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The articulation of kindergarten and primary school is the articulation of two completely different education and environments from kindergarten to primary school, which is an important turning point for children on the road of growth, and it is also a critical period for testing parents! As the most important person around their children, what are the key points that parents are most likely to ignore and make mistakes in learning discipline? Here are 10 common details that parents can check for themselves:
1/ Always thinking about free-range children
Nowadays, there is no "free-range education", because the competition is fierce, and the laissez-faire education reduces the child's ability to learn. The difficulty of teaching content has also increased, and more and more children cannot keep up with the learning progress. "When I was a kid, I was everywhere. Even if you can't read and write, you will be taught in school. "What the older generation said is outdated, and parents can't blindly follow it."
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2/ Think that "bad grades" will not affect personality growth
If the child does nothing in early childhood, he will be sad when he enters school. Without learning the minimum reading and writing, arithmetic to enter the school, the child will spend every day in school like a year, falling into a state of "not understanding what the teacher is talking about". Then, the child will associate the feeling that "school is not fun at all" with the school, and cannot adapt to the rapid growth of campus life, which will have a great impact on the child's personality (personality plus temperament) growth.
3/ Settle for kids to count to 100
If you want to teach the concept of numbers, first let the child see the physical object, let him practice counting, and then teach the child the unit of measurement of each physical object. Counting and having the concept of numbers in your head are two completely different things.
4/ Do not teach children to watch the time
Understanding the clock does not mean that the child can say the time clearly, but understands the passage of time. Looking at time does not require any theory, in daily life natural contact can learn, "Baby, you look at the watch, there are still five minutes to 9 o'clock, almost ready to sleep Oh." "Parents can point to the clock and say so. Children who grow up in such a family learn to look at time before going to school.
5/ After reading the story, educate
The child himself will ask what he wants to know, and not asking means that he is not interested. Explaining things that are not interesting to the child will only make him miserable. Even if they don't fully know the correct meaning, the child can understand the general idea from the context. When reading picture books, don't always explain the painting and the text in it. Do not use picture books as textbooks, otherwise it will leave children with the impression of "must remember..." After reading the picture book, the child's heart is usually full of emotions, do not give him hard reasoning and pour cold water at this time.
6/ Do not read classic stories to children
There are many fresh picture books on the market, which are very popular with children, but it is not good to only read these picture books to children. Classic fairy tales such as "Cinderella", "The Ugly Duckling", "Little Red Riding Hood", "A Wolf and Seven Lambs", "Three Little Pigs", "Snow White" and so on are not only interesting, but also convey the concept of good and evil and the correct laws of life.
7/ Do not read tragic stories to children
Some parents believe that reading a picture book with a tragic ending to their children "will make the child become very violent", so they do not read it to their children. However, in order for children to understand from an early age to punish evil and promote good, it is necessary to listen to the story of the tragic ending. There are some classic stories that don't just talk about dreams, but also about reality, and these are also things that parents should pass on to their children. Children who do not know how to punish evil and promote good will be very dangerous in the future. On the other hand, the killing scenes in adult TV dramas, if shown to children, may really cause serious problems, so avoid them.
8/ Praise painting and belittle writing
Many parents like to praise their children's drawings, but they demean their children's words. Generally, if the drawing is not good, the mother will not ask the child to re-draw, but the words are not written well, and the mother will let the child rewrite. Therefore, the child will like to draw and hate writing, because he feels that writing is painful learning. Writing is actually a happy activity, so when the child does not write well, the mother please do not get angry.
9/ Correct typos with a red pen
When a child writes a typo, most mothers will mark the wrong word with a red pen and correct it and then remind the child of the correct way to write. In fact, this practice often reduces the child's desire to learn, and no child likes to work hard after being blamed. The correct way to deal with it should be to mark the correct words beautifully with a brightly colored highlighter. The reason why the child's words are not good is because the brain's instructions are not linked with the micro-nerves and muscles of the fingers, that is, the "neuromuscular coordination" is not cultivated, and if the correct glyphs are repeatedly practiced, the words written by the child will become more and more correct over time.
10/ Think that "it will be boring to know everything in class"
Children who know everything are actually the most serious in class, not only will they not be bored, they are simply happy in it. Even adults don't want to listen to lessons that they don't understand at all, and it's precisely because they understand and are interesting that they want to listen. The same goes for kids. Children who can understand will concentrate more on studying hard, and homework will be done well. Children who can't understand the lessons will hate the lessons, feel sleepy as soon as the lessons go, and want to get out of class faster. Don't let your child go to primary school, and then this kind of problem occurs, prepare in advance, and let your child understand a little.
In fact, everyone has their own way of disciplining their children, in the matter of learning, I do not advocate that children must become school bullies in the future, but I do not want children to face too many setbacks too early because of learning difficulties, at least now they can prepare in advance, so why don't we work hard?
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[One minute to know me: I am Bai Bai Bj, parent-child cartoonist, free cartoonist, coordinate imperial capital, comic columnist of many newspapers and magazines, the most influential author of many mother and baby websites, focusing on parenting comics and stick figure tutorials, and has published hand-drawn comic works "Little Cute Baby Cultivation"]