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Brief description of the event
Lang Lang and Li Yundi were both born in 1982 and are 39 years old this year. The artistic level of the two is loud internationally, but the styles are completely different. Li Yundi's performance is a kind of elegant and poetic style, but Lang Lang's expression is a bold and exposed style.
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Li Yundi
But now, Lang Lang has a successful career, husband and wife are harmonious, and this year he has successfully upgraded to become a father.
Lang Lang's family of three
Li Yundi, who is still single, was administratively detained by the Chaoyang police in Beijing for the sake of human animality. Completely buried his hard-earned career.
Receiving the news that Li Yundi was detained, Professor Zhaoyi was greatly angered. Unexpectedly, the proud disciple he had carefully cultivated would ruin his own beautiful future in this way.
But Professor Zhaoyi and Li Yundi
Soon, the Chinese Musicians Association and the China Performance Industry Association issued statements disqualifying him and carrying out industry boycotts.
Li Yundi's alma mater, the Sichuan Conservatory of Music, also took off the brand of "Vice Dean Li Yundi" of the Piano Art College for the first time.
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Li Yundi and Lang Lang's artistic path
Li Yundi is a native of Chongqing, giving people the impression of being personable and introverted. In 2000, 18-year-old Li Yundi was appointed by the state to participate in the 14th Chopin International Piano Competition, winning the first prize in one fell swoop, becoming the youngest performer in the 73 years since the establishment of the competition.
His performance was judged by the judges to be" as "the most perfect and poetic pianist in Chopin's playing style".
Lang Lang is a native of Liaoning, with a bold and direct personality. In 1999, Lang Lang participated in the Lavinia Outdoor Music Festival as an alternative performer. Coincidentally, the performer suddenly felt unwell before taking the stage and could not take the stage. In this way, 17-year-old Lang Lang stepped onto the stage as a substitute, and his passionate and perfect performance infected all the audience present. Since then, Lang Lang has become famous in one battle and officially stood on the international stage.
The excellence of Li Yundi and Lang Lang undoubtedly depends on their excellent parents. But Li Yundi's artistic path is much easier than Lang Lang's.
Li Yundi began to learn the accordion at the age of 4 in the company of his mother, began to learn piano at the age of 7 in the Children's Palace, and from the age of 9, his parents sent him to the famous piano professor in China, Professor Dan Zhaoyi, to learn the piano, and at the age of 12, he was admitted to the Sichuan Conservatory of Music with the strength of the first place. At that time, there were too few parents who could have such financial resources and understanding, and Li Yundi's parents could be said to be very good, and the family conditions were relatively superior.
Childhood Professor Li Yundi and Dan Zhaoyi
Lang Lang was carried to the piano bench by his father Lang Guoren at the age of 2 and began early cultivation. Also in 1991, Lang Lang, who had already made a name for himself in Shenyang, was brought to Beijing by Lang's father.
Lang Lang participates in the competition
Because Professor Zhu Yafen, who originally took him abroad, left a sentence before leaving: "If you want Lang Lang to have a better development, it is best to go to Beijing." ”
Professor Zhu Yafen was giving a lesson to Lang Lang
Lang's father, who was extremely confident in his son and himself, took Lang Lang to the highest school in China's art world: the Central Conservatory of Music. They found a piano professor, and Lang Lang played a piece of music vigorously, expecting a positive reply.
However, they could not imagine that this master's split head and face cover was a denial to Lang Lang, saying that he was "potato head, Bushido spirit, smashing and robbing style", could not talk about playing the piano at all, said that Lang Lang was worthless, and let them go directly to the second-class colleges. That is, when he returned to the hotel, both father and son were not convinced, Lang Lang stood in front of the window and cried silently, and Lang Lang's father said the words that made him regret his life in anger: "You either jump from here, or take medicine." Fortunately, the difficulties at that time did not repel the stubborn Lang father and son, they still succeeded!
Young Lang Lang
After Li Yundi and Lang Lang became famous, the road to art was smooth sailing, and performances and advertisements were soft. In terms of public welfare, the two have also been working hard. Li Yundi's elegance and introversion, Lang Lang's honesty and optimism, are also loved by the majority of piano children and parents, and more fans have become their fans because of variety shows.
Lang Lang does public welfare around the world
Li Yundi did public welfare in Yunnan, Wenchuan and Tibet
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Different family education and emotional experiences
In the face of the same excellent children, these two very important things, but the way their two families deal with them is completely different, that is: love, marriage!
In his autobiography " Thirty Years of Me and Lang Lang " , Lang Guoren tells in detail about the hard experience of a father who gave up his stable job for his son, accompanied his son without hesitation, as a nanny, as a psychological teacher, as a follower, without complaint or regret.
