"Daddy, Mom, Sister and Sister will always love you, always bless you, always support you"!
On July 15, Zhao Wenzhuo's wife, Zhang Danlu, posted on social platforms to celebrate her 10th birthday for her son Zhao Zilong.
In the photo, a family of five is happy and in the same frame, which is very happy and happy.
Looking at the layout of the birthday party scene, not only did the cartoon character balloons that the little birthday star liked were carefully selected, but even the cake was Zhao Zilong's favorite doll.
This shows the degree of Zhao Wenzhuo's love for his son.
However, many people do not know that in addition to the three children born to Zhang Danlu, Zhao Wenzhuo also has an illegitimate son.
Don't look at these years, he took extra care of these three children, almost holding them in the palm of his hand, but he has always ignored his illegitimate children.
In addition to financial contacts, Zhao Wenzhuo almost never participated in the childhood life of his children.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="21" >01, "Playboy" love history</h1>
The story has to start from the early love history of this "playboy".
As early as the end of 1993, a reporter took a photo of Chen Dongmei inviting Zhao Wenzhuo to his home for Chinese New Year's Eve meal.
It is reported that the two have previously had feelings for each other because of the filming of the movie "Green Snake".
But at that time, due to the fact that both sides' careers were on the rise, Zhao Wenzhuo came forward at the first time to deny this relationship, "just a friend".
Chen Dongmei is also an understanding person, she knows that Zhao Wenzhuo is self-motivated, in order not to affect its development, she directly proposed to break up.
In 1995, Zhao Wenzhuo was invited by Xu Ke to star in the movie "Jinyu Mantang", and at the same time met Zhang Guorong in the crew.
As we all know, Zhang Guorong is kind in heart and also likes to help newcomers.
At a cocktail party, everyone chatted happily, and only Zhao Wenzhuo stayed in the corner alone.
The attentive Zhang Guorong saw this scene, and immediately walked over to chat with him, and after a few simple words of communication, he learned that Zhao Wenzhuo was working alone in Hong Kong and did not have too many acquaintances.
So from that day on, Zhang Guorong took good care of Zhao Wenzhuo. Privately, he often took each other to play against each other, and also participated in activities with them, and when he met the photographer to take pictures, he also specially let Zhao Wenzhuo stand in the C position to increase his exposure.
Later, Zhang Guorong also introduced Zhao Wenzhuo to Mei Yanfang.
Mei Yanfang is particularly outgoing and very good at socializing, which is completely different from Zhao Wenzhuo's personality, and her appearance is like a bright sunshine, dispelling the haze in his heart.
However, Zhao Wenzhuo has not yet caught fire, and Mei Yanfang is already a superstar in the music world, and the disparity between the status of the two sides is too big.
Therefore, when the relationship between the two was exposed, many people in the outside world labeled the man as "little white face" and "eating soft rice".
When the reporter asked whether Zhao Wenzhuo had already lived with Mei Yanfang, Zhao Wenzhuo immediately made a face: "Who can prove it, stand up!" ”
He also said: "I don't know what kind of men are like in Hong Kong, but my hometown habit is that I will not sit on an equal footing with women, so that men's waist bones will be straight." ”
In addition to the criticism of others, the two people's completely different living habits have also become the fuse of the breakup.
Zhao Wenzhuo has been practicing martial arts for many years, and Mei Yanfang has a wide range of social contacts and often socializes.
Over time, the contradictions between the two people have emerged endlessly, and the more quarrelsome they have become, the more intense. In zhao wenzhuo's words, it is "Mars hitting the earth."
So in the middle of 1996, this love that was not good at first ended naturally.
Later, it was rumored that during the filming of "The New Biography of Huang Feihong", Zhao Wenzhuo had a relationship with Wu Qili.
The two often eat together, party together, and are photographed by the media in many intimate photos.
But from beginning to end, no matter how much rumors spread from the outside world, both sides denied the existence of this relationship.
Later, some people even called the two developed into a "brotherly love".
Until 2000, Zhao Wenzhuo went to Shanghai to play after filming "New Huo Yuanjia", and was introduced by a friend to meet a Shanghai girl Xiaolian.
The other's parents were intellectuals, and his mother worked in music-related industries.
Influenced by his mother, Xiao Lian grew up to become a well-known pianist.
The two met at the dinner table, only to see the first side, Zhao Wenzhuo was deeply attracted by the other party's temperament out of the mud and not stained, and it did not take long to clarify his intentions and indeed have a romantic relationship.
