In 2012, Pan Yueming, who experienced the "marriage change" storm and was splashed with dirty water, finally re-entered the mainstream stage step by step after several years of dormancy.
The right and wrong between Pan Yueming and his ex-wife Dong Jie, today, the outside world has already had a clearer ability to defend.
But with the passage of time, has Pan Yueming, who has flowed through this "muddy water", completely cleared the clouds and seen the fog? Did he really wait for the day when the clouds would open and see the moon?
One
Born in Beijing in 1974, Pan Yueming grew up in an old Beijing hutong in the Dashilar area of Xicheng District.
My father was in charge of administrative work in the public security department, and my mother was an employee of a foreign company, both honest and ordinary people.
Therefore, Pan Yueming, like many children in the compound, spent a boring but happy childhood.
Since school, Pan Yueming has grown into a typical "other people's" child.
Under the influence of his parents, he learned calligraphy and painting from an early age and won several awards in competitions.
After being escorted to a key middle school, he also served as the host of the Beijing Television children's program "Seven Colors of Light".
However, Pan Yueming's personality is a bit "twisted", when he was a child, he was fine, and when he was in high school, his "wings" hardened.
He got into the bad habit of smoking and drinking, and his parents gave him three hundred living expenses every month, and the first ten days were spent, and the remaining twenty days were simply rubbed everywhere.
Sometimes, Pan Yueming goes to the school's cinema to hang out, not to watch a movie, he thinks about meeting acquaintances, and after watching the movie, he is hungry, and it is logical to rub the plate and fry the cake.
In the summer of his sophomore year of high school, 18-year-old Pan Yueming, with the idea of improving his introverted personality, participated in a summer acting class held by Beijing Children's Arts.
Here, he got a role in the dragon set running in the movie "Fang Shiyu" starring Jet Li.
After that, Pan Yueming successfully played Sun Xiu, the son of Sun Quan, in the 94 version of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".
At that time, for Pan Yueming, he only regarded this acting experience as a "small episode" on the road of life, but what he did not expect was that it did become an opportunity for him to engage in art.
Two
On July 7, 1994, Pan Yueming, who had just passed his 20th birthday, ushered in the day of the national college entrance examination.
That morning, Pan's mother, who was worried about Pan Yueming's late arrival, woke up her son early before going to work and told him to go to the exam at eight o'clock.
Originally it was just a kind reminder of being a mother, but Pan Yueming felt very impatient.
In the end, Pan Yueming, who broke out of "getting up", simply continued to sleep with his head covered, missing the college entrance examination perfectly.
The old couple's rebellion against their son had long been accustomed to it, and when they returned home, they did not count Pan Yueming, but only said to him, "Good for yourself."
Pan Yueming is also quite "angry", and as soon as his parents finished speaking, he rode out on his bicycle to find his friends.
However, after a long time of mixing, Pan Yueming found that it was not a matter of not having money in his hands.
Especially when you see the big money of female classmates of the same age, the company alone has parked nine cars, usually there is nothing to change the car, and you can open the open canopy to go out in the winter!
Pan Yueming was stimulated, and he sat on the edge of the road and wondered, "What am I doing?" I can go to college, how can I become a talent without going to college? Only when they become talents can they be like them, and there are so many cars that they can't drive. ”
In 1995, the 21-year-old Pan Yueming applied for both the Beijing Film Academy and the Central Academy of Drama.
Although his father had long said that he would not care about him, on the day of the exam, Pan's father still braved the heavy rain to go to Xiangshan to burn incense and bless his son's golden list title.
Pan's father's blessing seemed to have worked, and after that, Pan Yueming got the third round of interview notice from two colleges at the same time.
However, fate seems to be teasing Pan Yueming.
First of all, the time of the interview that year happened to bump into the same day, under the entanglement, Pan Yueming chose Nortel, and as a result, because the results of the cultural class were not enough, the final application failed.
