If one day, you find that the person you love very much has cheated on you emotionally, and all the promises you once made have become empty talk, will you still insist on loving?
I think most people must be mindful and even ready to break up, but when it comes to actual action, it may not be easy.
No matter how rational people are, they will become very emotional in the face of emotional problems, thinking that they can properly handle everything, but when they really face it, they will still be cowardly and escape. There are really very few people who can be truly sober and rational.
Recently, a TV series starring Liu Tao was very popular, "The Sea of Stars", and I was attracted by the title because of that very hot song. However, after chasing a few episodes, I feel that the emotional line inside is quite realistic.
Some people's emotional outlook will always be affected by the original family. This sentence, in this drama, is once again vividly reflected.
For example, Jian Ai and Fang Hengzhi, who clearly loved each other before, there were obvious differences in the two people's views on love, because their original family and growth environment were completely different.
Although the fate is very unfortunate, Fang Hengzhi is out, not welcomed by the family, and follows his mother's surname. Jane Eyre lost her parents and sent people to the fence, in a way, they are all lonely, but their views on love are different.
Therefore, when Jane Ai learned that Fang Hengzhi had a fiancée, she chose to quit, but Fang Hengzhi thought that Juliet was only the nominal fiancée, and he and Jane Ai really loved each other, even if they had a marriage relationship with Juliet, it would not have any impact on his relationship with Jane Eyre.
This kind of thinking is not immune to the influence of his original family, his mother is a little wife, so in his concept, a man has a wife at the same time does not affect him in his heart can be a lover, and even have a lover around him.
But Jane Ai is different, although she has a low status, but there is a stubbornness in her bones, even if she really likes Fang Hengzhi, she is very clear that if she continues to be with him, she will be a third party, so she chooses to break up with Fang Hengzhi.
Many people were touched by the words that Jane Ai said to Fang Hengzhi when she broke up, which can be called sober in the world. Simply and neatly not to say, and not humble, very sassy feeling.
So when I saw that part, everyone was shouting that a girl like Jane Ai was not worthy at all.
While choosing to get engaged to Juliet for the sake of his family and career, he refused to give up Jane Eyre and wanted Jane Eyre to continue to accompany him, but Jane Eyre was very rational, and the breakup really did not drag the mud and water.
Her words: You're engaged, how are we still together.
Perhaps in Fang Hengzhi's view, what Jane Ai needs is fame, but he can't give anything but a name. But Jane Ai said this not for fame, but for dignity.
True feelings are not allowed to be trampled upon. From Fang Hengzhi to Lin Hengzhi, from boyfriend and girlfriend who talk about marriage to a third party, they are people of two worlds, and even love cannot bring them to a waterline.
Do people choose whether they love or those who love them to spend their lives together? From Jane Eyre, there may be a different answer. Maybe not, in addition to love, there are actually many things worth pursuing in life.
I especially like the character in Jane Eyre's bones who is particularly clear about feelings. Love or not, she will give a clear attitude, such as to a ming.
Jane Ai's birthday Li Yiming remembered that as soon as Jane Ai returned to the hotel, the hall sounded a birthday song accompaniment. YiMing holding flowers, accompanied by a violin in the back, the waiter pushed the birthday cake with a cart, and the style came to Jane Eyre.
Romantic birthday party, Jane Ai was touched, but still refused a ming.
Why doesn't Jane Eyre accept a tweet? In the eyes of most people, they are classmates, know the roots, so know that if they accept the love of Yiming, Jane Ai will live a good little life.
But she still refused Yiming. Because she divides friendship and love very clearly.
Fang Hengzhi likes Jane Eyre, saying that Jane Eyre is like a small sun warming him, which is a very appropriate description, and Jane Eyre is indeed the light in his heart.
Fang Hengzhi is from Shu, his surname is his mother's surname, and if he wants the Lin family to recognize, he must make some achievements.
However, when Fang Hengzhi was driven out by Lin Shi Enterprise and was not recognized by the Lin Shi family, he was pessimistic and disappointed, and felt that he did not have the day of the beginning, at that time, Jane Ai did not abandon him, and also encouraged him.
From this point of view, Jane Ai can know herself more clearly than Fang Hengzhi. She also lived an not easy life, losing her parents, sending people to the fence, but Jane Ai, who was tempered by life, never gave up on herself, she relied on herself step by step to get to the position of business director, she did not need pity.
It is the pride in her bones that makes her loyal to her heart in the choice of feelings. She chooses what she loves, and she doesn't need to love her. However, when her beloved Fang Hengzhi failed her, she could also think bitterly and cut through the mess quickly.
Many girls are mostly confused when they encounter this kind of relationship that is still messy, but a smart girl like Jane Eyre is often affected by various aspects in her growth process, many of which are often negative, but she persevered, did not give up and did not fall, but came out of her current form.
Breaking up will be very painful, but if you continue, the result is not what you want, anyway, sooner or later you have to divide, then why get a fishy body!