During the love period, when Zhao Wenzhuo was in a bad mood, Xiao Lian would write songs for him. Zhao Wenzhuo once said, "She knows my heart very well." ”
In August 2002, Xiao Lian, who was still studying in Canada, gave birth to a son for the other party. The child's name is Zhao Yuanda, and the English name is Joseph.
But unfortunately, the relationship between the two did not become more stable because of the birth of their son, but instead cracked during Xiaolian's childbirth.
In the end, the concubines were ruthless. More than two months after Xiao Lian gave birth to her son, the two sides parted ways.
After the two broke up, Zhao Wenzhuo did not spend a long time in the empty window period, and he met his current wife Zhang Danlu.
Both sides are both northeasterners, both have learned kung fu, have a lot of common languages, and soon after the relationship became acquainted, they both fell in love.
In 2006, the two officially entered the palace of marriage.
For the connection with Zhang Danlu, Zhao Wenzhuo also laughed and said: "I have played Fahai, she has played a white snake, I did not expect that Fahai married a white snake, and even friends often make fun of us!" ”
After marriage, Zhang Danlu gave birth to two daughters and a son for her husband, and in order to allow Zhao Wenzhuo to devote herself to work, Zhang Danlu also took the initiative to return to the family and became her personal assistant.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="190" >02, favored and Zhang Danlu's three children</h1>
If it is said that it is difficult to distinguish between right and wrong in emotional matters, Zhao Wenzhuo only met Zhang Danlu at the age when he most wanted to accept his heart, and he was still reasonable.
But the child, as the crystallization of love, is innocent after all.
Looking back, since Joseph was born, Zhao Wenzhuo has been busy filming and rarely visits his children.
According to a neighbor of Xiaolian, once he saw Zhao Wenzhuo and his son shopping in a nearby supermarket, Zhao Yuanda jumped and jumped happily, which showed how much the child missed his father.
After Xiao Lian and Zhao Wenzhuo were separated, the child and the mother were dependent on each other.
On the other hand, Zhao Wenzhuo, while busy with his career, was immersed in his love with Zhang Danlu.
In an interview with reporters, he said that he had transferred the house to Xiao Lian, and the two people would raise their children together.
It sounds like Zhao Wenzhuo understands that his responsibilities as a father are great and quite heartfelt.
In reality, he gave Joseph only financial support and almost never participated in his childhood.
Nowadays, children have grown up, and it is rare to hear the news of father and son meeting again.
Looking at everything Zhao Wenzhuo did for the other three children, it was a world of difference.
First, let's talk about his attitude towards his eldest daughter Zhao Ziyang.
Zhao Wenzhuo let his children learn calligraphy and painting from an early age. When her daughter grew up, she was sent to the Roth College, the first aristocratic school in Switzerland, with a tuition fee of up to four or five million a year.
Zhao Wenzhuo, who has been absent from Joseph's childhood, has spoiled zhang Danlu's young daughter into a little princess.
Looking at its social platforms, you can see the news about the little daughter everywhere.
Sending children to school.
The little daughter was injured and quickly put down her work and ran to take care of it.
Every festive season, I also immediately stop the work at hand and rush home to celebrate with my children.
As for his love for his son, it is also indescribable.
As soon as the child was born, he personally took care of it, changing diapers, feeding, and playing with him.
After that, he often accompanied his son to practice stretching in the morning.
Never miss your child's birthday.
"The little hero called the big man, zilong's performance was really great, and he had a special birthday after work."
The gift to his son is even more envious of others, and the market price is about 30,000 to 80,000 shots.
Although the son has not been sent abroad, he is also studying in an international school in China, and the annual tuition fee is as high as 220,000 yuan.
Even at the airport, Zhao Wenzhuo was worried that his son was too tired, and he carried his child all the way to board the plane.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="192" > conclusion</h1>
Some people say that Zhao Wenzhuo has helped his illegitimate son financially, and does not visit him much, perhaps just because he does not want to cause misunderstanding and affect the harmony of the current family.
Some netizens also said that he may have fulfilled his due responsibility as a father, but he is worried that the re-exposure of the illegitimate child will break the previous calm, and he is unwilling to give all this to outsiders in order to protect the child.
If it is true as the latter said, it is really good, but if it is not the case, I still hope that Zhao Wenzhuo can spend some time with Joseph appropriately.
Perhaps for the child, a little more care from the parents can heal the wounds in his heart.
Author: IE
Editor-in-charge: Zeria
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