattern will go up, when your vision and pattern are higher, your way of looking at the problem will be different.
What changes our destiny is not birth, but your insight.
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About author:Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media. I have wine, do you have a story?