長期相處的兩個人，好事壞事都會遇到，挨不住反反複複的牢騷，頹喪的家庭氛圍，浸泡久了，散比和容易。一個家庭最可怕的，不是貧窮，而是窩裡橫。凡事挑剔，隻會寒了伴侶的心；彼此寬容體諒，日子才能和諧美滿。一個家庭之是以和睦幸福，是因為雙方都具備經營婚姻的智慧。婚姻不是競賽，需要兩個人同舟共濟，家庭不是戰場，不必分個你弱我強。凡事挑剔指責，日子隻會越過越衰敗，懂得感恩和體諒，生活才能蒸蒸日上。夫妻之間，若是隻有指責抱怨，沒有溫情體諒，感情自然毫無根基可言。Two people who have been together for a long time will encounter both good and bad things. They can't stand repeated complaints and a decadent family atmosphere. After soaking for a long time, it's easier to break up. The most terrible thing about a family is not poverty, but horizontal in the nest. Being picky about everything will only chill your partner's heart; Only when we are tolerant and considerate can we live in harmony and happiness. The reason why a family is harmonious and happy is that both sides have the wisdom to manage marriage. Marriage is not a competition. Two people need to work together in the same boat. Family is not a battlefield. There is no need to separate you from me. If you criticize everything, your life will only get worse and worse. If you know how to be grateful and considerate, your life can prosper. If there are only accusations and complaints between husband and wife, and there is no warmth and understanding, the relationship naturally has no foundation.
挨不住cannot endure any more
反反複複again and again;over and over again
牢騷complaint;grievance;discontent;complain
頹喪dejected;dispirited;listless;in the dumps
體諒show understanding and sympathy for;make allowance for
美滿happy;perfectly satisfactory
同舟共濟cross a river in the same boat -- to pull together in times of trouble;be in the same boat;sail on the same tack;share with sb. in trouble
衰敗decline;wane;be on the wane;fall into decay
溫情tender feelings;too softhearted