The book was published in 2012, the tenth year of my son's piano lesson. I am also the parent of the piano child who accompanied my son to the south and north to learn the piano like Lang's father, and I have a very deep understanding of these pains and pleasures described in his book. So every time I look at it, it makes me cry!
Central Conservatory of Music
As we all know, children who have studied in art colleges since childhood are more emotionally rich because of professional shops, and they are more likely to have early love. While Lang Lang was studying at the Central Conservatory of Music, Lang Guoren also discovered this phenomenon.
Therefore, he often instilled some ideas in Lang Lang: "A person should put his career first, and no matter what, he cannot affect his studies." Therefore, in the middle school stage, Lang Lang spent most of his time practicing and studying. He also didn't like his classmates who were not doing their jobs.
Ushinsky said:
"In education, everything should be based on the personality of the educated, only personality can affect the development and stereotyping of personality, and only personality can cultivate character."
According to Lang Lang's classmates, Lang Lang did not play with them once during his time at the Central Conservatory of Music, and did not appear on the basketball court once.
Lang Lang and classmate Fang Yuqing
When they studied at Curtis, they lived in a one-bedroom apartment arranged by the school, and In order not to affect his son's practice, Lang Guoren even cut vegetables to follow the rhythm of his son's piano.
Because Lang Guoren's original occupation was a civil servant, plus he was very good at capturing information and had a strong learning ability, he had a wider understanding of Lang Lang for so many years.
Therefore, on the road of Lang Lang's career development, Lang Dad is absolutely indispensable. Now Lang Guoren is the president of Beijing Lang Lang Culture Development Co., Ltd. and the president of Shenzhen Lang Lang Music World.
Lang Lang's father, Lang Guoren
It can be said that Lang Guoren is a typical Chinese-style parent, and everything about Lang Lang is under certain control, and he has never slackened off. Although Lang Lang has become famous at home and abroad, they are still very traditional in their bones. As long as you come to Lang Lang's business endorsements or activities, they must be controlled by Lang Guoren. He argues that:
The commercial activities in which Lang Lang participates must be closely related to the art of classical music, or the activity itself promotes the cause of classical music.
This is the heart of a child and a Chinese heart that the Lang Lang family will always maintain!
Lang Lang and Mom and Dad
As the name of the "Piano Prince" became louder and louder, and the people who gave Lang Lang a matchmaker were also endless, Lang Guoren refused one by one, for the simple reason: "Lang Lang is too busy!" ”
Born in 1987, Liu Yifei was born beautifully since childhood, and in 1997, 10-year-old Liu Yifei's parents divorced, and her mother Liu Xiaoli brought her to the United States.
Liu Yifei and her mother
Soon, Liu Xiaoli, who still has the charm, found a good job and married a lawyer. In this way, Liu Yifei and her mother's life is also very comfortable.
Five years later, because Liu Yifei liked to perform, Liu Xiaolin decided to return to China for the development of his daughter. Sure enough, Liu Yifei, who is in the "ceiling of appearance value", was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and became a professional actor. All kinds of advertisements also came pouring in.
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In 2003, 16-year-old Liu Yifei ushered in her famous work "Golden Powder Family", playing Jin Yanxi's cousin Xiuzhu, who was suddenly shocked! In the play, Liu Yifei, together with Dong Jie and Chen Kun, performed a pure "love triangle" that could no longer be pure. Since then, Liu Yifei has conquered all the audiences with her beauty and natural aristocratic temperament.
Chen Kun, Liu Yifei, Dong Jie
To say that renmei is lucky, this first shot has just started, and a few months later, another martial arts giant has found Liu Yifei. The broadcast of this TV series once again made Liu Yifei a mess, and the name of "Immortal Sister" was naturally worn on her head.
In 2006, Lang Guoren revealed in a media interview that a friend once told him that a girl named Liu Yifei liked Lang Lang and wanted to be Lang Lang's girlfriend. Lang Guoren directly prevaricated on the grounds that Lang Lang was not available. Later, when it came to the requirements for his future daughter-in-law, he spoke directly:
Only a royal woman deserves my lang lang
When his words reached Liu Yifei's ears, he got the following answer: "Playing the piano and cotton has not had much impact on me." She said this with a big smile, but it seemed to be a little different?
This paragraph should also be just a beautiful misunderstanding for Lang Lang and the public. However, the one who really touched Lang Lang's feelings should be Gong Xinliang. At that time, she did not have a plastic surgery, and her good looks, coupled with her curvy figure, were still very attractive to young big boys.
