Author: Uncle Nanshan
Original emotional works, plagiarism must be investigated
01. Preface:
The writer Tang Zhifeng once said:
Behind the arrogance of one person in marriage, it must be the dignity of another person who is constantly humbled without dignity.
Yes, as a couple, mutual respect and equality are very important. If a couple looks down on each other. When communicating with each other, one party will even attack the other party with sneers and even sarcasm. Then, such a marriage will slowly enter a cooling period. In the end, one party will inevitably make the married life dull and tasteless in the way of "having something to say", and some marriages will even enter the end of survival in name only, or even parting ways. If that's the case, it's really a kind of sadness of marriage. Ma Xiaoli and Chen Dachao's marriage is because one party is indifferent to the other party, and it is a pity that the good marriage has fallen into a state of collapse.
02. A woman marries a man, and a husband sings a woman with a sweet taste.
When Ma Xiaoli was 24 years old, she met Chen Dachao, who worked at the same company. At that time, Chen Dachao was the head of the company's sales department, and Ma Xiaoli was the company's financial and accounting staff. Because of the working relationship, the two often have contact. Slowly, Chen Dachao fell in love with the industrious and capable Ma Xiaoli, and Ma Xiaoli also had a good feeling for Chen Dachao, who could speak eloquently. As the contact deepened, the two people established a relationship. After a year and a half of dating, both people have met each other's parents, and both parents are very satisfied. Therefore, they entered the palace of marriage and lived a small life of husband and wife, and the couple was very happy and sweet.
03. The mother-in-law has been ill for five years, and the woman has done her filial piety without complaint.
After a year of marriage, the couple had a little girl. The mother-in-law liked it, so she came to Ma Xiaoli's home to help take care of the children. As the child grew up, Ma Xiaoli thought that she would become more and more relaxed in the future. Unexpectedly, when the child went to elementary school, the mother-in-law fell ill. She was bedridden and needed help from adults to get into a wheelchair. In this way, Ma Xiaoli is bitter. Because her husband Chen Dachao is very busy at work and often travels for business, the burden of taking care of her mother-in-law falls on Ma Xiaoli's shoulders. But Ma Xiaoli is a very industrious woman, she comes from the countryside, and the simplicity and industriousness of the countryside have long been melted into Ma Xiaoli's body like blood. "Mother-in-law is also a mother", since then, every day early to get up and return early, Ma Xiaoli has done filial piety for her husband for five years, without a little complaint. When the mother-in-law was dying, she said a word: "Xiaoli, you are like my daughter-in-law." It is this sentence that makes Ma Xiaoli more determined to pay for the family without complaint.
04. The woman's father is sick, and the woman returns to her mother's house every month.
Less than two years after her mother-in-law was gone, Ma Xiaoli's father was also ill. Ma Xiaoli's mother left early, leaving Ma Xiaoli's old father to live alone at home. Once, Ma Xiaoli wanted to discuss with her husband and let her old father come to live in the city, but when the words came to her mouth, she put it down again. She pondered, first, her father may not come, and second, she estimated that Chen Dachao was not willing to let his father come to live. Because after the illness, Ma Xiaoli's father could no longer do heavy work, so every month Ma Xiaoli had to spend two days to return to her hometown in the countryside to help her father work. Every time she came back, she refused to let her husband touch him, which made her husband Chen Dachao feel very annoyed.
05. Husband and wife quarrel to divorce, women angrily accuse men of immorality.
During the National Day, Ma Xiaoli returned to her mother's house. She stayed at home for three days, helping her father chop wood and buy rice, and arranged the house properly, before she returned to her home in the city exhausted. As soon as she got home, she found her husband Chen Dachao staring at her angrily. Ma Xiaoli had some nest fire, so she went to the bathroom to take a shower. When she came out of the shower, Chen Dachao began to scold her: "Ma Xiaoli, why do you have to go back to your mother's house every month?" Your mother is gone, what are you doing back to your mother's house? Do you have a first love in your hometown? No wonder you don't let me touch you every time you come home! When Ma Xiaoli heard this, she was immediately furious, and the grievances of many years suddenly broke out: "Good you Chen Dachao, your mother has been ill for five years, I have done filial piety for you in obscurity for five years, and you have not thanked me for a word." Now that my father has been ill for three years, I don't dare let you go home and help him. However, he was sick for three years and never saw you appear once. You, the son-in-law, are also too desperate. Every time I come back, I'm so tired that I'm dying, what bed do I have? You also framed me. Or let's get a divorce! After listening to Ma Xiaoli's words, Chen Dachao went down.
06. Conclusion:
Friends, husband and wife, is a kind of fate. When two people are together, they must know how to understand each other and accommodate each other. If one person's hard work is not understood and appreciated by another person, then such a payment is actually very helpless and meaningless. After being disappointed again and again by the injured party, his heart will completely fall into a cold state, and filing for divorce is also a manifestation of despair. Therefore, the essence of marriage is the joint efforts of husband and wife, hand in hand, rather than one party on top, let alone a kind of sarcasm and calculation. Otherwise, such a marriage will inevitably fall into a situation of parting ways. Friends, you say, is that right? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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