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As we all know, learning is a very hard thing, and it is impossible to succeed without hard work. However, due to the child's playful nature, often when it comes to learning, they want to be lazy or spend less time, which makes jackie chan's parents very anxious.
In this case, the parents who usually have a warm pulse will become a different look, and some even force their children to learn.
When her daughter was three years old, Meiyang bought her a piano. After studying for more than half a year, my daughter felt very bored, gradually lost interest, and hoped to reduce the time of practice.
Sometimes Meiyang does not agree, and her daughter will bargain, and there is a great momentum of not giving up until she reaches her goal.
Unable to convince her daughter, she took her children to watch a BBC documentary dedicated to the story of pianist Benjamin Grosvenor Grosvenor.
The film details his growth from a gifted child, through diligent learning and exercise, and finally to a world-famous performer. After watching the film, my daughter seemed to be touched.
In real life, many parents are like Meiyang, hoping that they will try to learn more knowledge, so they are well-intentioned about their children's learning, and sometimes even appear to be too strict.
In fact, it is not that parents are too cruel, but that they know that talent alone is not enough, but also requires the diligence of the day after tomorrow.
So, what is the relationship between talent and hard work?
Talent is an innate ability with a certain degree of contingency.
Children have a certain talent, although this is a fortunate thing, but there is talent, but if you no longer work hard, after the talent is exhausted, in the end will be obscure or even achieve nothing.
The ancient genius teenager Zhongyong from the export of chapters, to the end of the "obscured by everyone", is the most true portrayal of it.
Take the pianist Benjamin Grosvenor, for example, a young genius who won the Best Prize in Mathematics at the age of 10 in the British Ordinary Secondary School; at the age of 11, he participated in the Young Musicians Competition organized by the BBC and reached the final; at the age of 14 he obtained a diploma of the British Senior Level Examination; at the age of 18, he became the youngest soloist ever performed at the British Civilian Music Festival; at the age of 19, he was famous for his exquisite skills at the World Classical Music Festival, which not only made the audience conquer, Even professional music critics rave about it.
They believe that Benjamin Grosvenor's grasp of the style, fingering and performance of the music is quite good, which makes people deeply fascinated. Since then, he has become a world-famous new generation of piano masters.
Behind Benjamin Grosvenor's success, however, is the fact that he practices for up to 5-6 hours a day, sometimes longer.
In this way, day after day, year after year of hard training, the ordinary and lonely action into an incomparably pleasant enjoyment, and as a lifelong career, this has achieved a brilliant life.
Some people say that one minute on stage, ten years offstage.
Coincidentally, the world-famous pianists Rubenstein and Ashken nazis are the same, even after they became famous, they spend a lot of time practicing every day, which makes people sincerely admire.
Therefore, success is 1% talent, plus 99% diligence, and no one can succeed casually.
What efforts do you need to make a child to become a good pianist?
Learning piano is more special, it is different from ordinary things, it needs to have a certain talent, and there are very deep hobbies, interests and basic qualities in the heart, which is the basis and motivation for learning.
Otherwise, not only will it be difficult to stick to it, but it may even be abandoned halfway.
The piano has its own particularity, requiring children to start learning from an early age, which is very beneficial to quickly master the basic skills and enhance the fingering practice, as well as to cultivate the habit of learning and improve their driving ability.
The well-known pianist Lang Lang began to learn from the age of 2, Joanna was just 3 years old when she studied, although Benjamin Grosvenor started late and began to touch the piano at the age of 6, but he was very interested and soon caught up.
Every day, you need to constantly repeat and persist, and endure boring and tedious training life in order to gradually improve your level and thus have profound playing skills.
Through the understanding of music, show the appeal of art, express their love for life, so that they will be recognized by the audience.
The most important thing to learn piano is persistence, and people who have not learned it often do not know the hardships involved.
Even very hard work doesn't necessarily lead to success, and many people retreat because they can't overcome this year-after-year training. Therefore, once you study, you must persevere unremittingly.
In fact, in addition to learning the piano, it is to do ordinary and ordinary things, and it is also inseparable from their own diligence.
When talent and hard work are combined, you will achieve more results with less effort and it is easier to succeed.
Therefore, when the child is unwilling to learn, it is advisable to let him watch more of these similar documentaries, so that he does not have to force him to learn, and may be able to get useful inspiration from it and illuminate the way forward for him.