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Yuan Quan
In December 2020, the film "Chinese Doctor" starring the famous actress Yuan Quan was successfully completed in Wuhan. This is another masterpiece created by the original team of "Captain China" for the 100th anniversary of the founding of the Party.
A few months ago, in September, Yuan Quan won the Best Supporting Actress Award at the Golden Rooster Award for Chinese film for starring as the purser "Bi Nan" in "Captain China".
As a result, Yuan Quan won the Best Supporting Actress Award of the "Golden Rooster Award" and "Hundred Flowers Award" of Chinese films a total of 4 times. Yuan Quan and the famous actor Xia Yu are a happy couple, Xia Yu's parents divorced in the early years, he grew up with his aunt. Although the in-laws have been divorced for many years, Yuan Quan still treats them as relatives...
Yuan Quan and Xia Yu's love is tortuous and bumpy, and it is divided into several degrees. The two fell in love when they were in school at Chinese opera and did not stabilize until 2007.
Xia Yu and Yuan Quan
In 2009, Yuan Quan made public his marriage to Xia Yu. Someone said to her: "Xia Yu grew up with divorced parents and grew up in a single-parent family, don't you worry that he has a character defect?" ”
Yuan Quan answered truthfully: "Many people have a prejudice against the children of single-parent families, which is unfair to them. The family is just a shell, and the formation and cultivation of character depends on itself. Many single-parent children are just as strong, sunny, and cheerful, such as summer rain. ”
In August of that year, Yuan Quan and Xia Yu held a simple wedding in Beijing.
Xia Yu's parents divorced when he was 3 years old, and he grew up with his aunt and uncle. His father, Xia Zhaochen, was a former railway soldier, and after retiring from the army, he was obsessed with calligraphy and painting, and wandered in China for many years before going to Japan to develop. After Xia Yu's mother divorced, she had a new life.
Xia Chaochen
Xia Yu's childhood and adolescence grew up in loneliness. Although his aunt and uncle were very kind to him, they could not replace the love of father and mother. For objective reasons, fathers and mothers rarely came to visit Xia Yu.
Over time, Xia Yu's relationship with her parents was very weak, and she regarded her aunt and uncle as her parents.
When determining who would attend the wedding, Xia Yu offered to let her aunt and uncle witness the marriage for herself, and did not intend to invite her parents to attend. Yuan Quan said: "I am afraid that this is not appropriate, your parents gave you life, this is the greatest kindness." They rarely went to see you back then, perhaps involuntarily. Your aunt and uncle want to please, and your parents want to please. ”
At the wedding, Xia Yu asked her parents, aunts and uncles to witness the marriage for her. In the tea ceremony, Xia Yu talked about her aunt's love for her aunt and uncle, and rarely mentioned her parents.
When Yuan Quan toasted tea, he not only smiled and thanked Xia Yu's aunt and uncle, but also gave his in-laws the highest respect. Perhaps the in-laws realized their debt to Xia Yu and tears welled up in their eyes.
In March 2010, Yuan Quan gave birth to his daughter "Xia Haha" in Beijing. First, the mother-in-law came from Qingdao to see Yuan Quan's mother and daughter and bought many gifts for her and her children. Perhaps from childhood strangers, Xia Yu rarely communicated with her mother, and she did not know what to say.
When her mother left, Xia Yu converted the gifts brought by her mother into money and then doubled her. Yuan Quan saw her mother-in-law in tears, and she had a special taste in her heart.
Mother and son in the world are very close, but the emotional state of Xia Yu and her mother makes Yuan Quan's heart ache.
Summer rain
Shortly after the mother-in-law left Beijing, the father-in-law rushed back to Beijing from Japan to visit Yuan Quan and his granddaughter. Xia Chaochen gave his granddaughter a bracelet, but Xia Yu resolutely refused to accept it. Yuan Quan was worried that his father-in-law was upset and put away the bracelet for his daughter.
During the days when her father-in-law was in Beijing, Yuan Quan left him at home every day to eat, and when the nanny cooked, Yuan Quan gave her a hand. Xia Yu accompanied his father to drink, and the father and son were relatively speechless.
Xia Yu was slightly drunk several times, and then his eyes were full of tears. Yuan Quan knew that Xia Yu had heart knots, and these heart knots had accumulated for many years and could not be solved.
