Women in the new era have long changed the image of their husbands and children at home, and have begun to pursue their careers and ideals. However, in the eyes of the world, it is often felt that if a woman does not marry and have children, her life is incomplete.
These worldly beings are particularly ridiculous in the body of Yan Ning, the goddess of Tsinghua, who can confidently be an unmarried family and announce to the world: "I am not married, and I do not owe anyone an explanation."
It's not that she hasn't been under pressure from the outside world, it's that she chooses to be the best version of herself.
Yan Ning was born in 1977 and is a native of Shandong. Yan Ning has had excellent academic performance since childhood, and her appearance is also outstanding, whether it is primary school or middle school, she is a school flower-level figure.
Yan Ning's parents were ordinary workers, did not provide her with good living conditions, and never overly required her to study hard in terms of study. But Yan Ning has always been very contentious and never let parents bother.
When it came to the college entrance examination, Yan Ning lived up to expectations and was admitted to the famous Tsinghua University, and her parents and relatives and friends were sincerely happy for her.
Yan Ning chose to study biological sciences and technology at Tsinghua University, which does not seem to be suitable for girls, but Yan Ning likes to delve into science.
Yan Ning, who studied at Tsinghua University, still exudes excellent light, not at all like coming out of a small rural area. Yan Ning cherishes her reading time in college and often soaks in the library.
Many girls around are busy in love, but Yan Ning does not care, thinking that it is easy to fall in love and make it impossible for her to concentrate on learning. Yan Ning has many suitors around her, but she has refused, and even becomes a brother with friends of the opposite sex.
Of course, Yan Ning is not completely dead to study, Yan Ning actively participates in school activities, and also becomes the president of the student union. She will also enrich herself in her spare time, cultivate her hobbies, she is very good at dancing the national standard dance, and she also likes to swim.
In the scientific research project, Yan Ning invested a lot of his energy, although it was very hard, Yan Ning enjoyed it. Whenever the experimental project has a little progress, Yan Ning will seize the opportunity to continue to overcome various problems.
Finally, Yan Ning has made a big breakthrough in the field of structural biology. After graduating from Tsinghua University in 2000, Yan Ning continued to pursue a doctorate in molecular biology at Princeton University in the United States.
Yan Ning has always felt that there is no end to learning, and he still needs to continue his further study. Later, she won a postdoctoral fellow at Princeton University, and after completing her studies, Yan Ning did not forget her motherland, and after returning to China, she served as a professor and doctoral supervisor at Tsinghua University.
Yan Ning's excellent academic qualifications can't help but be admired, and she is a well-deserved goddess of learning. Yan Ning relied on her own efforts and embarked on the road of success in life.
But even such an excellent goddess has her own troubles. Yan Ning has received a lot of flowers and applause academically, and while becoming famous, more and more people have begun to be curious about her private life.
As Yan Ning grew older, she was now forty-four years old, and she had no intention of finding a partner to marry, so it was inevitable that she would be urged to marry by many people.
Even her parents, who had always been free to educate her, joined the queue of marriage urging, wanting to hug her grandson early. Her parents have been advising her to find someone to marry and have a happy and stable family.
But Yan Ning felt that other people's marriage urging her was very annoying to her, and she was unwilling to tie her life to a stranger and spend her energy on maintaining the marriage.
Yan Ning has been urged to marry much more on various occasions, and said to the camera in a direct interview: "I am not married, and I do not owe anyone an explanation."
This sentence directly shows Yan Ning's domineering side leak as an independent strong woman. Yan Ning has always felt that her marriage is her own decision, and she does not owe anyone.
In her view, others have always been prejudiced against women, and they all feel that women must get married and have children in this life, and complete the task of getting married and having children. If you don't do this yourself, you are not filial piety in the eyes of others, not a normal woman.
Yan Ning, as a public figure, responded with such a domineering attitude, which immediately caused discussion in society. There are many people who oppose Yan Ning, but there are still many people who support Yan Ning.
Yan Ning used her own personal experience to redefine what a "successful woman" is. A successful woman is not how happy the family needs to be, but whether to live her own wonderful.
Yan Ning did not have the shackles of marriage and lived an equally wonderful life. In his work, Yan Ning immersed himself in research without any burden and achieved excellent scientific research results. In life, Yan Ning, like ordinary girls, goes shopping, eats and watches movies. Yan Ning's life was very full and wonderful.
For Yan Ning, marriage is the biggest burden. She needs to spend a lot of time maintaining a relationship between the sexes and also has to face various marital conflicts. If Yan Ning gets married, she is likely to be unable to open herself to the laboratory to do scientific research.
Yan Ning's personal speech in "Open Talk" showed the audience the wonderful life of unmarried women in the new era and won the applause of the audience. Successful women in the new era should not be labeled as wives, but should be their own exclusive life labels.
I believe that there are many older women who are as troubled by marriage as Yan Ning, facing the pressure of all aspects of society, and finally have no choice but to compromise, as if completing the task to get married and have children, but most of their lives are not happy.
Your own life is your own decision, as a woman, why should you care about the eyes of others. Women in the new era should be free to marry, choose a lifestyle that suits them, and never wronged themselves for others.
An unhappy marriage casts a shadow over one's entire life, and the ultimate victim is oneself.
Yan Ning, the goddess of Tsinghua Xueba, is already forty-four years old and has been single now. In the face of other people's urgings, she domineeringly said that she would not get married, and did not need to explain to anyone.
She has redefined successful women in the new era with her own successful life, and single women can live their own wonderful lives.