Gong Xinliang
Lang Lang and Gong Xinliang met at a party. Suddenly, Lang Lang was fascinated by Gong Xinliang, so he launched a passionate pursuit. Gong Xinliang lost her resistance, and she was conquered. Thus, a love affair belonging to Lang Lang began.
However, when they face the media, they unanimously deny it. Although their intimate photos have spread everywhere, they still have not reached the stage of marriage. Lang's father and mother resolutely stopped the relationship.
Mother Lang even made clear the conditions for choosing a daughter-in-law:
The future daughter-in-law must study Xiang Mendi, support Lang Lang's piano career, and at least the academic qualifications must be graduate students!
In this way, this 4-year relationship has been beaten into darkness before it has seen the light.
Until 2016, Lang Lang was invited to participate in the world famous piano concert held in New York City, USA. At this concert, he met a female pianist named "Gina" and was arranged to perform a four-handed "Turkish March" with Gina. This cheerful song flows out of the fingertips of this pair of young artists, and it has a different charm.
Lang Langina played with four hands
The performance was so successful that the two began to communicate privately. Lang Lang only knew that Gina was an authentic post-90s, and she was exactly 12 years younger than Lang Lang! That is to say, when Lang Lang played the piano for 5 years, Gina was born in 1994.
Gina from little beauty to big Gina
But fate didn't care about this, the old man under the moon was stunned that the two of them sat on the same stage, sat in front of the same piano, and played the same music! And Gina and Lang Lang had been taught the same master: Gary Graffman's student. Compared with Liu Yifei and Gong Xinliang, Gina met the standards of angelic faces and devil figures almost at the same time.
Gina
Soon, Lang Lang and Gina are in love! This time Lang Lang did not hide, and the bamboo tube poured beans generally showed off to his parents. Lang's father and mother did not mention the princess anymore, and they had no opinion on the mixed-race girl who was "walking" with their son in front of them, and expressed their full agreement.
Lang Lang and Gina
After the two of them got along, Gina did a good job, like a standard good wife and mother. Although she was a mixed German-Korean, he always had that kind of reverence for Lang Lang.
On June 2, 2019, Lang Lang and Gina held a grand wedding at the Palace of Versailles in France. Lang Lang specially played the world famous song "To Alice" full of love for his wife.
Lang Lang and Gina's wedding
And Gina, who has a high emotional intelligence, expressed her gratitude to Her Father and Mother at the wedding, saying:
Thank you for bringing the best man in the world, Lang Lang, to the world, and now, he will be my husband.
After marriage, the young couple moved back to China with more time and career, and Gina became a long-married girl.
They returned to the northeast for the first time after getting married and participated in the Spring Festival Gala of Liaoning Television Station. Gina generously presented the audience with a blessing with a northeastern flavor.
Lang Langina attended the Spring Festival Gala of Liaoning Television Station
Although it is still a little blunt to say, Gina's heart that longs to integrate into her husband's hometown has touched everyone.
The Lang langina and his wife were married to each other, and Gina received a Western education from childhood to adulthood. But that doesn't stop them from marrying and having children in accordance with our tradition. On January 28, 2001, Lang Lang and Gina's baby son was born. Gina first posted the good news on social platforms: "Small audience for family concerts, here he comes!" "The picture is two large hands holding a small hand, and the picture is full of warmth. This dynamic is followed by more than 10,000 blessings and more than 300,000 likes.
On May 7th, 100 days after her son was born, Gina generously posted two family portraits in addition to posting. It is also the envy of others.
Lang Lang's son 100 days group photo
Li Yundi and Lang Lang's experience before the age of 17 is basically no different. In order to accompany her son to study, Li Yundi's mother, Zhang Luyi, did not hesitate to give up her job and followed her 12-year-old son to the Sichuan Conservatory of Music to take care of her son's diet and living, even including piano sparring.
Li Yundi and mom
So much so that she herself became a piano teacher, and after her son became famous, she began to take students. The requirements for his son are also as strict as Lang Guoren,1 and he even thinks of using a sweater needle to hit his son's finger.
Zhang Luyi
For Li Yundi's discipline, Zhang Luyi was not inferior to Lang Guoren. She also has a veto power over Li Yundi's love affair. She even planned her son's future. Under such strict discipline, Li Yundi's appearance in front of everyone is the image of a well-behaved baby who understands politeness, introverted personality, and has a polite image. Under his mother's airtight "care", he never had his own ideas.
Li Yundi when he was a child
In 2000, Li Yundi became a hit in an international competition, and he was given the opportunity to study at the Hannover Conservatory in Germany.