Pan Yueming, who did not accept defeat, re-studied for another year, this time he chose Chinese opera, but when it came to the interview stage, the teacher of Chinese opera told him that last year the college had decided to break the admission, but Pan Yueming did not go, and he automatically lost the qualification for re-admission.
Falling off the list twice in a row is not a small blow to Pan Yueming.
In a fit of anger, Pan Yueming simply ran to work and successively did the work of field notes, drama affairs, advertising company salesmen and so on.
But I didn't expect that these experiences had changed Pan Yueming's thinking a lot, and he no longer regarded being an actor as his dream, but wanted to learn behind-the-scenes production.
Subsequently, Pan Yueming was admitted to the Film and Television Production Major of the Art Department of Beijing Normal University with excellent results.
Three
After going to college, Pan Yueming thought that life would dawn, but this became the saddest time in his life.
At that time, Pan Yueming was a bit high-minded, but also very poor; his temperament was depressed, and his rebellious mood was becoming more and more serious.
According to himself, he had a girlfriend at that time, and as a result, he couldn't afford to buy a piece of chocolate on Valentine's Day.
Such days lasted for four full years.
In 1999, after graduating from the 25-year-old Pan Yueming, he began to run on the set to find opportunities, because there was no TV station to ask him, and the mixed crew did nothing all day, and at that time, he fell into a wandering mood again.
But perhaps by heaven, in a very fortuitous chance, Pan Yueming met director Lu Xuechang, and as a starring actor, he shot the first film in his life in the true sense - "Very Summer".
A few years later, Pan Yueming said, "This is a drama that affected my life's destiny." ”
Because, this film not only made Pan Yueming win the "Best Newcomer Award of the 7th University Student Film Festival", after that, he was even more lucky.
Pan Yueming has been discovered by some famous directors such as Huo Jianqi, and has participated in some important roles in films such as "Blue Love", "Can't Help But Love", "Life Show" and won a series of awards including the University Student Film Festival and the Huabiao Award, which has been affirmed and recognized by people inside and outside the industry.
In 2005, "Jinghua Smoke and Clouds" premiered on CCTV, and the highest rating of a single episode of the series reached 12.92%, surpassing the most popular Korean drama "Dachangjin" that year.
And "Zeng Sunya", played by Pan Yueming, although he was scolded inside and outside the play, he also really felt the taste of a hit and became popular because of this drama.
However, Pan Yueming did not expect that when his career had just entered its peak, he met a woman who would affect him for a lifetime.
Four
In the second half of 2005, the 31-year-old Pan Yueming entered the group to shoot the TV series "Red Dress", and the actor with him was Dong Jie, who had just fallen into the rumor of being "hidden in the snow" of Zedong Film and Television.
In the face of this actress who is 6 years younger than herself, Pan Yueming has a different kind of affection for the first time.
Including later, when Pan Yueming recalled when he first met Dong Jie, he said, "Everything in her eyes is beautiful, everything she sees is beautiful, and there is no bad person in her eyes." ”
Before the scene was finished, the two people came together.
At that time, Pan Yueming and Dong Jie were also really in love, and the sweetness was also there.
Including when the two were in love, the text message was once full of several mobile phones and was reluctant to delete, after filming, the two copied the text message by hand to save, Pan Yueming once said painfully, "Her hands are copied numb." ”
Pan Yueming likes to paint, and when she met Dong Jie, she specially painted "love" for her.
Including when he was away from Dong Jie later, he would often paint for Dong Jie, basically every painting would have a love heart for Dong Jie, and sometimes even when painting clouds in the sky, he had to paint the appearance of two love hearts.
On the mobile phone alone, Pan Yueming painted more than a hundred love paintings by hand.
And this is also the embodiment of his love for Dong Jie, but also the pain of Pan Yueming's thoughts when the two are different.
Moreover, between Pan Yueming and Dong Jie, there is a two-way love.
