Socrates once said, "Everyone has the sun in him, just let it shine." ”
Every child has dreams and talents, which is the biggest treasure in them, and the attitude of parents determines whether these treasures can be discovered and whether they can become a light that illuminates the future of children.
Picasso is the main representative of Western modernist painting and one of the most influential painters in the Western school of fine arts in the 20th century. He expanded the field of visual arts and is known as the founder of the Western Cubist school.
He was influenced by his father when he was young and began painting at the age of 8. In the life that followed, Picasso never stopped pursuing the pace of art, and his painting styles were diverse, leaving a large number of works. These include more than 1,800 oil paintings, more than 70,000 drawings, and many prints, sculptures, ceramics and other works. His works "Guernica", "Peace Dove" and "Avignon Girl" are world-renowned and have become heirlooms. His work has greatly influenced modern Western art and has been hailed as "a rare genius in the history of human art".
In 1881, in the city of Malaga in the southern port of Spain, a little boy fell to the ground, and he was Picasso.
Picasso's papal church, José is a school art teacher and curator of the Municipal Museum. Picasso Jr. showed a talent for painting from an early age, and the first sound he learned was "north" (the Spanish word for "north" means "pencil"), and he shouted loudly: "North, north." Dad brought little Picasso a pen and paper, and little Picasso drew intently on the paper. The parents saw the situation and decided to teach little Picasso to draw.
Papa Don Jose had a small studio in the museum, and whenever Papa painted, little Picasso would stay quietly by his side. Sometimes little Picasso would climb up on a high chair and watch his father paint in amazement, all of which made Picasso have a strong interest in painting.
When he was in elementary school, little Picasso sitting by the window was always unconsciously attracted by the scenery outside the classroom: birds flying in the sky, butterflies flying on flowers, a group of ducks swimming in the river in the distance, passers-by walking on country roads, all of which fascinated little Picasso, and his hands drew back and forth unconsciously in the notebook. After a while, he actually painted the scenery outside the window into the book. Little Picasso looked at the "works" on his book, and a sense of accomplishment arose from the bottom of his heart, and he couldn't help but smile happily.
The teacher found this problem. He saw that little Picasso was always wandering outside the house when he was in class, and he was always struggling to answer questions. So the teacher changed him to the middle of the classroom, and little Picasso could only wave goodbye to the scenery outside the window. Despite this, he still could not concentrate on the lecture, all kinds of strange pictures always came to mind, he kept drawing in the notebook, and his academic performance was always in the bottom few of the class.
Like other children, Picasso was playful by nature, especially hating boring math lessons, so his math scores were very bad, and he was ridiculed by his classmates as a "little idiot". He was often "confined" to schools, and teachers more than once responded to Picasso's father about Picasso's "bad" situation at school.
In the face of ridicule and contempt from society, José will never take advantage of the waves, not only from the feeling of licking, but because he thinks that only he really knows and appreciates the child. If a child is evaluated from a secular perspective, then the parents are easily at the mercy of the customs and lack the common discovery and knowledge of the child.
Jose insisted on his own opinion: Picasso could not read, but he was extremely talented in painting. When little Picasso became bored with school, Don José began to send his son to school every day, and when he arrived at the classroom, he put the paintbrush and pigeon specimen he brought on the desk and let the children copy it.
Don Jose thought: Since his son doesn't like grammar, math, and other subjects, let him do what he likes. He sent little Picasso to the best art school and served as his son's art teacher in his spare time. In this way, the younger Picasso received a systematic education in painting.
At the age of 12, Picasso's work was published in a journal and became a blockbuster ever since.
The up-and-coming Picasso aspired to learn and create in a wider world. With the support of his father, Picasso left home for the first time to study at the most famous art school in the country, the San Fernando Academy of Fine Arts in Madrid.
In 1900, Picasso came to Paris, the art center of Western Europe. Later, he settled in Paris and became the main representative of the French modern school of painting. His works are not limited to painting, but also have a large number of prints, engravings, pottery, etc. Until his death at the age of 92, he never stopped creating art.
Everyone has a childhood, and what happens in childhood can even affect a person's whole life. In the critical period of growth, the guidance of parents may make a wizard, or it may kill a myth.
After discovering his child's artistic talent, Picasso's father actively cultivated the interest of the younger Picasso in painting. Under the guidance of his father, little Picasso fully understood and loved art creation. Picasso's father correctly cultivated and guided the child's interests, laying a good foundation for the child's future success.
It can be said that Picasso's success is inseparable from the careful cultivation of the father, although not every family can provide a artistic environment like Picasso for the child, but every parent can be like Picasso's father, to truly understand the child's heart, let the child develop freely, and show his strengths.
As a teacher, you should not deny the child, only use the grade to measure everything of the child, the teacher should find the shining point of each child, correct guidance, so that the child's body and mind can be healthy development.
Being good at discovering children's interests and reasonably guiding the development direction of interests and hobbies has an extremely important impact on children's growth and talent. Children often show extraordinary curiosity about something in life, parents should carefully observe the child, timely discover the child's interest, and consciously cultivate it.
After the double reduction, more time and energy can be used to cultivate children's interests, we need to make children better, we also need to make them happier, enjoy the happiness that this hobby brings to themselves.
Every child is a genius, but if you judge the talent of a fish by its ability to climb trees, the whole fish will be stupid. As a parent, please put down the mobile phone in your hand, pay more attention to your child's advantages in life, and carefully observe your child's interests and strengths.
This reminds me of a scene in "Family with Children" starring Song Dandan.
His son Liu Xing said to Liu Mei, "Mom, why didn't you send me to learn a specialty in the first place?" ”
Liu Mei said, "When I first sent you to learn piano, Go, or something, you didn't want to."
Liu Xing said, "What did I know when I was so young?" You should force me! ”
Liu Huan talked about this matter in an interview, and also showed a look of regret, saying that he regretted that he did not force his daughter.
The road to success is more difficult, and children's hobbies are sometimes three minutes of heat, and it is difficult to persevere. Therefore, in the process of children's development of interests, it is often inseparable from the encouragement and persistence of parents.
When a child is immersed in his own interests, his talent can play more than 80%, if the child is not interested in a thing, then his talent can only be 20%. Therefore, parents should be good at discovering their children's strengths, guiding them in time, and encouraging their children to develop their own interests and hobbies.
There is a classic line in "Galaxy Tuition Class" that runs through the whole process:
Life is like archery, dreams are like arrow targets, even arrow targets can not find where, what is the use of you pulling a bow every day.
However, in real life, many parents do not know how to respect their children's interests and talents, but blindly force their children to achieve good results.
Once the hobby sprouts and the child shows interest, it is necessary to water and fertilize in time, that is, to give financial support and let the child develop. Parents should cherish, not ignore or even fight. Everyone should have their own hobbies and interests in order to resist the chicken feathers of ordinary and trivial life. It can also be because of hobbies, people with similar magnetic fields, the ancients have clouds, people have no habits can not be with them. A person with hobbies and interests can better have a positive and optimistic attitude.
In this era of fragmented knowledge, it is not easy to find an interest to persist for a lifetime.
Yet the world will always be rich and wonderful enough for us to indulge in.
Just don't let this joy of exploring the unknown be held hostage by rewards and rewards.
After all, the happy and healthy growth of children is the most important.
Even if the talent is mediocre, as long as you can be kind and upright, rational and self-disciplined, and maintain a positive optimism full of curiosity about the world, you will always find your own spiritual world in the future and become an interesting and talented person.