This time, his mother Zhang Luyi and his father were not accompanied. The 18-year-old Li Yundi left his mother's arms and discipline for the first time and began a life of solitude.
This part of Hanover is often rainy, gray and gloomy, and the winter is particularly cold and long. After staying in such a place for a long time, people's emotions will naturally be affected.
Hannover Conservatory
Li Yundi is engaged in music, and naturally feels more likely to feel gloomy. What is even more pitiful is that Li Yundi recalled that during his time in Germany, the most difficult to forget was the instant noodles brought from Home!
At that time, his parents rarely contacted him voluntarily. Basically every time he called his mom. Zhang Luyi did not talk about his life, career, friends, and work, as if he was not interested at all. At most, ask, "Have you practiced seriously?" But Li Yundi was very disgusted by this issue. I just don't want to tell my mother.
Li Yundi has a gentle and elegant appearance, a modest personality, a person in a foreign country, naturally there is no shortage of beautiful girls secretly sending Autumn Waves. In 2006, Li Yundi's Taiwanese girlfriend Michelle, who had been together for two years, was exposed by the media. There are even rumors that Li Yundi bought a diamond ring worth six figures for her as a promise. However, when the news reached Li Yundi's parents, they expressed strong dissatisfaction with the matter, and eventually forced the two to separate.
Although there are many pictures of Li Yundi and girls eating hot pot and the like on the Internet, the only girlfriend who broke out from his own mouth is Tian Fei, a 25-year-old who graduated from Columbia University.
Before the news was announced, Li Yundi was ridiculed by the media for engaging in CP with Wang Lihong. In order to correct the audio-visual, Wang Lihong first posted his legitimate girlfriend, followed by Li Yundi also released his love affair with Tian Fei, and since then the wind and waves have been calm.
Li Yundi and Wang Lihong
As the saying goes, "men should marry, women should marry", if they had come together at that time and lived their own small lives steadily, there would be no tragic situation today.
However, frequent participation in reality SHOWs not only occupies a lot of Li Yundi's practice and working time, but also has more temptations for him to contact. In this regard, he did not have a strong ability to discern, and there were serious errors in making friends, which allowed himself to degenerate from a promising artist to a prostitute spurned by everyone.
Li Yundi participated in a variety show
In fact, he actually had a clue to this step. When Li Yundi was once asked on an interview program: "How long can you accept boyfriend and girlfriend to start intimate contact", he said: "A month." ”
People say "forty is not confused", 39-year-old Li Yundi still looks at his career and life like a child, willful, casual, and irresponsible; while Lang Lang lives a happy life with a successful career and a happy family. Life is very different from now on!
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summary
The psychologist Adler said:
Education beyond imparting knowledge is essential to develop the child's personality, cultivate and train the personality.
Although Lang Guoren was harsh on Lang Lang, he still attached great importance to the psychology of his children. He understands what kind of character his son is, and he has also been able to guide his son when he is confused; give him strength and think of ways when his son encounters difficulties; in ideological education, he can solve the knots in his son's heart in time and cannot relax at any time; in his son's career, he constantly learns and improves, helps his son to keep a good pass; in life, he is also a father and a mother, cooking and washing everything, and is an all-round father in his son's eyes.
It turns out that Lang Lang's path has been very straight. It is precisely because of the traditional concept of Lang's father and mother and the purpose of family education that they have made rational choices in the face of the opportunities that have come and gone.
Socrates said:
"When man has the dignity of the human person, he will not be willing to degenerate into an animal, and his character will naturally improve."
Li Yundi has come to this end, which is not unrelated to his family education. Although his mother was not wrong with his strict requirements from childhood. However, for the introverted Li Yundi, it is an inescapable oppression.
As the saying goes, "Where there is oppression, there is resistance." In the days of studying in Germany, Li Yundi's sorrow could not be dispelled. Without the discipline of his parents, he began to indulge himself, and to a large extent, human instincts triumphed over reason. As long as he catches the opportunity, he will bounce back exponentially.
Originally, he had been abroad for a long time, and he did not have a very clear concept of domestic laws and regulations. He thinks there is nothing wrong with "fair trade", but what he lacks is respect and reverence for the country's legal system.
The timely pleasure did not bring happiness to Li Yundi, but on the contrary, he was sent to the detention center. People without virtue, the more praise they get, the heavier they will fall!
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feeling
Facts have proved that parents can not only focus on one thing to manage, but should pay more attention to the child's personality cultivation, ideological changes, and his reasonable needs. Parents should have a certain psychological knowledge, rather than blindly strict discipline.