In 2008, Pan Yueming began to prepare for the wedding because of Dong Jie's pregnancy, and originally planned to complete the wedding in early September, but happened to be temporarily invited by director Ye Daying to star in the movie "Tiananmen".
At that time, Pan Yueming was hesitating whether to pick up, who knew that after Dong Jie learned the news, he called him at the first time to let him relax and enter the group to take a good shot.
This matter also made Pan Yueming particularly moved, so after the movie was finished, the first thing he did when he returned home was to complete the wedding with Dong Jie at all costs, whether the wedding banquet was large or not, he didn't have the heart to care.
Half a year later, Dong Jieshun gave birth to a son, named "Top", which means that happiness has reached its peak.
But I didn't expect it, and it turned out to be a slur.
Just three months later, on May 13, 2009, Pan Yueming was in a car accident while filming the movie "For You" in Pingnan, Fujian Province, which caused his lungs to be squeezed and ruptured, and he was once notified of his critical illness.
After learning the news, Dong Jie rushed to the local area overnight, and at more than 2 a.m., she finally saw her husband lying on the hospital bed.
That night, the two did not say a word, and Dong Jie did not close his eyes, but quietly took care of Pan Yueming's side, carefully helping him wipe his body.
Under the care of Dong Jie, three months later, Pan Yueming was successfully discharged from the hospital and returned to work for the first time.
However, Pan Yueming did not expect that in the past year alone, the pillow people who used to be around to take care of themselves have changed their hearts.
Five
In 2011, Dong Jie entered the group to shoot the TV series "Please Forgive Me" and met the actor Wang Dazhi.
Wang Dazhi's appearance can be said to be ugly to "hopeless", but he has a strong "chasing women" skill.
Before meeting Dong Jie, Wang Dazhi chased after the nursery and Yuan Quan, and finally married Dai Lu, a beautiful actress who graduated from Nortel.
Yes, although Wang Dazhi already had a wife at that time, he still launched a "poor pursuit and fierce attack" on Dong Jie.
Not long after, Dong Jie fell, especially when Pan Yueming posted on Weibo to commemorate the third anniversary of marriage, Dong Jie responded with a meaningful sentence, "Love for three years, get married for three years, and itch next year." ”
In October 2012, the news of Dong Jie's divorce from Pan Yueming was exposed, and at the same time, her scandal with Wang Dazhi was also spread.
Just when the outside world was still thinking about whether to believe this revelation, Dong Jie's team took the lead and sent several microblogs and statements through the studio, accusing Pan Yueming of gambling and debt, and the woman not only had to pay off the debt, but also struggled to support the family.
On the other hand, when Dong Jie attended the event after issuing a statement, the camera facing the media also opened the famous scene of "tears before words".....
At the same time, the outside world has simultaneously appeared "Pan Yueming can't do it after the car accident" related revelations.
Dong Jie, who has further controlled the heights of public opinion, is almost victorious.
Including the statement made by Pan Yueming at that time, he did not win the sympathy of the outside world, and for a time, Pan Yueming became a "scumbag" in seconds.
In fact, for a long time afterwards, Pan Yueming was suppressed by Dong Jie and could not lift his head.
But Dong Jie did not expect that five months later, Zhuo Wei used several photos to disclose the truth.
Six
After the relationship between Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi was exposed, the outside world began to feel hindsight.
Including Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi's acquaintance with the drama that year, as well as various intimate interactions in the middle, they were all picked out by netizens.
More importantly, everyone has gradually discovered that Dong Jie does not look so "white lotus" on the surface.
Especially when Dong Jie was rumored to have been banned by Zedong Pictures, there were voices saying that it was caused by Wong Kar-wai at the behest of Liu Jialing.
The reason why Liu Jialing is full of hostility to Dong Jie is that there are rumors that the relationship between Dong Jie and her brother-in-law, that is, Liu Jialing's boyfriend Liang Chaowei, is "not ordinary".