After that, during the Spring Festival, Xia Yu proposed to visit his parents-in-law in Jingzhou, Hubei Province, and then to Qingdao to visit his aunt and uncle. Yuan Quan said: "This is not appropriate, you are a son, according to the traditional Chinese custom, you should first visit your parents." ”
Yuan Quan and Summer Rain
Because his father was in Japan, Xia Yu was inconvenient to go over, so he returned to Qingdao to visit his mother. Yuan Quan took her daughter to accompany her husband. Xia Yu only ate one meal at her mother's house, sometimes not even eating, and had to rush to her aunt's uncle's house.
Yuan Quan saw the loss in her mother-in-law's eyes and knew that she also had pain in her heart.
On the way to her aunt's house, Xia Yu wept while driving. He told his wife darkly: "When I was a child, I lived in my aunt's house, and I envied other children having parents. At that time, I often stood in the doorway, waiting for my parents to come to see me. But waiting day by day, I can't wait for their figures. ”
Speaking of sadness, Xia Yu parked the car on the side of the road, buried his face on the steering wheel and wept.
Youth summer rain
From her husband's narration, Yuan Quan can understand the loneliness and helplessness of Xia Yu when she was a child, and how much he longs for fatherly love and maternal love.
She explained to her husband: "People cannot choose their origins and parents, and what kind of suffering and pain God gives you, in retrospect, it is all wealth." It is precisely because you lack fatherly love and maternal love since you were a child that you can become so strong and independent, and you can cherish the happy family you have now. ”
Under the enlightenment of his wife, Xia Yu felt much better in his heart.
Yuan Quan is kind and wise, and she informs her mother-in-law of her husband's heart knot, and the mother-in-law tearfully says that she is sorry for her son and feels guilty for her estrangement from Xia Yu in the first place.
Yuan Quan told his mother-in-law: "Blood is thicker than water." There is no obstacle between mother and child. After that, the mother-in-law often came to Beijing to visit her son's family.
Yuan Quan created all the conditions for Xia Yu to have more contact with his mother. She asked Xia Yu to accompany her mother to the bazaar to buy vegetables. When she went out, she asked Xia Yu to take care of her daughter with her mother...
As they got along more, Xia Yu's heart knot dissolved little by little.
In 2012, Xia Chaochen came to Beijing to participate in the calligraphy and painting exhibition, and stopped by to visit his son's family. He proposed to his son and daughter-in-law: "Dad is now old, he misses your family more and more, the leaves have fallen back to their roots, and I want to return to Beijing to settle down." ”
Xia Yu did not express his attitude, and Yuan Quan replied for her husband: "Well, so that haha can often see Grandpa." ”
After his father returned to Japan, Xia Yu no longer mentioned this matter. Yuan Quan said to her husband: "Your father does not love you, only because of the excessive pursuit of career, coupled with the conditions are not allowed, this situation has been created." I have always believed that there are no parents in the world who do not love their sons. ”
Yuan Quan insisted on showing her father-in-law a house with her husband, and she also discussed with her father-in-law on the phone many times about returning to Beijing to settle down.
In 2013, Yuan Quan and her husband bought a small two-bedroom apartment in Beijing, and then rushed to Tokyo, Japan, to take Xia Chaochen back to Beijing.
Under the lubrication of Yuan Quan, the estrangement between Xia Yu and his father and mother completely dissipated, and the love between mother and son and father and son returned to the normal track. Yuan Quan and her husband often take their daughters to visit their father-in-law and mother-in-law. Although they divorced, Yuan Quan still regarded them as relatives.
Summer Rain with Father
When it comes to the New Year's Festival, or if there is any happy event in the family, Yuan Quan will arrange for the in-laws to stagger the time at home, so as not to be embarrassed that they meet.
Sometimes the in-laws meet occasionally at home, they greet each other politely and friendly, and sit down to chat a few words. Time has taken away all the grievances, and the common son and daughter-in-law and granddaughter are their bonds, and this family affection has remained in each other's hearts for a long time.
This scene made Yuan Quan sigh and also made Xia Yu cry.
Yuan Quan said to her husband: "Seeing the situation of your father and your mother, I am more aware of how important the integrity of the family and the integrity of marriage is to the children, and I will cherish the family even more." ”
Xia Yu shook his wife's hand: "Thank you for helping me untie the knot, from now on I will put everything down in the past and strive to be a good husband, a good father, and a good son." ”
In the view of "Old Entertainment": Now many daughters-in-law not only do not interact with their in-laws, but also prevent their husbands from filial piety to their parents. Yuan Quan is kind and generous, actively helping her husband to dissolve his heart knots and harmonize his feelings with his parents. This filial piety, this love, how precious, how warm and touching!
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