I, Little Eye, Big Matchmaker, became a red bride after divorce and witnessed the marriage of 153 young couples
Narrator: Semyon
Finishing: Mr. Xiao Han
My name is Semyon, I am 36 years old, I once had a 7-year marriage, but I was eventually ruthlessly abandoned. Since then, I have been depressed for a while, and then I want to open up, rather than being uncomfortable with myself, it is better to do more meaningful things.
I was born in a small village in Yuncheng, Shanxi, the family is average, but my parents are kind and enthusiastic, usually treat people very tolerant, perhaps growing up in such a family environment, so that my personality is very elegant, usually do not say dirty words, not to be angry.
I did not go to college, mainly not good study, less than twenty years old, I came out to work, worked as a clerk, but also did square meter design, at that time spent thousands of dollars, studied for three months, and then did home decoration in this area of design.
I met my ex-husband by chance, he was not tall, skinny and black, but very spiritual, I liked to look into his eyes, like a very clean world, after we fell in love, we had a very happy life. But at that time, I didn't think about getting married, and I always felt that I was still young, but I was unexpectedly pregnant and had to get married.
After marriage, his attitude towards me has not changed, but some delicious and lazy, and there is no sense of family responsibility, always feel that he is still in love, and he ignores the chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea at home every day.
In addition to the children before the age of two to give us some living expenses, after I went to work, I did not give a penny, and sometimes asked me for money.
This marriage lasted for 7 years, and finally I filed for divorce, the children belonged to him, and I left with nothing but my own luggage.
Divorce for a woman is like jumping into a fire pit and being burned with her own whole body. I was no exception, depressed for a long time, my parents have been reassuring me, my father got up early every day to make a good meal, careful, afraid of making some noise to wake me up to sleep.
In fact, I had already woken up at that time, but I didn't go out of the room.
I was divorced, but let my parents follow the haggard, yu can't bear it, and then I thought about doing something, and I saw a program by chance, it was about the red bride, I suddenly thought, isn't it good to do this myself?
My parents gave me 60,000 yuan as my starting capital, the first two months, every day is to distribute various flyers, and then the network is also published. After 9 months, I finally succeeded in a couple, and at that time, I felt happier than the couple.
As a red bride, I attended their wedding, and when I took the stage to speak, I was so excited that I was incoherent.
In fact, in the process of being a red bride, many unexpected things have happened. Some men look for objects, do not look at the girl, but look at me, which makes me cry and laugh, somewhat embarrassed.
This kind of thing did not happen less often, and later I became accustomed to it, after all, I am not too old, and I am a very honest person, saying that I am single, and it is normal for someone to chase me, but without the person I like, I would rather be single and be a red bride, and not give myself a future marriage.
I have been doing this business for several years, and the age distribution of men and women who come to find a partner is roughly between 25-65 years old, and sometimes it is gratifying to see them holding hands successfully.
Of course, there are also those who just got married and divorced not long ago, and then came to me, in fact, some people's details, I don't know all about it, just about to visit and investigate, fortunately, many people are living very well now.
In the past two years, more and more people have been looking for a partner for the second marriage, and the conditions are surprisingly high. I've seen a man with two sons who wants to find a woman who earns more than 10,000 a month and a woman who has to turn in her salary every month, which is a bit excessive.
Women are the same, some women, average looking, do not have a good job, conditions put forward, can scare away a bunch of people, maybe this is the so-called fan confidence.
Since it is to find an object to get married and live a life, then according to the standards of ordinary people, first look at people, and then look at the material basis, first of all, it is to want this and that, basically can not find the object, even if you find the last together, you will not necessarily be happy.
In the years before and after, I witnessed 153 couples entering the palace of marriage, while blessing, but also advising them, to live a solid life, life is not easy, it is impossible to go smoothly, together, elbows will turn outward, do not cross at home.
The speaker has a heart, and the listener does not know whether he has it or not.