At that time, after Dong Jie signed a contract with Zedong, he and Liang Chaowei had cooperated many times, the two sang together on the stage, participated in activities hand in hand, and every time they were photographed, the eyes of both sides were full of affection.
Especially in 2007, when Liang Chaowei was 45 years old, his girlfriend Liu Jialing was not around, but Dong Jie rushed to accompany him to celebrate his birthday, which caused a lot of controversy.
After this incident, Liu Jialing and Liang Chaowei ended their 20-year love run after a long-distance marriage the following year, and two months later, Dong Jie married Pan Yueming.
But the story of Dong Jie and Liang Chaowei is not over, in 2010, Liang Chaowei was photographed buying a couple bracelet, the media thought it was given to Liu Jialing, but did not expect to wear it on Dong Jie's hand afterwards.
Two months later, a netizen posted that Dong Jie was suspected of entering and leaving Liang Chaowei's hotel room.
Accidental? In fact, what is even more surprising is...
All of the above, in fact, are dong jie was exposed to cheating before being pulled out by netizens Shunteng, as for the truth or falsehood, free heart evidence.
Seven
After the truth came out, Pan Yueming was silent for a while.
Until 2017, it became popular through the web drama "White Night Pursuit" produced by friends 500.
During this time, spanning a full five years, Pan Yueming spent a full five years to pass through Dong Jie's "muddy waters".
Even now, Pan Yueming's "second spring" career is getting better and better, from last year's "Nuqing Xiangxi" and "Longling Labyrinth" to "Yunnan Bug Valley" that just ended last month.
For many viewers and fans, Pan Yueming deserves it.
But for Pan Yueming himself, it has not reached the point of "bitterness and willingness".
In fact, Pan Yueming is still seriously affected, for example, in the first two years, in the face of rumors such as "incompetence", he could only respond quietly during interviews.
In 2016, Dong Jie took her son to participate in the reality show "Mom is Superman", and the 7-year-old Dingding said that his father was busy at work and did not have time to see him, for a time, Pan Yueming was once again misunderstood not to care about his son.
In this regard, Pan Yueming can only respond "weakly" on Weibo, "dare to tell the truth ..."
Later, the agent Chen Zhixi really couldn't look at it, and launched a scolding war with Dong Jie, and broke the news that Dong Jie did not let the top see his grandfather when Pan Yueming's father was seriously ill and rescued, "looking like a white lotus, but it is actually a poisonous mushroom."
And for all this, Pan Yueming did not stand up and drop half a word to Dong Jie.
Perhaps, some people will think of the rumors that Dong Jie Pan Yueming reunited with the outside world before, and Pan Yueming has not deleted the Weibo of love with Dong Jiexiu so far, which has also prompted the outside world to speculate that Pan Yueming still has feelings for Dong Jie.
But the truth... Is it really that simple?
In fact, as early as the time of divorce with Dong Jie, pan Yueming, in order not to let the child be hurt in this storm, also semi-actively gave up the custody of the top and let the court judge the child to Dong Jie.
Including after that, Dong Jie did not let Pan Yueming see the child, and Pan Yueming had no complaints, but every year at 12:00 a.m. on February 5, Pan Yueming would send a microblog to celebrate his son's birthday.
Seeing this, anyone should understand that Pan Yueming has always been reluctant to completely demarcate the boundaries with Dong Jie, and the fundamental reason is that his son is at the top.
Although, as a father, Pan Yueming failed to participate in the growth trajectory of Dingding.
But even if there is even a glimmer of possibility, Pan Yueming is not willing to leave a bad impression in the heart of the top.
Pan Yueming is still as soft as ever, even though he is already scaly and injured, he is still willing to do everything he can for the top.
Therefore, even if Pan Yueming is no longer impeccable today, in front of his son's top, all his disguises can only "collapse violently".